huhu I'm so excited for the romance to start. like slow burn and angst is sooo delicious. i was already kicking my feet in the air at the lil sticky notes and the lighthouse scene 🥹
i keep coming back to sanha's scene in ep6 at dinner. the feels omg. so relatable exactly how it feels after a hard day to come sit at dinner with your fam🥺 no judgements, some jokes to make you laugh and pure acceptance.
Okay, saying she wasted her talent in the past few years is a huge exaggeration. Unless you're a chungmuro star…
how has her career gone down? her last drama Welcome to Samdalri got double digits in ratings and was popular on Netflix as well. SYIMNL was popular overseas and had a lot of buzz despite the mixed reactions.
I posted a long rant on this drama, indeed it is a conversation starter lol! I am not sure if I agree with guilt…
all really valid points. thanks for that perspective 😊 it does seem he has been butting in her business all along, and not allowing her to move on. even then 4 yrs is a long time, it's as sad as it is infuriating.
and as much as I am upset with the writer, this drama page has had some of the best discussions on MDL lol.
Why is no one one complaining about the lack of logic in this show ? I am not talking about the mom buy everyone…
I think they will address that more clearly eventually. even now, sanha's dad has reiterated it multiple times it was their, the parents fault, not the kid's. he has called her weak and shut her down because she knows the truth but isn't ready to accept it. yoon appa and even sanha has called her out.
and she probably hasn't lived her best life either imo. she replaced the daughter but hasn't moved on a day from her daughter's death. i think that's a sad enough punishment, but we will get more atonement hopefully.
i also love sanha & haejun's bond so so much. they are teenagers with all of their teenage hot blood and occasional brooding and they are so realistically portrayed. but they aren't afraid to show their affection and defend and protect eachother. they do feel like real siblings and I love when tenderness is portrayed in boys/men's relationships because often in popular media it's quite the opposite.
i also love sanha & haejun's bond so so much. they are teenagers with all of their teenage hot blood and occasional…
also loved the innocence in haejun's line today "i didn't understand it before. how can i understand when i didn't know?"
it says a lot, often hurtful words come from a place of ignorance and lack of clarity, not apathy. a good advice or a snippet of life lesson is only realised when we are in the face of it. how else do you really understand something (a toxic family in haejun's case) when you have never seen one before?
Agree with you 100%. if you want the same old version, then what is the need for a director and producer and the…
and like what even is the point of complaining? their favorite drama hasn't gone extinct when the kdrama dropped lol. ppl can always rewatch if they love it so much. they are two different entities existing in completely different spaces.
this drama really is cathartic for me. it makes me cry so much, but i feel so attached to these characters that it feels good to cry. comforting even. it's the kind of tears that comes from love and care yk?
Exactly, eun ho has always loved her ex, so her getting back with him is not a surprise for me. I'm just laughing…
no both of them needs to heal. that exactly is the reason why a relationship and getting back together without any change in their dynamics is unhealthy. i wish they showed personal growth for both characters first
maybe a different perspective. i don't hate the ml like half the comment section do, neither have I ever rooted for the 2ml. because clearly his attachment to hyeri wasn't healthy either. just like eun ho to hyunoh. it was plain weird.
but do any of you think there's a bit of guilt tripping done too? guilt tripping the ML that is. why is he shown responsible for her health issues (not solely ofcourse) they had been broken up for 4 years, that's a long time. he broke up cuz he didn't want marriage or to thrust her into a life he considers excruciating. totally valid. now when we are exploring her troubles, it feels like the writing is pointing it back towards him. he was her sole reason of happiness, single point of stability. his absence was her final straw. same with ji on's conversation. isn't it unfair on him when for 4 years he didn't take an initiative to get back together for a reason but the trigger for him is the knowledge of her sickness, and how she loved him and didn't let him go even at the lowest point in her life. is that reciprocating love? or is it guilt? doesn't he deserve better too?
lol i gotta say this drama is a great conversation stirrer!
and as much as I am upset with the writer, this drama page has had some of the best discussions on MDL lol.
and she probably hasn't lived her best life either imo. she replaced the daughter but hasn't moved on a day from her daughter's death. i think that's a sad enough punishment, but we will get more atonement hopefully.
it says a lot, often hurtful words come from a place of ignorance and lack of clarity, not apathy. a good advice or a snippet of life lesson is only realised when we are in the face of it. how else do you really understand something (a toxic family in haejun's case) when you have never seen one before?
but do any of you think there's a bit of guilt tripping done too? guilt tripping the ML that is. why is he shown responsible for her health issues (not solely ofcourse) they had been broken up for 4 years, that's a long time. he broke up cuz he didn't want marriage or to thrust her into a life he considers excruciating. totally valid. now when we are exploring her troubles, it feels like the writing is pointing it back towards him. he was her sole reason of happiness, single point of stability. his absence was her final straw. same with ji on's conversation. isn't it unfair on him when for 4 years he didn't take an initiative to get back together for a reason but the trigger for him is the knowledge of her sickness, and how she loved him and didn't let him go even at the lowest point in her life. is that reciprocating love? or is it guilt? doesn't he deserve better too?
lol i gotta say this drama is a great conversation stirrer!