KimSaRi

yes, what I see in Korean dramas is that everywhere there has a miraculous, fake healing and forgiveness that erases all the black memories and red flag also. like the person become overnight the Green Flag. In real life this is not like this.

for example... the way FL mother treated her is such toxic behavior that it takes years to resolve within therapy ... not to mention that it's rare when the character who played the negative role, the narcissistic, or mental disorder, becomes a lamb overnight. I think it's a big bypass in this culture trough this dramas.

SML's character, behavior was unbearable. A balanced and truly masculine man would never have behaved like that. To get into the connection of that woman who was pregnant with another man. It makes me nauseous as a man, to become like a hookworm, super sticky, this is immature feminine energy behavior. He is obsessed and annoying. Not letting yourself be chosen as a man and causing so much interference when a woman gets pregnant with a man other than you is IMMATURENESS.

It was the hardest thing to watch this idiot act like he was the king. He was everywhere... he was listening to their conversations.

And she is completely emotionally immature, also.

I know it's a drama, and yes, I like it. but I'm also aware that I can read between the lines and that it's not balanced behavior for real life. Be very aware, as many people find it inspirational and green flags behavior, and is not.

I like this drama. It's a nice one to watch. didn't even realize when I finished episode 5.

What I dont understand why in korean dramas people dont have boundaries, dont say : I dont want yo tell you. You are intrusive. Is not your business. Why friends what to know everything about you like they own you. It's become unbearable.

yes, this one.

I really enjoy this drama. The only thithat is hard to watch is the scenes with the parants. Gaves me anxiety. I hate Chinese parents. They all need some therapy.

I'm so tired of this story, when the girl finds that ML father was involved in a accident and broke up. WTF HAS TO DO THE FHATER MISTAKE WITH HIS SON... her reactions was like he killed someone. So disappointing of her ...

I was ready for a clean 10.
I was happy to see finally a FL mature, direct and smart in Chinese drama... but this...

I cant stand her parents. Her behavior was terrible.
I cant stand this crazy, toxic behaviour.

I don't blame you for hiding the truth from me? No one is obligated to share their pains and intimacy on the table during their first dates.

and if you love someone and leave them or blame them for what someone else did in the past, that's not love, that's not intimate connection. that's childhood.

shouldn't I have fallen in love with you? this is most disrespectful to say to the man that you supposed to love. The words are unforgettable...

How about his pain, his father died. And her speech was like he was the killer.

She does not deserve Him.

hope one day to see a beautiful, mature drama with healthy mental and emotional behavior.

They dont have any other ideas. They are stuck in the same patterns to entratain the same counsciousness.

Yes, this is any drama Chinese, Korean. I've also written about other movies when I saw them. It creeps me out that some adults attack, hit, blame children for their parents' mistakes, and they have to pay the debts or whatever, or die too. An aspect of Asian society that is terrifying.

I dont like at all the Chinese parents. Why they control, they imposed what kind of relationship thei children need, or job or everything. The parents need to understand and encourage the passion and the abilities, the ghifts that their cildren desire.

How they can enter in their house without permission?!?! This is so much luck of intimacy. They dont have Ny consideration for the her and for her private space. I dont like this at all.

even when she is married she is scared to kiss her husband.

I'm so sorry for Chris, that she felt in love with a jerk. Girl, you are saved. You will find a great man not a narcissist.

For me is unbelievable how SML things he has a chance to FL, after all his behaviour.

This drama has so many good things but also so many things that are very bad.

I remember her role in the ASL but I think was much better than this one.

I think she fears intimicy. The character, she's to naive, imature when is about connection with a man. And he, ML is so mature, emotional and mental.

I wished to have a woman insted an adolescent in her role. would have been perfection.

You have recomandation of drams with mature partnerships at the age of 30, 35 40... it s seems most od the dramas ar for adolescents.

I like this .... 11 meeting of lips... 😄 🤣 😂

I watch and feel they are obliged to kiss. Is not natural at all... she looks scared, like why you kiss me, what is this... I never heard abou kissing... I wonder how she will do sex :))))))

2 people super in love with eachother to kiss like that, like dont like eachother... even if you have 18- 20 years when you love someone, your whole body, the lips will be magnetic to the other, with passion.

There is a gigantic discrepancy between her at the office (brave, curious, direct, strong) and her in love with the person that she love ( behave stupid... I wouldn't say shy). I thought she will change... I still have hope till the end.

Yes, we watch the same drama. But you and me watching diffrent perspetictives. I dont watch just for chemistry, easiness, kisses, and just to watch something. I am not into Yusen. I am here for the story. I like to look beyond, to see, feel the emotions, the story, the cinematography, how deep they are going, how characters are created. I dont wach superficial and I have a mind to think to enjoy, to discern. And my perception from your messages is that you did not understand anything yet, frim what I share. Is not for everyone to understand.

I love this man, Yu Sen. He is mature, he has an emotional intelligence never seen in dramas, elegant, has patience, presence.

His explanation from 24th episode was so simple, direct, profund, transparent. He knows how to growth intimacy.

But from 20th episode I am disappointed by the FL. I dont like how she treats him, how she speaks to him, everything is about her, at a deeper lever her behavior show she deos not respect him. She is spoiled and still, imature for him. Hope she will change and will see a new dream couple. Somehow is understanding... to have a narcissistic father you will have to educate yourself, emotional and mental.

Cant wait the next step. Togheter era begins.

Exactly. I like your comment so much. You complete what I wrote. I agree completely.

With all my love and admiration for her and the ML, In 20th episode, I am very disappointed with FL's behavior. I just didn't expect her to be insensitive and not feel any compassion and not make any connection with the fact that he was a doctor in the past. He only thinks about her, so much drama, overreaction, entitled. And even if they were together, (but they are not and she continously holds her back from the real connection), she received so much attention, respect, care from him... she behave like in kindergarten.

I would have liked her to hug him, to smile at him, to be by his side. To be present for him, because right now he needed it, not her. Reciprocity.

I hope to see him operate again. We need a miracle in this new year. 😀

I am at the second episode. Her boyfriend is the pathologic narcissist. Woman be aware of this kind of behavior. If you will stay, if you will accept him, he will destroy you and every part of you will be broken. You will be a slave.