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My Housekeeper Nagisa-san was a drama I could go along with for most of the episodes, and then I hit a wall. I’m not sure what the writers envisioned but they didn’t do a very good job of laying out the reasons for characters’ actions.
Mei is her pharmaceutical company’s “Outstanding Employee,” which everyone is reminded of often. She is completely dedicated to her job, has little patience with people, and is extremely competitive. She is also secretly a huge slob and subsists on instant or fast food. Her mother wanted her daughters to work even after they married so that they wouldn’t be miserable like her. Mei’s sister, Yui, became pregnant in college and married upsetting her mother greatly. Yui works at a housekeeping service and hires Nagisa to clean Mei’s house and prepare her meals for a 4-day trial period. Mei hates the idea and calls him an “ugly old man.” An event occurs that causes Mei and her mother to accept Nagisa’s help. Mei finds that Nagisa gives good advice and it’s nice to have someone caring for her. A cute business rival who lives across the hall makes her life more complicated.
I liked that Mei was a team leader and her boss was a woman. Often women are all but invisible in business dramas. Of course, there had to be one female worker who had an emotional breakdown because she couldn’t handle the work, a stock trope in business and medical Jdramas. Apparently, Japanese women are very fragile and cannot handle the pressures of work, or so dramas would have us believe. Working long overtime and socializing afterwards was showcased. For Mei, it was embarrassing to have a housekeeper. Why? Men often have wives who take care of the house and all their needs. It wouldn’t be embarrassing for single men to have a housekeeper or mother to take care of them. One character was aghast that Mei would be alone with a MAN in her apartment. Well, clutch my pearls!
Having just turned 28, Mei was being pressured on all sides to marry. Her parents didn’t care who she married as long as he had a pulse. At the same time, her mother and sister hadn’t spoken for years because Yui had married in college. Damned if you, damned if you don’t. Two characters declared themselves and their intent to marry on first dates before the first course arrived! I spend more time and thought committing to what to order for dessert than these characters did deciding on a mate during a first date.
I enjoyed the developing friendship between Mei and Nagisa. People who have magical housekeeping powers always appeal to me. I did, however, have some concerns about the final romantic choice Mei made. Just a heads up, Netflix has 10 episodes listed. The last episode is mostly a recap and is listed separately on MDL as a special. I have spoilery thoughts listed below…
11 May 2025
SPOILERY THOUGHTS
The relationship between Mei and Nagisa was perplexing to me. The age gap was significant. I always wonder what people talk about from very different generations, but 20 years is doable. Despite her work successes, Mei seemed very young in attitude. She had no idea what decisions were involved with marriage. When she went on dates, she always wore a huge bow in her hair and practically pinafores like a child in the 1800’s.
If she and Nagisa had both come out as asexual it would have made more sense. They showed no sexual desire toward each other or anyone else. There was zero chemistry between the two, no longing looks, no tender touches or kisses. They had an odd mother-daughter dynamic. Even in the end, it seemed more like a business arrangement than romantic marriage. She needed to be taken care of and he needed to take care of someone. Everyone has their kink and if they were happy, that’s all the matters. The problem was, the drama tried to make it seem like it was something more than transactional and it failed on that part for me.
Mei is her pharmaceutical company’s “Outstanding Employee,” which everyone is reminded of often. She is completely dedicated to her job, has little patience with people, and is extremely competitive. She is also secretly a huge slob and subsists on instant or fast food. Her mother wanted her daughters to work even after they married so that they wouldn’t be miserable like her. Mei’s sister, Yui, became pregnant in college and married upsetting her mother greatly. Yui works at a housekeeping service and hires Nagisa to clean Mei’s house and prepare her meals for a 4-day trial period. Mei hates the idea and calls him an “ugly old man.” An event occurs that causes Mei and her mother to accept Nagisa’s help. Mei finds that Nagisa gives good advice and it’s nice to have someone caring for her. A cute business rival who lives across the hall makes her life more complicated.
I liked that Mei was a team leader and her boss was a woman. Often women are all but invisible in business dramas. Of course, there had to be one female worker who had an emotional breakdown because she couldn’t handle the work, a stock trope in business and medical Jdramas. Apparently, Japanese women are very fragile and cannot handle the pressures of work, or so dramas would have us believe. Working long overtime and socializing afterwards was showcased. For Mei, it was embarrassing to have a housekeeper. Why? Men often have wives who take care of the house and all their needs. It wouldn’t be embarrassing for single men to have a housekeeper or mother to take care of them. One character was aghast that Mei would be alone with a MAN in her apartment. Well, clutch my pearls!
Having just turned 28, Mei was being pressured on all sides to marry. Her parents didn’t care who she married as long as he had a pulse. At the same time, her mother and sister hadn’t spoken for years because Yui had married in college. Damned if you, damned if you don’t. Two characters declared themselves and their intent to marry on first dates before the first course arrived! I spend more time and thought committing to what to order for dessert than these characters did deciding on a mate during a first date.
I enjoyed the developing friendship between Mei and Nagisa. People who have magical housekeeping powers always appeal to me. I did, however, have some concerns about the final romantic choice Mei made. Just a heads up, Netflix has 10 episodes listed. The last episode is mostly a recap and is listed separately on MDL as a special. I have spoilery thoughts listed below…
11 May 2025
SPOILERY THOUGHTS
The relationship between Mei and Nagisa was perplexing to me. The age gap was significant. I always wonder what people talk about from very different generations, but 20 years is doable. Despite her work successes, Mei seemed very young in attitude. She had no idea what decisions were involved with marriage. When she went on dates, she always wore a huge bow in her hair and practically pinafores like a child in the 1800’s.
If she and Nagisa had both come out as asexual it would have made more sense. They showed no sexual desire toward each other or anyone else. There was zero chemistry between the two, no longing looks, no tender touches or kisses. They had an odd mother-daughter dynamic. Even in the end, it seemed more like a business arrangement than romantic marriage. She needed to be taken care of and he needed to take care of someone. Everyone has their kink and if they were happy, that’s all the matters. The problem was, the drama tried to make it seem like it was something more than transactional and it failed on that part for me.
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