GoddessJem

Fantastic drama, I cried, I was scared, I was nervous, I was angry, I cheered on and forgave a little but most of all I’m so proud of XLX because despite everything she survived and learned to love in her own way. Best of all in the end she chose satchel, herself and the life she didn’t get to live, after all she already lived and survived this one 💜😭💜

Lol I have to see things to end, but I’ll admit I have paused a few from boredom 🤣

🤣 you tried 😩, no it’s insightful, educational and inspiring, I’m watching for my actors. I can accept the plot, script and overall story whilst being disappointed by one part of a storyline.

I’m watching because it’s a great story about survival and women but I’m beyond disappointed with seeing such actions on tv no matter what times they are in. Sigh it’s sad

So what if he isn’t the male lead? Does being a ML give a man the right to rob someone of their own choice without ever consulting them first? Redemption and child or not his action no matter his reason, I’ll continue watching thank you very much and I’ll continue ranting even with a happy ending.

She didn’t slap him hard enough, the bastard! No matter how you feel about somebody you don’t get to take control of their life this way. Yes he doesn’t know who she is but come on he didn’t even speak to her first or even send a letter or a messenger something…..in truth he did it to stop Scholar Han from marrying her. Everyone saying she doesn’t love the scholar but she doesn’t love him either but we expect her to fall in love with him if he treats her kind and with respect, so she would’ve done the same with scholar Han. Then on top of all that she has to live through all her painful memories and be constantly judged my the elders in his family knowing they all abandoned hers to die. I haven’t wept for a drama for so long but to see someone’s life be used like that has really upset me. Good things these are 2 of my fave actors and in my eye Lui Xue Yi can never do any wrong as an actor.

Ahhhh I see! Thank you, could you tell us why he poisoned him?

I thought it was the empress dowager that poisoned him?

I have honestly not wept so much over a show for such a long time 😭😭😭😭. This show was amazing, the script and beginning is where a lot of people dropped it but if you stick through you’ll be rewarded. Is it perfect no, but definitely worth it. Dilraba gives the best performance I’ve ever seen from her, Artur is perfect as a young foolish general in an impossible love. For their characters I felt they acted well and I appreciated the real life she different. The costumes 😍😍😍😍, some of the best I’ve seen in a long time especially Didi’s my gosh! The CGI, they spent that money!!! I have a few nitpicks about the story, yes 😕 but overall it was worth the chemistry, costumes, CGI, OST and my tears!

Happy Ending!

Episode 18 is 1 hour long.

Episode 18. 😭😭😭 the actress that plays the mum is fantastic. You know it’s a brilliant episode when it’s 1 hour+!

If you let the rating and a little adult stuff in 1 episode put you off that’s a shame. This drama is a masterpiece and the female leads acting is top notch 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

This deserves more recognition and rating! When we ask for a strong Queen this is what we mean!!!

I love this drama, this is the type of historical dramas I’m obsessed with!! Planning, scheming and outmanoeuvring. Shame about the rating it’s really really good, the acting from the leads especially female lead 👌🏽

Was it as mind blowing and shocking as Season 1? No, season was has and will go down in history. From the start of it I knew we were being set up for season 3 and there’s would be different. I do also miss the back stories, that’s what made us love the characters in S1. Did I enjoy it and have a blast. Absolutely and I will be rewatching. When watching any sequel I always go in with the mindset that “a sequel is rarely better than the original” but all stories are worth completing.

Thank you snd thank you for clarifying.

Either way I think you and your family have an amazing story so you for sure deserve all of your credit.

I would defo give it a watch it 1000% worth it on both versions so far.

Thank you again 💜

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for reaching out and even messsging me privately. What a community 🫶🏾. I am okay and my inner child is healing healthily everyday took a while but we are getting there 😅.

Go Ahead is a very special drama for me and this version will be too.

I wanted to say that I know some parents do leave their kids for reasons beyond their control or for the better if the child, I’ve seen both versions good and bad and seen those parents return for the better and for the worst.

I hope these dramas teach us to heal our inner child and to know it’s okay to not want to be around toxic people no matter who they are. You’re not a bad person for putting yourself first, be selfish for your own healing.

Sending tons of love 💜🫶🏾💜

Exactly this it’s beyond her grieving right she’s been like this since day 1 in the c version I kinder got the bond but this version the lil girl is just a lil off. So manipulative so young.

First my hard off to you for doing what you do as foster mom. You are a Superwoman and God bless you what you are doing for YOUR kids I wish someone had for me would’ve saved me almost 40 years of pain. I can tell you that sincerely and honestly blood and biology does not make you a family, the love you pour into each other and the bond you create do.

My mum did come back for me when she did I was abused in almost every way possible for almost 12 years, I had half siblings and step siblings. I always knew I was different even though to this day I’ve never been told why. I struggled with a lot and everything you can think off but at the peak of my depression in 2021 I stumbled across Go Ahead. I wept, laughed watching it but it was a real eye a for me that I needed professional help. I’m in therapy now and it has worked wonders I didn’t believe in it before but do now.

Yes both versions are worth watching I laughed more with the C version it’s one of my highest rated drama but this version is beautiful in its own way and I’m interested to see how they finish this version too. So definitely watch both!

Once again thank you for stepping up, I do understand why people end up looking for their biological parents, you suffer from a sense of identity or and get the urge to know where you come from, you also do feel like a burden and out of place but that’s something only you can fix for yourself. Don’t take this personally “a tree with no or little roots will easily be bend or broken by the winds” that summed it up for me.

As a foster mum I’d only ask you always remain impartial, never take their biological journey personally, pour love into their inner child everyday and always be their root.

Thank you again and sorry for my long message. 💜🫶🏾