Kai Xu Min

Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate your understanding of other's views.
You were able to explain things on point. Exactly the thoughts running also through my head.

I truly appreciate your kindness.

Thanks for explaining. I believe I shared same thoughts with this comment about that kiss. That's how I exactly felt.
https://kisskh.at/760693-ya-xi#comment-24871820

Yes, like I said if it were me. And I definitely respect what the writer intended for the FL's character. It's okay to express your thoughts just like mine. It's not an analysis but what I felt in that scene.

That's your perspective. I respect that. I never said FL should be like this and that....I always said if it were me.

Still, sharing your thoughts is appreciated.

I've seen the confession finally @23:21 ep.19 If only this happened before that kiss. It could've been perfect.

I really liked how you explained this. Exactly my thoughts and what I felt.

Let's not think like kids here. You know very well when harassment can be applied. For married couples, yes a wife can file rape to her husband if he does anything forced to her. Same goes with the husband, if he thinks he is being harassed by his wife. Consensus is always important in any given situations.

As for hospitals, yes they let the guardian sign a disclaimer that they are giving consent to perform surgery or treatment who needs critical care.

As for your job, you already signed a consent with your company's policies. So anything done with your training has already been confirmed upon signing your employment contract.

As for being a relationship, once you have confessed your feelings with each other that's already consent of whatever intimacy you may want with each other. That confession didn't happen yet before that kiss. But, nothing to debate here. FL is happy.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I guess, this kiss to respond just took too long that it felt forced for me. I was waiting for the confession then the kiss could've happened a bit later on.

Yes, I appreciate your explanation. The supposedly forced kiss became consensual because FL like him. Again, it was my own opinion. Like I said, if it were me, I would think it that way. I mean, if I get a kiss without any explanation on what the other person feels for me. I would think he's just playing on my feelings. Oh yes,this is drama so it shouldn't happen that way.

Oh yes, the details are very clear that FL has been suffering too long with her emotions. She's simply waiting for that confirmation. Yes, given the ML's circumstances that he can't express his feelings but, how about the FL?

Don't get me wrong, you're trying to imply I hate the ML. I love Chen Xing Xu. His stiffness and making his woman wait for so long just stings. That kiss would have been best, again, just my opinion if he had confessed his feelings first. Yes, I get it. The kiss may seemed forced, but, of course, who cares right? FL loves him so much so it's okay. Like I said, in reality....anything forced can be harassment. But, this is drama world...so yes, what happened is a sweet very intimate moment.

Don't rush into judgement that I'm messing things up here. I love this drama. I am just expressing my thoughts and what I felt about what happened in that scene. Everyone's entitled with their opinion.

Let me clarify, I said it was my opinion. So, I am referring to myself. If it were me I would consider it harassment. In reality, if someone forced kiss any one, that person can receive a slap, specially when you think your feelings is just being played on, since there had been no confirmity of feelings. But then again, some people prefer a kiss as confirmation of their feelings then so be it.

Yes, definitely FL won't push him away because she waited for this and she likes him so much. I already explained previously, FL is not in the right state to ask permission to kiss since she was hallucinating and drunk in those 2 situations. Besides, her kiss was rejected anyway during the second time. That hurts for me bigtime without any explanation.

And yes, I live in a normal world where I can understand each and everyone has their own thoughts and opinons. Not everyone thinks the same so I know the word respect. An opinion and finding problems in everything are two different things. Don't confuse them to have the same idea.

I will and am looking forward to hear the words. Thanks.

That's a more sensible explanation. Thank you. It's just taking him a century before he express what he truly feels.

I'll check on that. I paused midway.

It's okay about the disagreement. We, all have different thoughts and opinion. I guess, it's really hard to figure out a man who communicates through action as you said. I still prefer hearing his thoughts first. I appreciate your explanation. Makes sense.

First, I clearly said, it was just my opinion. I am not framing ML, I was just questioning his character. Since FL is so into him, I just want her feelings to be justified and be requitted by ML.
Let me also clarify, the first kiss FL tried, she was in a hallucinating state and the second one she was drunk. Can you ask permission given those situations?
Of course, FL would be ecstatic since she have waited for that kiss. Like I said, It was just my opinion that I'd rather hear what's going on first on what exactly the ML feels. A kiss would definitely be perfect when you have confirmed first if the one kissing you feels the same way.

I just paused after that kiss @ep.19 I was suppose to feel ecstatic about it, but, I think I felt the opposite. I mean, I was waiting for his response when FL delivered her statements about changing the shoe if it doesn't fit anymore. Like, he's giving her that roller coaster ride of emotions that becomes too tiring. Now, he gives this kiss without any heartfelt confession? Action may speak louder than words, but, I can consider this harassment. It was a forced kiss. And remember, her kiss was rejected by him. Just because he's so hot and good looking that the FL can't resist. I think you deserve more than just a kiss girl. Just my opinion.

At least He could've asked if it's okay to kiss her first before explaining. I mean, courtesy or should I say being a gentleman himself?

I was also waiting for that long awaited kiss...but, the timing seem off.

I am honestly enjoying this. The plot is not clichéd. I'm glad that the Republican tag was just a portion of the VR game. MC definitely nails the chemistry. I liked both leads.

Of course, Chen Xing Xu always have that Prince/General vibes. I think any woman wouldn't resist to kiss that handsome face. 😉But why? I mean why did he reject that kiss? Why is it so hard for him to express how he feels? And yes...I'm starting to like Pei @ep.17. If it weren't for him, our main guy won't be boosted up.

Down to the last 10eps and still no confession. Why make a good drama too slow burn?
As for the SC, I've already sensed from the start, it's always the wife who gives it all...the husband does nothing...tbh. I'm also for Gong. 😁

This started good, but dragged midway. The chemistry was there but, definitely lacked intimacy and spiciness of a married couple. FL's character is a bit off for me. Like, she could've cut off the friendship with that HS friend since it gave alot of disturbance to their marriage. Yet, she keeps on seeing him later on.

ML's stepmom on the other hand, felt like a double-sided character. Like, she was a villain on the entire series then , became a very supportive mom in the finale. WTH, she did lots of despicable and unforgiveable stunt.

As for the ML, I liked his character development. But,I'm not a fan of him not being a wife spoiler. Still prefer husbands who pamper their wives as much as they can.
Overall, this should've a potential, but didn't meet my expectations in terms of the romance aspect. Yes, Negi is cute, but, I kinda don't like it ruining the intimate moments of the MC most of the time.

The finale was okay but didn't gave a satisfying vibe. Just a 7.0 for me.

I watched this for the good storyplot. Gave it an 8.5 for the hot kisses as well. I'm also watching SAL just for He Yu's hotness and nothing more than that.

Oh wow! Thank you for sharing your in-depth thoughts on this drama. Honestly, it's very rare for me to be touched by a drama's story plot. Usually, I simply watch for romance and like you said, spiciness of romance with some injected humor.
In terms of story, Lesson in Love and Love And Fortune got me. It gave me a different take on this type of genre. With this, I didn't get much connection, that said, felt lacking for me. Probably, the ML's character didn't gave me much appeal or felt weak for me. Comparing to the above-mentioned dramas, the ML's were able to redeem themselves in the end. Like, they were able to show what they are capable of towards the finale. Unfortunately, I didn't see that in this drama.

Probably one of the reasons. Still, Jdramas are better known for more intimacy and sometimes explicit scenes. They could've squeezed it in between episodes but, they did not sadly. Song Kang and Han So Hee pulled of the intimate scenes better.