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Exactly he could not accept that side of her that was focused , driven and ambitious. He knew she had that side for sure - because she was never an ordinary employee. I did not like how he never cared when she went through all that abuse at work and got fired . I felt like he was happy when she got fired because he thought that she could be the housewife that he wanted and that’s why he proposed to her

They will kick the Hornets nest soon😄

Yeah she really creeps you out 😑

He was doing the dishes and dishing out his woes to WqZ LOL. YC Is guilty of Letting her in

SYC never said he was going to devote himself to her unconditionally. He had expectat Of her and basically ran when things changed for her . Let’s be honest here. Like I said let’s stop here and agree to disagree. And I don’t even want to to compare SYC to HT . It’s comparing apples and oranges

I can’t agree with you on this one . Let’s leave it at that

Let’s agree to disagree

He has secrets for sure

Well no I think SYC was already using that friend as an emotional shoulder and confiding in her . And that is a huge red flag .

I don’t think he was that great. He was complaining to her friend and playing the the victim in front of her. It should be both their plans. That is how it should be. Yes she lost her job and wanted to start her business . So what ? If it were reversed she would have stood by her . He had a stable career so he could have supported her decision because she was at a crossroad and need that support

Exactly he left because things did not work out his way. It was a purely selfish decision because his needs were not fulfilled. Some people are trying to make him the victim- which he clearly is not .if he wanted a different kind of partner he should have been more upfront about it . He strung her along - that the way I see it

Look he did not have some kind of upper hand there for him to wait around and not say anything. He acted as though everything was ok and even got engaged to her . And then played the victim . So I don’t sympathize with him at all. He left because it did not work out for him . There was no communication there .

This is beyond awkward and honestly I will never support this kind of behavior . She was eyeing him way before they broke up.

SYC had forced himself to accept for those 4 yrs even though he did not like it . If he had truly accepted all sides of her they would still be together. SYC and the FL were not suited for each other

They were not well suited for sure . He wanted someone who just worked to make a living and took care of him and was there to fulfill his needs. I guess Qiu zi🤮will give that to him but I am not shipping that couple . She should not have gone after her friend’s ex like that

Why sadly? I think SYC expecting something like that itself is wrong. It looked like she had whole heartedly accepted him for who he was. He knew that she was career driven and ambitious from the beginning and decided to keep it all to himself even if he had issues with it . What we have to say is - sadly - even in this day and age men still get intimidated by strong career driven women

The break up was very one sided. SYC seemed like a person who just swallowed all the issues they had as just stayed with her and all of a sudden he just decided it did not work. I am glad she focused on her career - he was not worth moping around for. But she definitely do more hurt and probably has not gotten over it yet . Her career is masking those emotions .

Exactly my point

Jiang Xuening accusing Xie Wei of using people is the most laughable thing. She used people and him more than he did ! Her machinations had her using people all over the place

Well it’s crystal clear what that board wanted I.e to take power away from him . This really is not about her