Kinara

Yes. If you think about it she has not been forthcoming about anything since the beginning. All she has been is a self serving flake

I think that explaining ship had sailed - she remained silent for too long. She has not been forthcoming with anything . Not even once- so what exactly should he expect from her? I would block them too if they behaved like this. This kind of behavior is a big red flag in a relationship

How not to behave in a relationship

Same here. I would never tolerate it either- it would not even get this far. She is so full of shit.

Exactly my point

Yes ‘at all’ . God forbid if they think it’s ok to behave like the FL in a relationship

He did not send her - the idea came from Guan Sr . Who spoke to that chief editor his GF. Please get your facts straight before making an argument

Yes - how not to mix business with pleasure

Thank you! That says it all. He is just unimportant to her. Holds no value at all. Which is even worse

lol or have not been in relationships

BTW some people here feel that the ML needs to bend over backwards for the FL. It’s like he should just forget every she did to him. That was such a shitty apology. And she wants everything on her own terms . Just because he spoiled her she thinks she can get away with anything. And ML is not allowed to be angry or upset.

He did give her opportunities to explain. She ran away the first time without telling him anything and the driver told him everything. She wants everything at her own pace. How is that possible? Does he not have any say at all.she was using him for her career- he accepted that and helped her. She was evasive and lying to him about everything and he was fine with that. This probably was the final straw- why should it be him always giving in. What exactly did she do to prove that she wants to be with him? Has she ever been sincere or even loyal?

Yes for sure the professor is very calm and analytical. He makes good observations about people I think. But I also like what the niece told Shi Yan in the end. She is definitely more mature than the FL even though younger. But what she said to Shi Yan needs to wait. The FL needs to take the first step

Exactly my point. Who apologizes like that?

I like these 4

Did she ever explain? Has she ever tried come clean. She ghosted him for a long time after the whole thing blew up- was that right. She is the one who lied. Why should he be the one to always come to her. He had been doing that - did it help. Please do not use bad words in you comments. Keep it decent. Thank you

Yeah I know but I think they do genuinely like each other - she did not know how to handle all of this. She is coming around - we will see what happens. But of course anything less than full sincerity he should not accept. I do think that she should take that first big step

I know- I feel the sadness and the hurt too. Man the way she ignored him for so long and did not make an effort . And that stupid apology she gave. Poor guy

Exactly my point. She blurred the lines for her own purpose - now she wants to be professional? It never works both ways

I am going to ask you the same question what would you do if you come to know that the person who you love has lied to you constantly and has had ulterior motive since the beginning? She pursued him- she sent him all the flirty messages. He took his time to come around but from that time he was committed to her - you could see that from everything he did. She made him very insecure. Now she wants to be professional? Those lines were blurred by her a long time ago