Kinara

Yes definitely a good writer- I loved all of those short dramas!

Wow ! What a lovely strategy is all I have to say. Yes we need to be careful - there are crazies out there

lol for sure . Well I am not here to cater to their whims!

Thank you! Like she says - just because she has been in remission does not mean that she is cured . Losing two thirds of your stomachs and living in fear of relapse is not trivial

Everything is a speculation at this point and I said maybe

Agree this is one sided on the ML’s part

Did you even. Read what I said? NO CONCLUSIONS EITHER WAY

lol I did not men she just got it. All I said was that everyone is harping about her relationship woes but making a decision about that with cancer relapse looming in front of you is a little hard. She needs to be more honest with the ML rather than leading him on like this

I don’t think we can come to that conclusion because they did not show what the doctor told her after she was admitted plus she seems to be having some symptoms.

Agreed! I don’t think relationship is her priority. The FL has more baggage than the ML. The ML just has been hung up on the FL but she never seems to have cared for him given that she was also going to marry someone else

That is why I am saying - everyone is hung up on her relationship woes. This drama may have an open ending. I understand she had stomach cancer - is in remission but it’s seems like there maybe a relapse. And the way she is eating and learning cooking- all these are telltale signs. I actually like that she is not giving hope to the ML

I guess everyone here is avoiding the elephant in the room LOL. She has stomach cancer and people are so worried about who she is going to end up with. Not sure if that is her priority right now

The ML is still oblivious to her situation even in episode 9 . I actually do not like that the FL his everything from her own family and friends. I do not like this behavior at all

lol your first paragraph - yes it is good to provide that disclaimer that you will not support this even if the FL does it because there is some distorted version of feminism going around among the commenters. And you are right if they were not rich would the woman bother ? I mean they seem to be encouraging a certain behavior in the female population. Rather than these women going after a decent man they churn out those crap. And that whole reform BS happens only in dramas

Exactly my point. It’s almost like these shows want women to regress from all that we have achieved as far as women’s rights are concerned. Yes I have some of those old shows/movies that I cannot watch anymore. Just showing that a woman should put up with a bully/abuser or a narcissistic cheater for the sake of love or kids or family is so wrong. And this whole trope that these men do a complete 180 and become good people. That is not even the reality. Very bad examples for empowering young women

Yes I found Boys over flowers very problematic even the first time around. The ML in that drama was very toxic- it was a toxic relationship that has been glorified as some epic romance. I was disappointed and disgusted too.

True! But you girls are vulnerable and they are sending the wrong message. Oh well I am not going near one of these

They need to stop. No intelligent woman will buy this BS. A lot of these short dramas are like this.

Yes absurdity is right. He said sorry once. Never contacted her for 6 yrs and she just went back to him? This was just nonsense especially after everything that transpired. Not sure why they write FLs like this it’s like they have no backbone. And to top it he was with another woman YUCK ! this is the woest plot I have seen

Exactly it fits with her independent character who do everything by herself