When two consenting adults fall in love they can do whatever they want, with as much age gap as they wish. If…
....and your point of disagreement may be challenged. ESPECIALLY when you try to tell others what opinions they can share about a TV series or its characters.
Personal attacks are one thing. Saying you find large age gaps weird isn't a personal attack.
When two consenting adults fall in love they can do whatever they want, with as much age gap as they wish. If…
Absolutely not. Again why would I? How does their opinion affect my life?
It doesn't. I dont understand how someone lets a stranger on the internet offend them that deeply...based on an opinion, which can be shaped by their moral views...but it's still an opinion, at the end of the day.
Immoral isnt a synonym for "weird".
No, I don't expect people to validate my life choices. "Weird" is not automatically a indication of moral condemnation.
I think my problem with this series is exactly why some people love this so much - I think for me it’s too much…
The relationship was messy, and it would have been, even if both characters weren't so broken.
Having a romantic/sexual relationship with the love of your dead father is....very messy and weird. The mom was controlling and annoying, and In hadn't fully accepted his sexual orientation, nor had he healed from the guilt from Siam's death.
Yes, a lot of people will disagree, but that has no bearing on you sharing your honest opinion.
When two consenting adults fall in love they can do whatever they want, with as much age gap as they wish. If…
This is a tv series. All perspectives are welcome. That's it.
Also, "two consenting adults" can mean a mother and son, brother and sister, father and son, etc....and while they can "do what they want" that doesn't mean their relationship is normal, healthy or acceptable by most societal standards/cultures.
Fucking the son of your lover - whether you and your love had sex or if you never had sex is weird. Period. It's messy, at best. The age gap isnt a problem for me, but if it was, I can say that.
If that opinion offends you, then don't interact in a public online space, with people who have different perspectives than you. Everything isn't a soapbox moment.
It ended the only way it could, in my opinion. It was very messy and improbable, from day one.
My issues have nothing to do with the age gap, although I think 20 and 40 is not the same as 30 and 50, or 40 and 60.
Also, this isn't a debate/invitation to debate. When the overwhelming love of a particular series/couple comes into play, people take any criticism or departure from the consensus personally, and that should not happen. Happens a lot here.
In and Wang were a train wreck, waiting to happen. While the mom was annoying as hell, her horror/heartbreak over her son's pending relationship with the man who was her close friend and who was also in love with her son's FATHER was understandable. It's weird.
Love doesn't always conquer all, and somtimes there are other people that can be deeply hurt by our decisions. We can decide to press on regardless, but sometimes that's not wise. Relationships come and go, and while it's idealistic to think In and Wang could have had a long, great romance, it's also likely it would have ended, as Wang matured and gained more life experience....healed from his daddy issues. Family is family.
I loved both actors, and would have been fine with a romance under not-so-messy circumstances.
Me too. But the story was very captivating, and I think the finale expressed at best the whole gap thing. And…
As far as age gaps, the age of the two is more important than the gap.
20 and 40 is different than 40 and 60, or 30 and 50.
So a 20 year old , who has just come out of their teens and hasn't lived much trying to be in a relationship with someone who has 20 more years of life experience is a challenge.
Am I the only one who is not okay with the 20 Yr age gap and the fact that, In just went from father to son??…
It wasn't the age gap for me. It was the idea of being in a romantic/sexual relationship with the SON of the man you loved. That's weird and inappropriate, in my opinion. I don't even see how In and Wang's mom were friends.
I knew it wasn't going to end well, because it was too "close". Having a relationship with your mom's best friend who also happened to be the love interest of your FATHER? Very, VERY messy. Too messy.
I've no complaint with ep6, it was good. First time I really liked PhayuRain. They were cute and affectionate,…
The NC scene wasn't perfect and even the kissing didn't match the kissing scene on the edge of the bed...in Ep...was it 5? I can't remember.
All that tongue, with them clothed, on the edge of the bed....but when they're actually having sex, the kissing is not quite as intimate. It may be a comfort level with the actors.
Mood Indigo and The Pornographer aren't Bl, but we can definitely say nobody held back. 😂
But yes, all those blankets around them, like they're toasting marshmallows at a campfire is very unnatural and lessens the eroticism.
It's hard to get those scenes right. Bl is evolving, within cultures that still have difficulty with two men in love, having sex.
I had forgotten, until you reminded me. It brought all the memories back...me cussin' and fussin'...all of it.
Thanks a lot, "friend". 😂😂😂
Personal attacks are one thing. Saying you find large age gaps weird isn't a personal attack.
So yes, we can agree to disagree.
No bad feelings
It doesn't. I dont understand how someone lets a stranger on the internet offend them that deeply...based on an opinion, which can be shaped by their moral views...but it's still an opinion, at the end of the day.
Immoral isnt a synonym for "weird".
No, I don't expect people to validate my life choices. "Weird" is not automatically a indication of moral condemnation.
Secondly, for someone who labeled my response a "blog" but proceeds to write a novelette , you're not only silly, but not very self aware.
Bye...and I mean that.
We all dont have the same moral standards.
Folks like you get on my nerves. Cant have a different opinion, without you coming in suggesting they can't/shouldnt share their opinion.
Secondly, you read the "blog", and you would have been fine if I'd agreed with you. I didn't ask you to read my comment. So.....
Dr. Seuss books may be better for you.
Having a romantic/sexual relationship with the love of your dead father is....very messy and weird. The mom was controlling and annoying, and In hadn't fully accepted his sexual orientation, nor had he healed from the guilt from Siam's death.
Yes, a lot of people will disagree, but that has no bearing on you sharing your honest opinion.
Also, "two consenting adults" can mean a mother and son, brother and sister, father and son, etc....and while they can "do what they want" that doesn't mean their relationship is normal, healthy or acceptable by most societal standards/cultures.
Fucking the son of your lover - whether you and your love had sex or if you never had sex is weird. Period. It's messy, at best. The age gap isnt a problem for me, but if it was, I can say that.
If that opinion offends you, then don't interact in a public online space, with people who have different perspectives than you. Everything isn't a soapbox moment.
My issues have nothing to do with the age gap, although I think 20 and 40 is not the same as 30 and 50, or 40 and 60.
Also, this isn't a debate/invitation to debate. When the overwhelming love of a particular series/couple comes into play, people take any criticism or departure from the consensus personally, and that should not happen. Happens a lot here.
In and Wang were a train wreck, waiting to happen. While the mom was annoying as hell, her horror/heartbreak over her son's pending relationship with the man who was her close friend and who was also in love with her son's FATHER was understandable. It's weird.
Love doesn't always conquer all, and somtimes there are other people that can be deeply hurt by our decisions. We can decide to press on regardless, but sometimes that's not wise. Relationships come and go, and while it's idealistic to think In and Wang could have had a long, great romance, it's also likely it would have ended, as Wang matured and gained more life experience....healed from his daddy issues. Family is family.
I loved both actors, and would have been fine with a romance under not-so-messy circumstances.
20 and 40 is different than 40 and 60, or 30 and 50.
So a 20 year old , who has just come out of their teens and hasn't lived much trying to be in a relationship with someone who has 20 more years of life experience is a challenge.
I knew it wasn't going to end well, because it was too "close". Having a relationship with your mom's best friend who also happened to be the love interest of your FATHER? Very, VERY messy. Too messy.
It's too bad, because the chemistry was there.
All that tongue, with them clothed, on the edge of the bed....but when they're actually having sex, the kissing is not quite as intimate. It may be a comfort level with the actors.
Mood Indigo and The Pornographer aren't Bl, but we can definitely say nobody held back. 😂
But yes, all those blankets around them, like they're toasting marshmallows at a campfire is very unnatural and lessens the eroticism.
It's hard to get those scenes right. Bl is evolving, within cultures that still have difficulty with two men in love, having sex.