I totally agree !As a mom too, I'd be proud of my son (or daughter) as well.
Thank you š As a child, I would get in fights to stand up for myself or for my friends - my family never had an issue with that. Granted, I wasnāt violent, it was rather to stop others from harassing me or my friends. A lot of times, weād become good buddies after the fight. Anyway, I would also task my child with teaching that friend how to fight so that they can stand up for themselves together.
I'm a bit disappointed with the Sand development. It's kinda unrealistic, and at the same time, too on the nose.…
Just curious, why do you think that Rin is a bad girlfriend? I donāt even remember seeing her after sheās introduced⦠To me, itās a bit strange that Rin doesnāt want to meet Cakeās friends - or maybe Cake doesnāt want her to meet them? Not sure about that one, but staying just with each other is normal for the initial phase of the relationship, but I think they have been together for a while now, so Iām surprised she doesnāt show up to meet his friends. Also, her remarks about Cake being sweaty after playing sports - it depends on how she said it. It could be totally harmless and playful, but I see Cake took it seriously, and thatās not great. I mean, she has every right to ask him to come to their dates cleaned up, but it shouldnāt prevent him from playing a game he likes. He really needs to manage his time better to be able to see his girlfriend and his friends, and study as well. Thatās on him, not on her. If she starts being bitchy about it, then itās up to him to break up with her. P. S. - sorry, didnāt see your response above until I posted my original post š
Iām a mom, and if my child got into a fight standing up for a friend I would be praising my child instead of hitting. At least Cakeās dad was cool, but heās scared of the mom (which is fine by me, but not in this case) š And I was happy to see Lift (he plays daddy), heās such a good actor, I like him a lot! š»
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I agree - in real life it rarely works out at that young age. Too much of a difference socially, financially and emotionally. But this is a drama where the characters will fall in love at the same age, so I think it will āanchorā them to each other better than if they just met at 25 and 40. And yes, those backhanded compliments are āpricelessā! š At least they acknowledge we are not dead yet! š»š„
Edit:I am finally done after binge watching for 2 days.At some point i waslike "Kiss alreadly guuuuys"anyway,the…
Can you imagine if BL finally broke into this genre? If they could deliver this kind of story with better written complex characters in a dystopian world, add some procedural to it and have this crazy chemistry of more mature characters⦠Yeah, letās drink on that! šš„ Btw, I am halfway through and I like it very much.
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If JW stays in the past heāll overlap with himself, which is a no-no for a time travel. So if he canāt bring JH with him to his timeline they can only be together as 25 and 40 yo. There are plenty of healthy 40yo who look better than some 25 yo šø Just sayingā¦š
I guess only people from the West have issues with the age, I don't find any problem with it, neither the creators.
I guess I am a āpeople from the Westā š But I donāt have any issues with age gaps as long as these conditions are in place: 1. The younger partner is 17+. 2. High maturity level of the younger partner. There are some very mature 17yo and very immature 25yo people. 3. Both partners consent to the relationship. So, to me, as long as both want the relationship and the younger partner physically and emotionally ready - go for it, best of luck! š„
Interesting concept although I think some will find the age thing weird. Reminds me of Minato Shouji Coin Laundry.…
I donāt think the creators of the show say that JW at 10 yo fell in love with 25 yo JH. He was very grateful to āajussiā for saving his life and admired him. To a little boy JH is āuncleā, not even a āhyungā. When JW saw his āuncleā murdered he was traumatized and has been feeling guilty ever since, so again - no romantic love there. For JH, the little guy is just a cute little bro, so thereās nothing āshockingā there. Now, when they meet in the alternate timeline, they are the same age, adults. So they can start feeling whatever it is to each other - again, nothing āshockingā. Even if JW is able to save JH and goes back to his timeline, itās still fine since they are definitely adults with an age difference of 15 years. Thatās not unheard of. So, my point is - thereās no romantic feelings between them at the time when JW is 10 yo.
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I think the lady hinted that JW could prevent the murder till January 30. Thatās my theory and Iām sticking to it! š Iām manifesting a happy end! š
Wait, he survives the abductor this time around, so does that mean he changed the time continuum? Or was the murder…
I think the story with a little boy hasnāt gotten to the point where Kang JH was killed yet. It looks like an adult JW arrived to the earlier timeline and has a chance to prevent the murder until January 30, like that lady said.
Absolutely! How many times does someone have to say āNo, donāt touch meā for it to get through? Is it supposed…
Yep. All his āreward/punishmentā is just creepy to me. Like, sir, who are you to give out either one? š¤·āāļø Rain never consented to a dom/sub relationship, at least not from what I saw. Now, if they had a proper conversation and a proper agreement, I would be totally on board and enjoying the story. But the way it is - Payu seriously creeps me out. If I were Rainās mom, Iād be right there with my frying pan in close contact with Payuās head. š„·
Ok. I'll say it straight out. This ep, IMO, would've been soooo much better if they'd left out two scenes: 1)…
Absolutely! How many times does someone have to say āNo, donāt touch meā for it to get through? Is it supposed to be cute? I really try to like this show, and I do like and appreciate actors and production crew. I just canāt like Payu as a character, maybe because I am very much different from Rain who seems to eat it all up? I donāt know⦠their whole dynamic just makes me want to protect Rain. š¤·āāļø And donāt get me started on āwifeā crap⦠š
Anyway, I would also task my child with teaching that friend how to fight so that they can stand up for themselves together.
To me, itās a bit strange that Rin doesnāt want to meet Cakeās friends - or maybe Cake doesnāt want her to meet them? Not sure about that one, but staying just with each other is normal for the initial phase of the relationship, but I think they have been together for a while now, so Iām surprised she doesnāt show up to meet his friends.
Also, her remarks about Cake being sweaty after playing sports - it depends on how she said it. It could be totally harmless and playful, but I see Cake took it seriously, and thatās not great.
I mean, she has every right to ask him to come to their dates cleaned up, but it shouldnāt prevent him from playing a game he likes. He really needs to manage his time better to be able to see his girlfriend and his friends, and study as well. Thatās on him, not on her. If she starts being bitchy about it, then itās up to him to break up with her.
P. S. - sorry, didnāt see your response above until I posted my original post š
And I was happy to see Lift (he plays daddy), heās such a good actor, I like him a lot! š»
Btw, is 180 degrees good? I am waiting for it to finish airing (which I have been unable to do for any of the other series yet) š
And yes, those backhanded compliments are āpricelessā! š At least they acknowledge we are not dead yet! š»š„
Btw, I am halfway through and I like it very much.
There are plenty of healthy 40yo who look better than some 25 yo šø Just sayingā¦š
1. The younger partner is 17+.
2. High maturity level of the younger partner.
There are some very mature 17yo and very immature 25yo people.
3. Both partners consent to the relationship.
So, to me, as long as both want the relationship and the younger partner physically and emotionally ready - go for it, best of luck! š„
For JH, the little guy is just a cute little bro, so thereās nothing āshockingā there.
Now, when they meet in the alternate timeline, they are the same age, adults. So they can start feeling whatever it is to each other - again, nothing āshockingā.
Even if JW is able to save JH and goes back to his timeline, itās still fine since they are definitely adults with an age difference of 15 years. Thatās not unheard of.
So, my point is - thereās no romantic feelings between them at the time when JW is 10 yo.
I really try to like this show, and I do like and appreciate actors and production crew. I just canāt like Payu as a character, maybe because I am very much different from Rain who seems to eat it all up? I donāt know⦠their whole dynamic just makes me want to protect Rain. š¤·āāļø
And donāt get me started on āwifeā crap⦠š