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Yes - he was still processing everything

LOL agreed. Well it is not reality where relationships need work from both sides

Actually LYY is very insecure about their relationship because of what her family thinks of him. But YG I think does not understand the gravity of the situation or what LYY really feels. Everything cannot be spelled out by him- he is already doing too much work on this relationship

Well he is the one doing all the work right now . Even that interaction at the table with her mom was to test the waters and figure out what he needs to do. His insecurities are far more deeper that YG’s because it is up to him to fix this. I agree she was being very childish in that parking lot scene where she literally threw a tantrum at him because she was upset with what happened at the table without even thinking how he might be feeling about the whole thing

The thing is she was upset about what happened at the table and decided to throw a tantrum at him. She could have calmed down before she came and saw him - who was already in a bad place LOL

Hello my friend!

Let’s see how it plays out

Yes . The relationship dynamic needs to change here . I need to see how she is going to handle her family’s attitude towards him. To me it feels like he needs to do that work too while she is just going to sit there waiting for them to approve of him. The FL is very passive and timid in the relationship and that is not good. She just wants his attention that’s all, while he is still insecure that she will leave him and tha t he is not good enough

Yes she definitely loves him but she needs to understand him better and be emotionally more involved. Right now it is a child- adult relationship. Being pampered in the beginning is fine but she needs to grow up if she wants this relationship long term

Well but you know everything goes two ways. I still feel the FL is not fully emotionally equipped to handle someone like him completely

I felt bad for him too. I don’t know how strong the FL is to handle this situation. I kind of get why he is so insecure. Let’s see what happens

Exactly my point. He is the only one giving . I mean he can’t be perfect all the time. Isn’t it about time she learns to understand and empathize with him? When she came to see him at the car- the question she asked him was all wrong and then she threw a tantrum. That was extremely childish. And then she walked away? Honestly that was not right. I felt very bad for him. She needs to understand his insecurities too.

I agree. I find her a little immature and less empathetic towards him. She does not understand his situation very well I think. She really comes across as a kid while he is very independent and takes care of everything for her

I loved this drama as well and what you have said in you comments make complete sense and that is the way I saw it.

Yep I was not convinced their relationship would work either

Exactly my point. She wanted to be indulged and forgiven for all her reckless behaviors but she never once put herself in LBY’s shoes and that he may not have had a choice when he did what he did. And yes she would have pouted for life if not for that near death experience he had. She really had this superior attitude and looked down on everyone else. I mean playing the victim can work only for so long. If you want to be in a relationship you need to learn to empathize and look at things in a different way. Not my cup of tea either

Yeah I also don’t like how the friend keeps pointing out that he is broke.

I am glad you said that about LLTG. Everyone seems to be on Shao Shang’s side and completely ignored how self centered and self serving she was. Everything had to go her way. lol I got a lot of flak for arguing that POV.

I am glad you said that about LLTG. Everyone seems to be on Shao Shang’s side and completely ignored how self centered and self serving she was. Everything had to go her way. lol I got a lot of flak for arguing that POV.

This show is so much more than Hidden love. Never liked that one - that was overly hyped I think