Jyte12

Of course. But she made all those compromises inside her chest, by herself. And I get the need to not act like you're overreacting but if you don't feel safe enough in your relationship to point out your uneasiness to your partner, isn't that a bigger issue?

I can get behind this argument.

Lol. I'm just old and probably a lot less likely to see romantic intent behind every kind/friendly action.

Then have a conversation. Talk things through. Take a break if need be. It's not a minor thing, it's a relationship-threatening thing. My grouse is that her immediate reaction was to break up. That's on her. And her taking him back proves she realises at some point that breaking up was extreme.

He did not cross any lines. Giving her his jacket when she was cold was flirting? He was kind/nice to her. Motivated by the fact that he liked her? Maybe. This thing that being kind/talking to to anyone you're not in a relationship with is flirting is just weird as heck to me. That means one should not make any new friends once they're coupled up.

Saw a lot of hate for Babi on some other platform and I was so worried for how he would hurt Yumi. Now up to ep 9 and this is it? Really? He had feelings for another woman, didn't act on it at all, tried to get over his feelings (when he realised he had them) and he's a bad guy? Do folks really think liking one person means you are automatically immune from liking anyone else? Personally, I'm annoyed at Yumi. What is she? 16? Your boyfriend likes someone else. Of course it hurts. But you decide to throw the whole relationship away because of that? Ugh. This is what unrealistic romantic expectations causes.

Edit 1: Eek. Still no proper conversation before they started dating again. Now I think about it, their relationship was pretty much romance and vibes.

The plot is cake.

Uh. People start saying something and then change their minds. I'm so over it. It's just a lazy writing device at this point.

24 of 36 Nigerian states have adopted the Child's Rights Act which puts age of consent at 18. To make a blanket statement like the one in this comment is misinformation.

Keep waiting to see from the comments if the show redeems itself but I guess it's a downhill slide all the way.

First episode and I'm liking this. Everyone is so cute.

All I'm saying, they better not make the stalker some kind of victim. He better be in beaten till comatose, dead or in jail when this ends.

Zany in the best possible way. The exaggerated fight scenes had me smh but I guess that's okay since the comedy is over-the-top anyways. Love the chemistry between cafe staff.

"The angst is delicious" is so spot on.

This makes sense. There are usually one or two supporting characters who provide comic relief in a drama like this. Here we have almost all the main characters playing that role. Hopefully, it's better handled in the subsequent episodes. Nice to finally figure out what my issue is.

I'm a fan of comedic historical dramas. Loved Secret Royal Inspector and Joy. Maybe that's it. I wasn't expecting this much comedy (at least not from the trailer or tags) so it threw me off a lot. Will certainly come back to it.

Perfect sum up. This was BL was the biggest disappointment for me. I kept hoping they'd get back on track. Alas.

I'm really glad my not being able to get into Ep 3 doesn't bother you at all. :)

I'll try that. Thanks.

Lol. No need for the "minority" jab. I like the drama. Wouldn't even think of coming back to it later if I didn't.

I made my comment in the hopes that someone else understood what I was talking about and could help me figure out why I have this issue. If you read it as a diss to the drama or people who love it, it's not.