They definitely needed so much more time. I feel the new guys were delayed because they were to stir things up,…
Of course they were delayed cuz they were meant to stir things up, but there was nothing to stir if they hardly had the time to get to know each other on a superficial level, not to mention develop any feelings for each other. The crucial point here that a lot of people seem to be missing is that this is a Korean show. That generally means things such as getting to know each other, and getting through Korean social etiquette-related restrictions in order to truly show who they are, are going to progress at snail pace. Meanwhile American dating shows having like 50+ episodes and an outgoing cast kissing in the first episode๐ Yo, this could not have worked.
I think they are now talking about ep 9 when he AGAIN chose someone entirely else.
Right. Ok, it's a dating show, fine. Nobody's anybody's bf at this point either. But it's the FIRST KOREAN GAY dating show, and letting literally any guy get touchy feely with you is questionable for a Korean. Chang Min dude, don't make us all look like fuckbois, cuz that look ain't flattering in the public eye, and it's going to bring more harm than good to the LGBTQ+ community in SK.
I think they are now talking about ep 9 when he AGAIN chose someone entirely else.
No, they didn't get to choose, or at least nothing pointed to that. None of them did. Hyeon just suggested he should stay with Chang Min "cuz they both surfed", and CM rolled with it.
This might be true for you, or maybe you just got lucky. But I feel it isn't true for a large number of us. And…
LMAO can't argue with that. Although if it happened on Korean TV, in the first gay dating show ever, we'd have no life in Korea lol. The show is already controversial as it is.
I don't know why everyone thinks a week isn't enough time to make a connection, especially when they're living…
This might be true for you, or maybe you just got lucky. But I feel it isn't true for a large number of us. And hey, you have 8 guys there, so what are the odds that all of them are so lucky as you are? I'd say 1:8, IF THAT ๐ And it takes two to tango.
I think they are now talking about ep 9 when he AGAIN chose someone entirely else.
No, I agree to a large extent. I think you are trying to explain this to the wrong person.
Although, to be fair, he did give hope to Hyeon by what he had said earlier, during the "make-up" date, which calls into question his other declarations about his feelings towards Jeong Hyun. And taking Korean dating standards into account, he probably should've made himself clear to Jeong Hyun in such a situation instead of making him miserable. I mean if he likes him, don't you think he should consider his feelings too, and not just go with the flow? Cuz for - again - Korean standards, by entertaining everybody's interest in himself Chang Min is starting to look more like a fuckboi than a bf prospect. Dude literally never says no, at least not at first. It seems to me he only rejects guys when he is sure he's got a better option. It looks like he enjoys the attention he's getting and doesn't mind leading people on. Toxic much?
Potentially ofc, we don't know him irl, so not passing any final judgement here. For all we know, this could be scripted like his last dating show, apparently ๐. I'm just saying how it looks like.
Imagine casually hooking up with someone 3 times and getting engaged to them right after. Cuz that's the next logical step, right? ๐๐ And we're not even talking about arranged engagement, LMAO
I love the idea of this show, but damn...it's just badly planned and executed.
First, who can truly develop strong romantic feelings with cameras around and multiple people to choose from within a WEEK? This process should last at least 3-4 weeks in order to give them all a chance to get to know each other, especially taking into account how introverted most Koreans are.
Second, the dating system seems to be a bit flawed. And I think the producers have noticed it, hence the last minute make-up dates LMAO. Again, when all the guys keep choosing the same two dudes, there aren't really any chances to truly get to know each other.
Third, the last two guys came in for what - like 2, 3 days? That's honestly nothing. That's why all the men are going solely for Chang Min and Hyuk Jun - based on looks and their "cool" factor. There is just not enough time and space to really get to know everybody's personalities, and at the end of the day you don't date your partner's looks, you date their personality and who they are as a person LMAO. Of course, looks matter, but looks alone without a personality match are meaningless. On the other hand, slightly less ideal or unexpected looks with the right personality can be everything.
Lastly: Chang Min - Stop being a man whore and focus on your guy. Or just ONE guy. Chan Gyu- He is so desperate for love it hurts. Damn, this dude is going to be fucked over so many times if he keeps this up. I feel sorry for him, cuz he's a real good guy and deserves a caring bf. Honestly, he's too good for this show, he should leave the house.
Cue loud swoon-worthy music. Kamol taking his meds FOR WHOLE 40 SEC (believe me, I counted). Or supplements. Or whatever tf this product placement was. ๐๐๐
At this point I think the production team must be trolling us.
Why do I keep thinking that Itt has hots for Kim? I mean, the guy has complimented Kim more times than Kamol whoโs…
Damnnn sis, I was thinking the same thing ๐Either that or the actor who is playing Ith got too much into his role. I mean, I don't blame him, Ton is a snack ๐
I think you are forgetting that for years Thailand was know for it s*x tourism (often underage), not to mention…
I'm not sure it works like that either in this show or under the law, but sure. My point is, logic & morality in this show seem to be a bit skewed ๐
The crucial point here that a lot of people seem to be missing is that this is a Korean show. That generally means things such as getting to know each other, and getting through Korean social etiquette-related restrictions in order to truly show who they are, are going to progress at snail pace. Meanwhile American dating shows having like 50+ episodes and an outgoing cast kissing in the first episode๐ Yo, this could not have worked.
Ok, it's a dating show, fine. Nobody's anybody's bf at this point either.
But it's the FIRST KOREAN GAY dating show, and letting literally any guy get touchy feely with you is questionable for a Korean.
Chang Min dude, don't make us all look like fuckbois, cuz that look ain't flattering in the public eye, and it's going to bring more harm than good to the LGBTQ+ community in SK.
Although, to be fair, he did give hope to Hyeon by what he had said earlier, during the "make-up" date, which calls into question his other declarations about his feelings towards Jeong Hyun. And taking Korean dating standards into account, he probably should've made himself clear to Jeong Hyun in such a situation instead of making him miserable. I mean if he likes him, don't you think he should consider his feelings too, and not just go with the flow? Cuz for - again - Korean standards, by entertaining everybody's interest in himself Chang Min is starting to look more like a fuckboi than a bf prospect. Dude literally never says no, at least not at first. It seems to me he only rejects guys when he is sure he's got a better option. It looks like he enjoys the attention he's getting and doesn't mind leading people on. Toxic much?
Potentially ofc, we don't know him irl, so not passing any final judgement here. For all we know, this could be scripted like his last dating show, apparently ๐. I'm just saying how it looks like.
First, who can truly develop strong romantic feelings with cameras around and multiple people to choose from within a WEEK? This process should last at least 3-4 weeks in order to give them all a chance to get to know each other, especially taking into account how introverted most Koreans are.
Second, the dating system seems to be a bit flawed. And I think the producers have noticed it, hence the last minute make-up dates LMAO. Again, when all the guys keep choosing the same two dudes, there aren't really any chances to truly get to know each other.
Third, the last two guys came in for what - like 2, 3 days? That's honestly nothing. That's why all the men are going solely for Chang Min and Hyuk Jun - based on looks and their "cool" factor. There is just not enough time and space to really get to know everybody's personalities, and at the end of the day you don't date your partner's looks, you date their personality and who they are as a person LMAO. Of course, looks matter, but looks alone without a personality match are meaningless. On the other hand, slightly less ideal or unexpected looks with the right personality can be everything.
Lastly:
Chang Min - Stop being a man whore and focus on your guy. Or just ONE guy.
Chan Gyu- He is so desperate for love it hurts. Damn, this dude is going to be fucked over so many times if he keeps this up. I feel sorry for him, cuz he's a real good guy and deserves a caring bf. Honestly, he's too good for this show, he should leave the house.
It's so ridiculous and frankly unrealistic how he doesn't even give a second thought to whatever shit Kamol is involved in LOL
Cue loud swoon-worthy music.
Kamol taking his meds FOR WHOLE 40 SEC (believe me, I counted).
Or supplements. Or whatever tf this product placement was.
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At this point I think the production team must be trolling us.
My point is, logic & morality in this show seem to be a bit skewed ๐