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Replying to Gracie Oct 17, 2021
It's really important to address these issues. I didn't realise it before now that all the dramas mentioned in…
Thank you, I adress that in part 2 but have K-dramas as the base so it is on its way 😉
Replying to Lilac Oct 17, 2021
A great topic to have chosen...I hate it when this aspect of expressing oneself is shown as something which provides…
Thank you, It is allot simpler than many think it is and I love that series of books, to bad it only is in Swedish, I also have books that explain different ways of reproduction in an inclusive way fit for toddlers... I have a lot of material fit for toddlers could be my precious profession ha ha 😊
Replying to River Cloud Oct 17, 2021
This was so fun to read 😄😄😄 the categorisation is really good 👌🏞I didn't even you had written it…
Thank you that is the most fun part 😉 I have not been spamming enough I see! ha ha will spam more in the future (jk, I am not a spam-bot)
Replying to Onedine Oct 17, 2021
I've seen some Chinese dramas, but I tend to avoid them. It is not just the questionable behavior of the characters,…
That is understandable, I like them for the fluff , I did not grow up in a communist country , but did grow up in a country where the propaganda is heavy too, so I can often be bothered by other types of propaganda. I do however recognize some of the propaganda and some of them do get over the top for me but that would be a different discussion. Part 2 is about K-dramas I think you will recognize more titles there.
Replying to Lilac Oct 17, 2021
Had had the privilege to have seen this article while it was under construction and haha well you already know…
Thanks for commenting and thanks for looking over it in the process, I would probably have been to nervous to turn it in without you 😘 so look at all the lovely comments and enjoy what you helped me achieve âĪ
Replying to Shiro Oct 17, 2021
This is a HUGE complement ( I feel the pressure for the rest now) Thank you so much for telling me! It is one…
Oh, both articles where written months ago, part 2 is in editing as we write. I mostly write with others because I enjoy to exchange ideas while writing, but have 4 (including this one) upcoming solos this was my first one and I am happy to see how it has been received by the readers. So this is a really good start. My previous articles have been well received too, so I really love writing on this platform even if it some times it takes time to get articles published. The pressure is more to be able to live up to expectations, but when I think about it the most important part of writing is to have fun, and I really am ðŸĨ°
Replying to vivi_1485 Oct 17, 2021
You are My Hero really was a wonderful drama. Main leads had a very healthy relationship. However, I felt uncomfortable…
I actually had a spot for Perfect and casual and the difference between contract and true consent, but edited it out for some reason, The reason I chose not to dig in to the women's behavior is because even if two wrongs do not make a right .it is not the same type of structural problem as the one I mention in the beginning of the article. to motivate my decision. Any way thank you for taking the time to read and comment on it 😊
Replying to 8004421 Oct 17, 2021
how is TharnType not here lol 😂
Hi, 1st reason would be that it is not a c-drama, 2nd reason is that I haven't seen it. I am sure. Many of the behavioures can be seen in dramas from many countries. But I am guessing you recognized some of the behaviour may I ask which ones? (Cureus)
Replying to Maj Oct 17, 2021
nice article :)It got me thinking is it human nature (esp if you're into someone) to be irrational and unconsciously/…
Thank you, It is complicated and I think a lot is learned behavior , I think we can come a long way with just making people aware of it so they do not take it as normal or worse blame themselves when people cross their boundaries.
Replying to 11111 Oct 17, 2021
I agree with you. A lot of dramas actually have lots of scenes that doesn't have mutual consents. Sometimes I…
Thank you for commenting, that is exactly what I wanted to say, watch it have fun just understand that it can be dangerous in real life, I am so happy to see so many people respond âĪ
Replying to Suzy Oct 17, 2021
I hope this article gets read by Chinese rom-com drama screen-writers, loved your article !! Consent is very essential…
Thank you so much for your comment, it would be interesting to discuss this with a screen writer... but as you see I think more and more will see the advantages of calling them out
Replying to Lovely Oct 17, 2021
This is my favourite MDL article of all time. I want to give you all the awards. I'm so thankful that you took…
This is a HUGE complement ( I feel the pressure for the rest now) Thank you so much for telling me! It is one of my favorite topics, I actually used to work with teaching toddlers and their kindergarten teachers about how to work with consent at an early age (age appropriate) so Ill take any chance I can get to write/talk about it ðŸĪ—
Replying to MsBookworm Oct 17, 2021
What a great, well-written article! I thoroughly enjoyed reading this :) Just like you, I enjoy watching these…
Thank you so much for reading I am happy you enjoyed it, I enjoyed writing it 😋
Replying to Popcxqueen Oct 17, 2021
I know that the HIStory series are from Taiwan and your article was specifically about mainland C-dramas, but…
I find it hard to see how it would not be, and think my standard answer to those who do would be something like: okay, we have different ways of understanding this however for people who may have or will be subjected to this behavior without being okay with it that their opinion is valid and that it is okay to seek help and leave this type of relationship.