Kinara

Exactly

Absolutely! If you truly love a person then you put in the effort to clear the misunderstandings. She just needs to declare her true feelings for him and he will forgive everything else. But right now he does not even know where she stands with him.

This was ep 27 I believe

Well yeah but for a relationship to work the 2 people have to be honest with each other . That is the fundamental fabric . If our FL can’t even achieve that then what exactly are we talking about here? Honesty is not a change of you love someone. It is the most basic quality the 2 people need to have especially if you want to be together for a long tome. No one wants to stay with a liar

That is true but anyone looking at it from the outside can think like Yu Ling. But LeZhi’s accusation - let’s not even go there - it was just stupid and senseless and she deserved a slap for sure

Yes I am routing for Shu Yan’s happy ending- he has suffered too much for no reason

I agree if only she had bee n honest with Shi Yan about her true feelings towards him he would have forgiven everything. But that right there is the problem. She has left him so confused at this point that he does not know what to think. But with wahr Yu ling and Le Zhi said -it’s only fair because again has the FL ever told anyone openly that Shi Yan is her boyfriend. So Yu ling thinks she took advantage of Shi Yan and now she is doing it with Yi Yang. Any outside observer would think that only because she has not been honest about anything

Ok that B of a friend- someone needs to slap her. She is living it t up and giving shitty advice to the FL?

And she deserves what Yuling said about her . If the FL still does not realize how she comes across to everyone I don’t know what else to say

Yes me too. Her emotional intelligence is so low - it’s just pathetic to watch her shoot herself in the foot again and again. I thought she was way more articulate in her drunk state LOL but then ofcourse she forgot about everything the next day. I wonder how they will turn this around. I do not see any reconciliation yet because she is still the same flake

Exactly

I would not stick with a best friend like that - let alone confide in her. But this also shows Shuyi’s lack of intelligence in personal relationships

You need to stop - you are worse and enough is enough. You don’t get to make fun of other people and get personal

Everyone here is hung up on shuy’s drunk sequence and her interactions with Yi Yang but the most important scene in ep 29 is the one in the beginning where Shi Yan is talking to Shi Yue about what is important to him in a relationship. And it is clear that he places honesty up there - especially for a long lasting relationship. Our FL has clearly failed in this regard . That is why when Shi Yue asked if he is sure that Shuyi is the one - he cannot answer clearly. The FL has sent so many mixed signals that he is confused to the point of not knowing what to do and whether even the relationship was real

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What can I say

Unfortunately in real life as well it’s people like that who get everything easily

I have always doubted Shan Shan’s intentions towards Shu Yi. Does she really want her friend to be happy? Because it almost looks like she is playing with her. As well. Plus she is not very open with the FL about anything.

Yep 100%

Well clearly you support a walking red flag with low emotional intelligence . Well he atleast said she was his girlfriend - our FL did not even make an effort to do that AND if I may add his love and caring for her has been obvious from the beginning- any dimwit can see that .We have
disagreed before and let’s leave it at that.