I think some people here need to understand that this show is about two fuckbois who end up as FBW (friends with benefits). By the sheer definition of the term, those are NOT people who are romantically involved, so they are NOT going to have romantic sensual sex π (unless they fall in love with each other later, which is no doubt going to happen). That's just not the point of this show atm. They are, however, going to have consensual, primal give and take, which in most cases is going to be rushed & aggressive. Bruhhh... have you ever heard of anyone hooking up in a club expecting to spend a romantic night?!π If you feel that this show "isn't realistic" or "there is no chemistry between the leads", you are probably too emotionally inexperienced / haven't seen enough life to watch it. And that's ok, everyone should take their timeππΌ. But realistically speaking, life is more brutal than many of y'all seem to imagine it to be LOL. No princes on a white horse, I'm afraid. Regardless, it just means that you are not the target audience of this show. Sorry dude...π
I find it hilarious how the current rating of this show is 13+, and at one point there was this whole talk about making this an Only Fans thing. LMAO Talking about desperate marketing tactics LOL.
Personally, I don't know what the whole fuss regarding this show is about. Please note these are 18+ characters,…
Yeah, I agree with the double standard comment. Just because someone appears naive & innocent, doesn't mean that whatever they do is "in their defense" and forgivable.
LMAO, good thing i haven't gotten to the "sick" comments. People who are so eager to throw those stones should probably first check if they're emotionally fully satisfied with where they are, cuz something obviously really triggers them. And usually there is a reason, and it's not funny - just sayin π€« Or they're just emotionally too young. Not trying to call anyone out, just making an observation π
I mean this unironically, please stop watching it if it triggers you in any way, or if you simply don't like unhealthy…
Personally, I don't know what the whole fuss regarding this show is about. Please note these are 18+ characters, and if you yourself (talking to the general audience, nobody in particular) are not 18+ this might be the reason for you feeling uneasy, just saying. Maybe, just maybe, you are too young to watch this without feeling like your current outlook on life is violated?
ANYWAY, my points are:
Rain could've stopped Payu at any point, if he REALLY had wanted to. It's just that his refusals were half-assed cuz Rain was clearly into Payu from the very start. And Payu could feel that, so he kept going. Notice that in both episodes, during the NC scenes when Rain eventually lets Payu do his thing, Payu takes time to observe Rain's reaction, before he continues. And Rain's reaction is clear af. That's not a look of a person who's not fully enjoying themselves LOL. And when Rain finally firmly says no, Payu immediately backs off. He also doesn't take advantage of Rain when he's asleep etc., even tho he clearly has quite a few chances to do that.
That aside, I don't really think "asking for consent" before kissing is a thing. Of course consent is crucial, so you observe the general reaction and circumstances, and that IS a thing. Don't force yourself on someone who clearly doesn't like you. Generally speaking tho, if a person continually makes advances on you, and tries to kiss you, I would assume they give you consent to kiss them when you're ready LOL. Cuz like...how exactly should asking for consent before kissing look like? The timing is right, the mood feels right and you interrupt by saying "excuse me, can I kiss you" LMAOπ I mean sure...if you're into it... But yeah, I would rather use my emotional intelligence instead, and not approach people who I don't feel are into me, at all.
So "gays focus alot on skin(ship)", cuz there are no straight shows that include explicit NC scenes? Right.....π
Dude, I don't discriminate, Asian or non-Asian. I watch all films and shows, regardless of their origin - as long as I like them. And I hate to break it to you, but generally speaking there are tons of steamy sex scenes in straight shows, worldwide. LGBTQ+ shows are in minority, no joke.
I think you are confused trying to understand what I had written in the first place.
But since you push for the *Asian* setting (cuz bruh...for whatever reason Western shows don't matter?), here it goes. I'm not too much into straight romance shows nor films, but I asked my friend, and she recommended Empire Of Lust, A Frozen Flower and The Handmaiden, to name just a few. But there's a whole ass thread on this topic on MDL, if you'd like to dig into it LMAO.... https://kisskh.at/discussions/recommendation-forum/38602-sexiest-korean-or-chinese-dramas
By popular demand: Comparing the iqiyi and yt ep 2 versions, there is no cut/uncut version. EDIT: there is a small cut of approx 3-5 sec in the yt version. Nothing groundbreaking, but yeah...it's there.
This show is lit. The spanking tho....tf just happened πππ Is it some weird foreplay or did I just see a grown man spanking another grown man LMAO...I cannot
If you feel that this show "isn't realistic" or "there is no chemistry between the leads", you are probably too emotionally inexperienced / haven't seen enough life to watch it. And that's ok, everyone should take their timeππΌ. But realistically speaking, life is more brutal than many of y'all seem to imagine it to be LOL. No princes on a white horse, I'm afraid. Regardless, it just means that you are not the target audience of this show. Sorry dude...π
That was a rhetoric question. I was marveling at the stupidity of the show.
LMAO, good thing i haven't gotten to the "sick" comments. People who are so eager to throw those stones should probably first check if they're emotionally fully satisfied with where they are, cuz something obviously really triggers them. And usually there is a reason, and it's not funny - just sayin π€« Or they're just emotionally too young. Not trying to call anyone out, just making an observation π
Please note these are 18+ characters, and if you yourself (talking to the general audience, nobody in particular) are not 18+ this might be the reason for you feeling uneasy, just saying. Maybe, just maybe, you are too young to watch this without feeling like your current outlook on life is violated?
ANYWAY, my points are:
Rain could've stopped Payu at any point, if he REALLY had wanted to. It's just that his refusals were half-assed cuz Rain was clearly into Payu from the very start. And Payu could feel that, so he kept going. Notice that in both episodes, during the NC scenes when Rain eventually lets Payu do his thing, Payu takes time to observe Rain's reaction, before he continues. And Rain's reaction is clear af. That's not a look of a person who's not fully enjoying themselves LOL. And when Rain finally firmly says no, Payu immediately backs off. He also doesn't take advantage of Rain when he's asleep etc., even tho he clearly has quite a few chances to do that.
That aside, I don't really think "asking for consent" before kissing is a thing. Of course consent is crucial, so you observe the general reaction and circumstances, and that IS a thing. Don't force yourself on someone who clearly doesn't like you. Generally speaking tho, if a person continually makes advances on you, and tries to kiss you, I would assume they give you consent to kiss them when you're ready LOL. Cuz like...how exactly should asking for consent before kissing look like? The timing is right, the mood feels right and you interrupt by saying "excuse me, can I kiss you" LMAOπ I mean sure...if you're into it... But yeah, I would rather use my emotional intelligence instead, and not approach people who I don't feel are into me, at all.
Yeah, I had a feeling think this conversation wasn't going anywhere.
Lost in translation much?π
Peace out.
I think you are confused trying to understand what I had written in the first place.
But since you push for the *Asian* setting (cuz bruh...for whatever reason Western shows don't matter?), here it goes. I'm not too much into straight romance shows nor films, but I asked my friend, and she recommended Empire Of Lust, A Frozen Flower and The Handmaiden, to name just a few.
But there's a whole ass thread on this topic on MDL, if you'd like to dig into it LMAO....
https://kisskh.at/discussions/recommendation-forum/38602-sexiest-korean-or-chinese-dramas
Comparing the iqiyi and yt ep 2 versions, there is no cut/uncut version.
EDIT: there is a small cut of approx 3-5 sec in the yt version. Nothing groundbreaking, but yeah...it's there.
The spanking tho....tf just happened πππ Is it some weird foreplay or did I just see a grown man spanking another grown man LMAO...I cannot