Kinara

Thank you! Just adding here that I have reported some of these commenter for their offensive remarks and violation of the MDL terms and conditions

Is that right? Thank you for letting me know. But they are still very offensive .

Somehow they think they have to personally
attack the people who criticize the drama. I have never understood this. There is nothing meaningful in those comments- just bullying and heckling and that too targeted at strangers

This message is for username@ Smilecode who is a bully and heckler. They thought they were being clever by blocking me and making offensive comments about me. If this is the way you deal with people who disagree with you or have a different opinion then good luck to you in life. And if you have time to personally target a stranger and make offensive comments then what can I say? Keep it up! And they seem to have stalked me as well!! - GO GET A LIFE

Yes the thing is I have found him to be very considerate in spite of everything from the beginning

Thank you! 😂. I am keeping my calm.

It’s a long road for him and she needs to learn to be supportive . If she throws a tantrum or does that back and forth business it will not be good for him

Actually it is none of your business- you commenting this way is the worst thing for the forum. Whether I come back or not is none of your business.

No he is also the SFL’s doctor . That is why she knows a lot about him and gives all the information to the FL along with he bird brained ideas.

And that will be the rhythm of their relationship forever!

Well the FL in the drama is the negative one - not the commenters . There are some of us here who did want to enjoy the drama wholeheartedly but the FL’s character arc completely turned us off . So just by saying that word ‘negativity’ you are bringing it to this forum. Weill you can stick with your rainbows, sunshine and unicorns view of this drama. Ciao!

We better not criticize the FL here on this forum - we are committing serious sacrilege. Even though she is so wrong we are all supposed to praise her . I am quitting this drama

I have merely stated an opinion from the way I see it. That is all

I think we are going in circles here, you don’t have to agree with me or see it from my perspective in my opinion, the FL is supposedly the normal person here. And she is trying to form a relationship with a mentally handicapped person who cannot emote the same as her. What is the point in getting frustrated when he does not reciprocate. Also if she feels that it is so difficult - why does she want it so badly. And honestly this whole trope about one single person curing this kind of illness is a joke. In reality it is very difficult for such relationships to survive. The FL can see hard boundaries if needed but she goes back and forth. She can say ‘No’ and date someone else. She seriously has major issues . I can’t back her just because someone says so. From what I have seen this is my opinion. Also I am done responding the same thing in different ways. Let’s stop here .

But she does push him away- and when she does she is considering only her side of things and not necessarily the effort it took for the ML to make that decision to reciprocate .

Hopefully that is what it is - I am not seeing much of it yet

Again- my take is that she is forcing him to reciprocate just by want ting stay in it and getting upset with him when he does not react the way she wants and when he pushes her away. And she knows his limitations . And when he tries to reciprocate she pushes him away. That is why I say she is emotionally unstable and a little self absorbed . I don’t think blame should come into this conversation

The wrist ache is an emotional trigger. It is manifested as pain

I don’t disagree with the fact that this is a complex relationship and very very challenging. And his emotional distance does not help and one look at Gu Yo and you know that she has her own issues to deal with , let alone trying to start a long term relationship with someone who is emotionally handicapped. This is not romance , even though some people are only looking at that aspect. Like I said the long term prospect of such a relationship is not that great unless both the ML and FL acknowledge their issues and consciously work on it to get better .

What do you mean? She is pushing him to meet her emotional needs. Everytime she is going back and forth that is exactly what she is doing. Even in a normal relationship this can be torture and with what they have going on here it is very unhealthy and the point they are missing here is that this can actually make the ML worse given his emotional issues. And no the FL is not resilient at all she is emotionally unstable