So the FL actively hates the 2ML for cheating and getting married. Understood. But she didn’t know who the bride…
Of course she hates the guy who cheated on her, but that doesn't mean she's still obsessed with him and feels the need to stalk him or his wife. And even if she saw her ex's new wife, she probably wouldn't recognize her yearsss later in a completely different context.
Totally agree!! And they want her progress to be completely linear, once she is in a relationship, all her trauma…
No, it's not dumb writing, that's how trauma works, it's extremely realistic. I hope you have more empathy if someone around you is experiencing something similar and don't call them a coward.
I can't believe you guys just watched a heartbreaking episode about Wen Yifan's trauma, but all you guys are talking…
Totally agree!! And they want her progress to be completely linear, once she is in a relationship, all her trauma is healed and she never feels unsafe. But that's not how it works.
If Sang Yan wants to break up with her, I can understand that. She hurt him, that is true. But have some empathy?! You can't attack her and call her selfish. That just shows you don't understand her character.
"As an adult she should face her problem head on" is like telling a victim they should just leave their abusive relationship. It's so easy to say that from the outside, it's so easy to victim blame.
I also see people not happy with the changes and saying "she hurt SY again" rather than telling him after all…
Honestly, I'm frustrated but I understand her. And people don't change overnight, she bas been alone all her life, ever since her dad passed there was nobody she can lean on. No matter how much this hurts, it's extremely realistic. Running away is a trauma response and it makes sense in her brain. Someone who hasn't been through that won't understand that victims sometimes make highly illogical decisions. And you're right, it's also why it's harder for victims, because everyone judges them
ONLY a guy (MCY) can be so clueless about such a situation! If it were ANY random girl, she would know right away…
No seriously why does he read into everything Sang Yan does, but when Wen Yifan is having a literal panic attack he is just mildly curious and barely concerned. Making me so mad!
What was the use of introducing that Uncle in the plot when there are only 8 episodes left to end? We are in the…
He didn't show out of nowhere tho, he has been a dark, looming presence from the start, the reason why Wen Yifen went to a different university, why she is sleepwalking, the person who derailed her whole life, why she went away from Sang Yan. That should obviously be resolved. And we saw him before as well, he is the person who took her picture and the guy who had a car accident.
THE KISS?!? I Just saw the episode, I did nottt expect that omg. And Sang Yan flirting... Is Wen Yifan okay, is she still breating, did she have a heart attack?
Today's episode was so beautiful. The long hugs, the cuddling, opening up to one another, teasing each other. It was so intimate and so sweet. I think that lacks in a lot of dramas, I want to see two people in a relationship be comfortable with each other once they start dating.
Do y'all prefer this or the novel? I want to read it after.
You totally should! I really love both and I derive different kind of pleasure from reading something and from seeing something on screen. You get a bit more insight into how Wen Yifan is feeling when you read the novel, which is great.
And even if she saw her ex's new wife, she probably wouldn't recognize her yearsss later in a completely different context.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dJEO2BMe7xE
If Sang Yan wants to break up with her, I can understand that. She hurt him, that is true. But have some empathy?! You can't attack her and call her selfish. That just shows you don't understand her character.
"As an adult she should face her problem head on" is like telling a victim they should just leave their abusive relationship. It's so easy to say that from the outside, it's so easy to victim blame.
But I hope they meet before that, I need them back together todayy