I often wonder if people dislike in others what they dislike about them.
haha i can see that point of view. this kind of emotional dependency is all too realistic, and dare I say many of us have been there at one point in life. i guess that makes it more frustrating, like surely the character can do better than us lol.
The writer acknowledges that life can be incredibly complex, especially when dealing with relationships, breakups,…
the drama is all of that absolutely, i wanted, hoped it would be all of that too. because it seemed promising, the direction and cinematography is out of this world. it still is complex, it still is layered, is beautifully enacted. but how is the message that a woman needs this co dependent emotional relationship with a man that's a direct result of her mental trauma a good thing? why have a female lead centered story that portrays mental health issues, a complex one at that, tada sorry no all she needed was the ml excuse me? especially when nothing has changed in their relationship.
i stuck around hoping this wasn't your usual kdrama and it plans to take a differing path. I'll stick around for the last two too, i don't think the writer plans to redeem anything tho.
note: this rant isn't directed at you if it comes off as too strong lol. I'm frustrated to say the least.
wow the writer really did make it seem like a break up is the gravest mistake in life lol. it's the end, finish line. ultimate stop. like the audacity? let the woman be stuck in the very same square she started from? how does it feel like to evolve backwards @writernim?
ep10 waaa it really does seem like the writer hates her own ML character and wants everybody to hate him too lol.
lmao not 3 men meeting up at her door
to kang juyeon as well - you came to me as I am. - is a beautiful line. but yeah clearly what these two people need isn't a relationship. it's healing. none of these emotional dependency and whiplash writernim hello!
ep10 it's extremely sad how co dependent to the ML eun ho was since the start of their relationship. it's sad but that's one realistic thing. emotional vulnerability and abandonment issues making it hard to detach from a person.
but how is any of that a justifiable enough reason for a toxic relationship? how is co dependency healthy? what's the writer smoking. shouldn't you be letting your character idk HEAL? and stand on her feet? be independent???
Despite the mixed reception, Dear Hyeri is apparently now the 2nd most buzzworthy ENA drama of all time (after…
lmao. think they released the 11th/final ep on OTT already in SK. been seeing knetz screaming about something lol i can't wait to know what happened. atleast SHS & kang hoon are getting good appreciation for this.
Something that bugs me in this version, is that they don't address the other dad as dad. In the OG Jian Jian and…
that's where it essentially differs from the og in my opinion. this drama is clearly more focused on the romance so they keep enough separation between the future couple so that the general audience aren't weirded out or creeped out by their relationship. they are more close childhood family friends than kids brought up by two dads (sanha's dad is still more or less an absent father) in this version.
that's the wider idea too, that they aren't a real family but a family nevertheless as it's not confined to a single definition.
ngl with all the negativity in the comments,i'm suprised this is still over 8 in the rating.Unless MDL has it…
plus i don't think this show is a beaming example of positive vibes either. it's a great show to discuss, it's complex and frustrating. worth the discourse but tiring too and dramas like these often get rated and reviewed low.
what even is the point of hyeyeon's character? hye joo seems wasted here even though she is listed as main. wish she wasn't merely a comedic relief or character for the occasional snippets of wisdom when the sml conveniently needs it.
ep9 goddamnn the cinematography? the fireflies scene looked straight out of a disney or ghilbi movie. director…
damn having two boyfriends of two different personalities of the same person meet. and the straight forward talk? interesting to say the least. that really must be a lot to bear for hyunoh
yes kang juyeon tell him! ask him what's important to him exactly
now it's getting good ahh! today's ep was really good even with the lack of screentime for eunho/hyeri. interesting way to end the episode but I really genuinely hope this is the beginning of the end and healing.
i hope the point of this show isn't just that ML & FL needs to be together. it didn't need that many episodes if that was the sole destination we were travelling towards. sure I want eunho to be happy and I do feel sad for Hyun oh, i understand him even though it's very hard to sympathise. but after all of this if all the drama wanted to do was to show how eunho needs hyunoh to be happy idk man. there are better paths to be taken. but I'll wait and see. oh and my man kang juyeon really needs therapy.
ep9 goddamnn the cinematography? the fireflies scene looked straight out of a disney or ghilbi movie. director really said I'm going all out haha. i keep praising the same thing week after week but it's that good!
exactlyyyyyy I keep hearing that word and it sounds the same way when its being said by them? like when Hye ri…
huh now that you say it I do feel like i have heard waenyamyeon one too many times lol. it's also the intonation of the word the leads use, it gets stuck in your mind.
ep7 well that was tiring but also that ending? excuse me? (and can we talk about the bg score? so good!)
ep8 i mean a marriage of convenience - that's not too weird suddenly right lol. it's a real tough drama to comment when ongoing since I feel like i quite constantly miss the bigger picture until it is revealed to me. i have learnt to just take the weird situations presented at face value and go with the flow
good god directorial brilliance is really a thing. the cinematography the camera panning the facial shots 🤌
i stuck around hoping this wasn't your usual kdrama and it plans to take a differing path. I'll stick around for the last two too, i don't think the writer plans to redeem anything tho.
note: this rant isn't directed at you if it comes off as too strong lol. I'm frustrated to say the least.
to kang juyeon as well - you came to me as I am. - is a beautiful line. but yeah clearly what these two people need isn't a relationship. it's healing. none of these emotional dependency and whiplash writernim hello!
but how is any of that a justifiable enough reason for a toxic relationship? how is co dependency healthy? what's the writer smoking. shouldn't you be letting your character idk HEAL? and stand on her feet? be independent???
that's the wider idea too, that they aren't a real family but a family nevertheless as it's not confined to a single definition.
that really must be a lot to bear for hyunoh
now it's getting good ahh! today's ep was really good even with the lack of screentime for eunho/hyeri. interesting way to end the episode but I really genuinely hope this is the beginning of the end and healing.
i hope the point of this show isn't just that ML & FL needs to be together. it didn't need that many episodes if that was the sole destination we were travelling towards. sure I want eunho to be happy and I do feel sad for Hyun oh, i understand him even though it's very hard to sympathise. but after all of this if all the drama wanted to do was to show how eunho needs hyunoh to be happy idk man. there are better paths to be taken. but I'll wait and see. oh and my man kang juyeon really needs therapy.
good god directorial brilliance is really a thing. the cinematography the camera panning the facial shots 🤌