It is little bit icky for me that fl & her sister or half - sister will share same husband. Especially her niece…
Understandable for sure. It was actually very common in the olden days, partially to protect the children. An Aunt/stepmom would not mistreat her own relation or steal inheritance. (Hopefully)
I just started this a few days ago so I don't have a strong opinion (except that high ponytail has got to go!) but it's so refreshing to see you guys giving honest critique and opinions without people jumping all over you. If you don't like the acting/character whatever, it's not taken as a personal attack on any of the other viewers. Well done for healthy discussion! I'm enjoying this show so far, the FL is interesting and I like that she isn't revenge crazy
In the novel, Yi Fan doesn’t abandon Sang Yan a second time. Instead, Sang Yan lost patience and went to Yihe…
@CasualCDfan I hear you. Up until that arc this drama was a 10/10 now I would say 7/10 for me. Such a bummer! Will probably drop it too. The toxicity of this page also ruined it. Having a different opinion is allowed, no need to get personal or nasty. *Sigh time to move on to something more positive and open
the way you belittle someone's way of coping to trauma....i hope you never experience trauma in ur life this is…
It's not my intention to belittle her trauma, I just don't believe experiencing trauma gives you free licence to hurt others. And as to the comment above, you have to agree her ability to choose the worst place to live is something else. Like in the 2nd episode she asks Sang Yang to sit down in her horrible apartment and he replied No thanks, that made me laugh. Nothing personal
And what is funny about it, yall are carrying the issue about her leaving him on ur head so much.
I actually do know what reactive attachment disorder is. My dear friend adopted a child with this condition. It can be caused by a variety of things but basically the person with this disorder lacks the developmental ability to form strong connections and bonds. I don't think this applies to the FL. I would say she has PTSD and is emotionally stunted due to trauma but she can still form close bonds with people. (It's just slower) Yes, let's see how it goes
And what is funny about it, yall are carrying the issue about her leaving him on ur head so much.
I do understand why. I m just upset about the pain and confusion she inflicted on others. I'm disappointed she abandoned the person who fought for her. That's all. Yes I know she is broken, traumatized and repeating old patterns. That doesn't erase the effect of her choices. I'll stop being upset when I see her actually fight for Sang Yan and put effort into the relationship not just with words but actions
And what is funny about it, yall are carrying the issue about her leaving him on ur head so much.
Yeah, loyalty and communication are important, so straight up abandonment really bothers me. If you can't understand why people are upset about it then there is no point discussing with you.
Next time she runs away on him, Sang Yan just needs to search for the most decrepit, run down apartment and he'll find her (kidding! But seriously, those apartments are gross)
@ Vanessa I agree with you. " Are we supposed to accept that the FL's trauma can break others with no consequences?"…
I blame the writers for having her run away when she said she would fight for their relationship, and not hurt Sang Yan the same way twice. The consequence of needing to win back trust that she broke when she abandoned him. Of putting in effort and not being passive. You are entitled to your opinion that the FL can do no wrong and I'm entitled to mine that she can
Despite minor things that made little sense to me, I enjoyed the drama, but the HK arc was the camel in the back.…
@ Vanessa I agree with you. " Are we supposed to accept that the FL's trauma can break others with no consequences?" A lot of people on here say yes, you have to accept it. I don't agree and it leaves a bitter taste. I blame the writers
some people here need to realize that showing emotional maturity, courage, selfless love and understanding is…
The word is being thrown around a lot, what would your definition be? I think for many it's a ML who completely revolves around the FL in a way that's over the top. Who allows himself to be mistreated and disrespected by FL and never complains but worships her and showers her with love no matter what. Never voicing his own needs or boundaries, never holding the FL accountable for actions or behaviors that are selfish/hurtful. Generally being a pushover. Whether or not that describes Sang Yan is up to everyone's own opinion. I personally think SIMP is too harsh. I do feel frustrated with the FL's lack of emotional maturity and effort in the relationship. Is it understandable given her trauma? Yes. Is it still not very healthy? Also yes. Hoping she can really love on Sang Yan in these last few episodes to show that she has grown and matured.
I agree. It makes it feel like the relationship is unequal. Sang Yan gives unconditional love, he should receive…
I hear what you are saying, but it's still frustrating to see the imbalance and dysfunction. The characters are going through growth and I hope it keeps developing
You all are funny. Really, Love = equal contribution?In the end you think everyone can face trauma like all the…
Wow. You're a real expert. How dare other people have opinions about a story and the characters? STOP EVERYONE! No more comments. Ifrosted is the only person who understands about love and trauma. Sheesh
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Peace!