Haha I've noticed that too. And it raises a question : don't women in cdrama use tampons? :0)
Tampons are really unpopular in China. Actually, I think they're pretty unpopular outside of the west. When I lived in China, I couldn't even find them.
He seriously had no one else he could call and send? I mean, I get the waiter's insistence, but Feimo has a whole…
Exactly. It's okay to choose your career over your relationship and break up because of that. Blaming the mother is stupid, though. And I agree that she most likely wouldn't be so keen to get back together if not for his identity.
When I was younger, I also chose to put my career before my relationships. But I made that clear when our relationship started getting serious (after about a year) that I wouldn't let our relationship hold me back from my career plans. My sweetheart decided to break up with me, even though we had another year in the same city. I didn't blame them for ending things, or expect to get back together. Today, I've had the experiences I need to have, and I'd put a relationship first and be a reliable partner. We just met at the wrong time. My ex doesn't blame me for that, but also understandably isn't willing to trust me as a life partner. All we can do now is cherish our memories and wish each other the best. It's a little sad, but I also value the experience I gained from the choice I made, so I can't regret my decision. My ex is now happily married to someone else, and hopefully someday I will be as well.
I don't feel that Han Hui is like that, though. She thought it was worth sacrificing her relationship when she didn't know his status, but now that she knows his status she regrets it. She also blames his mother for offering a career opportunity without letting her know that staying with him would be equally good for her career. She needs to own her choice, respect his choice, and let him find his happiness.
He seriously had no one else he could call and send? I mean, I get the waiter's insistence, but Feimo has a whole…
I don't really feel like she betrayed him, though. I mean, she decided her career was worth breaking up with him for, which hurts, and he absolutely has the right to not get back together, but it's not really a betrayal, it's just a break up.
I think the bigger problem is that she doesn't own that choice, and feels entitled to his feelings now. If you dump someone, they're going to move on. Maybe you'll be compatible when you meet again, but if not, you just need to meet someone else.
I think the fact that she is still clinging to him suggests that she doesn't respect his feelings and his right to also make choices about their relationship.
In relationships between independent adults, you always have the right to leave, but you can only be together if both people agree.
He seriously had no one else he could call and send? I mean, I get the waiter's insistence, but Feimo has a whole…
Exactly. She's not signed with his company, so even her image is none of his business. It's good to be considerate of your ex, but even if she hadn't deliberately set a trap, there still would have been the danger of being photographed. The whole thing is stupid.
I kind of like that he thinks Han Hui is the one who saved him, though, since that shows he likes Nuannuan for herself, not just out of gratitude.
He seriously had no one else he could call and send? I mean, I get the waiter's insistence, but Feimo has a whole company of people he could send to pick her up.
Just started the drama....its nice in a goofy wayCan anyone recommend other intresting chinese dramas that are…
Bromance HIStory 2: Boundary Crossing HIStory 3: Trapped Hear Me (movie) Love O2O My Mr. Mermaid We Are Gamily Back to Home Chef Fang Drunken to Love You Hello Again! Lightning My Girlfriend One Smile is Very Alluring (movie) When I See You Again Go Go Squid! Lucky's First Love Refreshman
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Love Now
Bromance (side couple)
Lightning (injury, not illness)
Other shows that handle cliche breakup moments without a breakup:
Love O2O
Our Glamorous Time
All I Want For Love Is You
Shows that deal with the "noble idiocy" breakups in a creative and refreshing way:
Refreshman
Cunning Single Lady
When I was younger, I also chose to put my career before my relationships. But I made that clear when our relationship started getting serious (after about a year) that I wouldn't let our relationship hold me back from my career plans. My sweetheart decided to break up with me, even though we had another year in the same city. I didn't blame them for ending things, or expect to get back together. Today, I've had the experiences I need to have, and I'd put a relationship first and be a reliable partner. We just met at the wrong time. My ex doesn't blame me for that, but also understandably isn't willing to trust me as a life partner. All we can do now is cherish our memories and wish each other the best. It's a little sad, but I also value the experience I gained from the choice I made, so I can't regret my decision. My ex is now happily married to someone else, and hopefully someday I will be as well.
I don't feel that Han Hui is like that, though. She thought it was worth sacrificing her relationship when she didn't know his status, but now that she knows his status she regrets it. She also blames his mother for offering a career opportunity without letting her know that staying with him would be equally good for her career. She needs to own her choice, respect his choice, and let him find his happiness.
I think the bigger problem is that she doesn't own that choice, and feels entitled to his feelings now. If you dump someone, they're going to move on. Maybe you'll be compatible when you meet again, but if not, you just need to meet someone else.
I think the fact that she is still clinging to him suggests that she doesn't respect his feelings and his right to also make choices about their relationship.
In relationships between independent adults, you always have the right to leave, but you can only be together if both people agree.
I kind of like that he thinks Han Hui is the one who saved him, though, since that shows he likes Nuannuan for herself, not just out of gratitude.
HIStory 2: Boundary Crossing
HIStory 3: Trapped
Hear Me (movie)
Love O2O
My Mr. Mermaid
We Are Gamily
Back to Home
Chef Fang
Drunken to Love You
Hello Again!
Lightning
My Girlfriend
One Smile is Very Alluring (movie)
When I See You Again
Go Go Squid!
Lucky's First Love
Refreshman