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If you claim you loved someone and want to be with that person (especially if you claimed you made a mistake the first time by not choosing her), you make extra effort to fight for it or simply even confirm the news .

I don’t know about you, but I know jealousy makes people over react especially if you’ve been betrayed by an ex spouse before and the current spouse isn’t being honest and transparent.

Yes, he should have. But the couple acted sneakily. The divorce was also about Zhang. I know I will be very upset if my partner wasn’t entirely honest with me. Fang was very honest with her about his own previous relationship.

He’s been flirting with her since he came back. Don’t tell me you don’t recognise flirting (he was even more determined with it when he noticed her husband was a taxi driver). This is the guy who didn’t give a F even when he knew 4th sister had a big crush on him. Pretended he didn’t know why she was mad at him. I mean everyone one knows when someone is crushing on them talk more of people that close. The tone of the letters she wrote him was very obvious too. To him, she is an after thought option(obvious in the later episodes with his action once his preferred wife returned.

It’s 5th sister she was going to give away because her husband wouldn’t acknowledge her at first (born by C-section and his wife almost died). Also, gave her own surname (Liu).

Sadly, the mother doesn’t even notice it and instead thinks she’s about to steal the house from her.

True. The mother I do not understand at all. But, this drama is true to life. Some mothers, especially those with lots of kids tend to be biased to their kids and show it too. In conservative times like the one shown in this drama, it was even considered normal.
I think it’s because with so many kids, the woman couldn’t bond with any except the last one which she had the time to raise herself. If she had a 7th one, I’m sure that one will be her favourite 🤭. See how she had all them close in age except the first and 2nd. Also, she didn’t raise the 1st. The grandma did and only brought her when she was 10. How will they even be close.

The 6th sister is the most entitled arse, gosh 🤦

I didn’t. I just didn’t connect that her dropping earlier caused her to be a human baby instead of an 18 year old like her sister. Thanks for clarifying.

Sadly

Did they overlook the writing or what? Xu RanRan was reborn as a baby and then grew up. While her sister is born a full blown adult 😵‍💫?

Exactly. People need to ask how they would feel if their partner/significant other did same exact thing to them. This way they will have a sense of why we say 4th sister was in the wrong.

I do not agree. Openness and honesty are what keeps a relationship going.

She basically lied to the man. Said they were just neighbours and she didn’t recognise him ashen he was picked up from the airport (all lies). Also, didn’t put any boundaries and still holds some love for him. If she didn’t have any guilt she would have been more open to her husband. That alone is a reg flag. Yes, the husband is marking his territory in an aggressive way, but most people (male or female) will react so when they see a person they just carried out and about in a restaurant with their partner. If she had acknowledged the neighbour when they first picked him up and introduced the husband, I am sure he won’t even think anything of seeing them together. Let’s not even forget the weird question the neighbour was asking about his wife and declaring he was divorced. You can tell both their intentions are bad.
Anyway, let’s see how it goes. U do hope the man doesn’t suffer another cheating heartbreak.

Of course! That’s the only reason she turned the guilt to her husband. Guilty people do this all the time. They gaslight the other person and make them look stupid (when indeed they are the guilty ones).
Funny thing is that her neighbour isn’t even right for her. He treated her badly (pretending he didn’t know she was into him and dumped her). He even went on to marry. Now, he’s coming back to her as an after thought after he has been dumped.

It’s why it’s best to marry who you share values with and love, instead out of ticking off a list.

It funny how the 4th sister made her husband look like he is imagining his suspicions. Meanwhile, she’s the one who is in love with her “EX”. Of course, since his first wife cheated on him, it’s normal for him to be paranoid.

I was expecting this drama to suck me in from the first episode considering the genre. But, it's been so good thus far.

Yes, me too. This has spoiled people and people have forgotten reality. This is why they are complaining a lot about this drama and the way the cast look. 🤭. It’s realistically with the times.

I agree with you. Also, life then was especially hard in China and people often looked older because they are forced to grow up quickly and take responsibilities (make money, care for younger siblings, school, and general hard life tasks)

He is quite odd looking with that hair 🤭.