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Your Jun "letter" is hysterical and true. There are folks, who think that Jun is some naive, innocent young "boy" being gaslit by Sorn.
Jun continues to allow himself to be "taught" these "unique kissing and physical touching games" by a guy who isn't his current boyfriend. Jun also continues to tell Sorn to "not tell anyone" about what they both are doing.
Jun is totally complicit in his ravishing by Sorn.
I’ve carefully read every comment most of the are negative and the positive one is making my mad, fine you can…
"Why were Chan Yeong and Ji Yu shoved together? To fulfill those heteronormative expectations and fetishes. When we long for same-sex affection, hand-holding, picnic dates, hearts fluttering, we're met with accusations of fetishization from the people who fetishize the "straight" lifestyle. They're projecting onto us."
The telling point about TPTB being so hesitant in allowing the audience to see Hee Su and Seung Won's relationship to develop in the same exact way as Chan Young and Ji Yi was that I don't even recall seeing any kisses between those two characters. We got to see them get to know one another, spend time together exploring their interests (outside of their studies), get to know their friends (Hee Su and Seung Won). Those two were able and allowed to develop in the way that we have seen in other KBLs, JBLs, Taiwanese BLs, and yes, even Thai BLs. The hand holding, the shy and nervous looks, the "possessive" moments that drive everyone with glee.
All of those moments were given to Chan Young and Ji Yi.
I haven't seen the show. But reading the comments, even without knowing the source material, the show has enough…
IMO, yes.
Literally every single chance and opportunity to show Seung Won and Hee Su spend anytime together that would have shown any sort of development of them as a potential couple, the series would shift towards to Chan Young and Ji Yi or towards one of Hee Su's female siblings and their personal lives and even to Ho Sik and his unknown female crush.
It kept happening way too many times for it to not be intentional.
Just to be able to see little moments of Hee Su not be so centered all the time on how Chan Young was existing would have been helpful in seeing his growth in the first half of the series.
This is the most obvious BL that will provide the most tropes as possibly.
So Sorn let Jun get punched, because his "kisses" aren't "right", yet he's not attracted towards him at all. A BL trope used in an extreme way, but STILL a recognizable trope
Sorn considers what he and Jun are doing as "training", but he doesn't want Jun to do "this" with anyone else. Another BL trope.
It feels like this adaption didn't want to focus at all on the internal/external issues of two gay boys falling in love, and being able to explore/share their love between one another, while believing that the same audience would somehow embrace just how truly easy it is for the opposite straight pairings to go through their relationships. Even with the other sister of Hee Su having to accept the end of her relationship. That was shown as something that may happen to a couple. You fall out of love.
Why were all the confessions of Hee Su's crushes on Chan Young AND Seung Won done in darkness?! The acceptance of love between Seung Won and Hee Su shown at the abandoned school at night?!
I tried to give some benefit of the doubt, but TPTB literally couldn't give more than 5 minutes of Hee Su and Seung Won being together without including Chan Young and Ji Yi. We even got Ho Sik with his girl.
Chan Young isn't a good friend at all. I'm sorry to all the viewers that called out the clear lack of focus on Hee Su and Seung Won throughout the entire airing of this series.
Praise all of the performances from the actors, especially Ahn Ji Ho & Lee Sang Jun.
A rant...And sorry but I won't be nice in my words. I'm pissed off. And maybe this will be inappropriate, but…
I think that Akin not being entirely focused on pressing charges against Johnny makes sense to me, and not just because nothing was resolved in the manga.
Just imagine what would happen if Akin actually tried to bring attempted assault charges against Johnny? The media/press and the lawyers represent Johnny would attempt to smear Akin's name, his reputation, destroy his professional career, and bring his personal life (including his true relationship with Jun) to the public eye.
Very many victims can't and don't want to put themselves through another aspect of assault, in order to get some semblance of peace and control back into their lives.
I am glad that Jun apologized to Akin for what he experienced, that it wasn't his fault, and that he did nothing wrong. That's all that Akin truly needed to hear, and the support he received from the man that he loves and trusts.
Let’s get one thing straight (pun aggressively not intended):BL is not smut.Well… not unless it wants to be,…
"You know what’s actually offensive? Watching a straight couple on TV kiss with all the passion of two cardboard boxes trying to check off a checklist—and no one bats an eye. But two men? One forehead touch and suddenly the pearl clutchers are tweeting “SMUT!” from their fainting couches. Honey, if your only frame of reference for gay intimacy is filtered through discomfort, that’s a you problem. Not the show’s."
Thank you. It saddens me that certain pearl-clutchers are losing their minds over two adult consenting male characters being shown and portrayed as thoroughly enjoying their sexual and physical attraction towards one another.
Neither Sorn nor Jun want to fully admit that they are still drawn towards one another, but they cannot keep their desires from erupting. Be it in the club, outside of a friend's backyard garden, nor their workplace.
Grey's Anatomy has been on air for almost 22 years and the entire premise of that series was based on a med student have random one night stand with someone who ended up being her boss.
We only have 10 episodes of My Stubborn. Not all BLs have to be some sort of innocent quaint stroll down a romantic garden pathway, with no sexual touches until the 11th episode.
I absolutely loved Pam, Rak, and their love story in this series. Their shared love was lovely to watch.
I am not bothered that there wasn't any cray cray third party aka Kawi out to destroy the lives of his younger sister and his ex-girlfriend, because he couldn't accept that Pam never, ever loved him, and that she fell in love with one of his younger sisters. Kawi was someone that truly had the weight of the "success" of his family placed on his shoulders, due to his waste of human flesh sperm donor not being willing or able to not spread his seed throughout Bangkok.
I enjoyed seeing Nene, aka petite spitfire seeking revenge against her Mother's horrible sperm donor of a sack of flesh Khem. She got her revenge, while also gaining another chance at having a loving supportive family AND got her hot lover Ms. Oat at the end of it all.
What made me smile was that Orn was able to rediscover herself again, finally freeing herself, and her children from that house of deception, betrayal, and lies.
I await future GLs with Emi, Bonnie, and I am thrilled with the upcoming "Girl Rules" starring View and Mim.
Finished the sequel after a binge watch. I know that the script didn't have the easy, and wanted no obstacle path to love that is expected in GLs, but I appreciated that Yi Ming realized that she had to become a bit more braver in truly embracing and accepting the love and support that Ting Ting was attempting to give to her, and the future of their relationship. She also had to see just how lonely Ting Ting was as just the live-in "friend". How that no status made her feel like nothing.
When Ting Ting told Yi Ming: "Why does your fear negate my existence?", that wasn't something that Yi Ming expected to hear, nor something that Ting Ting truly wanted to say.
Ting Ting has loved her since high school. I love that she never thought that she would be able to have until the moment of their reunion at that lesbian wedding 3 years prior.
Yi Ming was very lucky to have Ting Ting's love for her survive her fears and cowardice.
I am on episode 6 and at this point, Ting Ting has to stop accepting Yi Ming's dismissive and selfish behavior regarding their relationship and the place that she puts Ting Ting in regarding Yi Ming's future.
Yi Ming literally told Ting Ting that she hasn't even thought about her role/place in her future. Not their future. Hers.
She had Ting Ting move in to her place, but not into her life.
She doesn't want to treat her as her girlfriend nor partner. She keeps her at a distance, in regards to her job, her ex-husband, and their child. Then Yi Ming's upset that she feels like Ting Ting's keeping stuff from her. When Ting Ting wants to actually talk about their issues, Yi Ming tells her, that everything she has done to try and turn herself into being a supportive partner for them as a couple is a "burden".
I get that Yi Ming has erupted her former life as a wife and sole care-giver to her son, but that was her choice. Ting Ting wasn't in her life during her divorce and separation from her former spouse, but I feel like Yi Ming has been slowly placing fault and blame on Ting Ting.
Yi Ming wasn't at all ready to try and have a live-in relationship with Ting Ting at this point in Yi Ming's life.
"The humor does not translate and most GMMTV writers aren't able to improve the story."The Hong Kong version was…
Agreed. The dynamics were way off with those three main characters. We also never got a drag out physical fight between Boss and Mo over Heng. It was like they were afraid to let it happen. To just let that tension go unleashed.
It really shows that this was written by someone who's never worked on a BL before. Everything looks beautiful,…
Grandma definitely should have much more of a presence in helping her grandson get more acclimated to their family farm business, with "Uncle" Hem's assistance.
How is Fifa supposed to remember all of the names of their employees, their dietary requirements, and the layout of the farm within 24 hours in being there?
The premise of getting Fifa on the farm suggests that it has been a very long time since he and his parents visited beyond his early childhood years.
I just hope Grandma isn't too taken aback when she finds out that her grandson has fallen in love with her favorite hired hand.
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Your Jun "letter" is hysterical and true. There are folks, who think that Jun is some naive, innocent young "boy" being gaslit by Sorn.
Jun continues to allow himself to be "taught" these "unique kissing and physical touching games" by a guy who isn't his current boyfriend. Jun also continues to tell Sorn to "not tell anyone" about what they both are doing.
Jun is totally complicit in his ravishing by Sorn.
The telling point about TPTB being so hesitant in allowing the audience to see Hee Su and Seung Won's relationship to develop in the same exact way as Chan Young and Ji Yi was that I don't even recall seeing any kisses between those two characters. We got to see them get to know one another, spend time together exploring their interests (outside of their studies), get to know their friends (Hee Su and Seung Won). Those two were able and allowed to develop in the way that we have seen in other KBLs, JBLs, Taiwanese BLs, and yes, even Thai BLs. The hand holding, the shy and nervous looks, the "possessive" moments that drive everyone with glee.
All of those moments were given to Chan Young and Ji Yi.
Literally every single chance and opportunity to show Seung Won and Hee Su spend anytime together that would have shown any sort of development of them as a potential couple, the series would shift towards to Chan Young and Ji Yi or towards one of Hee Su's female siblings and their personal lives and even to Ho Sik and his unknown female crush.
It kept happening way too many times for it to not be intentional.
Just to be able to see little moments of Hee Su not be so centered all the time on how Chan Young was existing would have been helpful in seeing his growth in the first half of the series.
So Sorn let Jun get punched, because his "kisses" aren't "right", yet he's not attracted towards him at all. A BL trope used in an extreme way, but STILL a recognizable trope
Sorn considers what he and Jun are doing as "training", but he doesn't want Jun to do "this" with anyone else. Another BL trope.
Why were all the confessions of Hee Su's crushes on Chan Young AND Seung Won done in darkness?! The acceptance of love between Seung Won and Hee Su shown at the abandoned school at night?!
I tried to give some benefit of the doubt, but TPTB literally couldn't give more than 5 minutes of Hee Su and Seung Won being together without including Chan Young and Ji Yi. We even got Ho Sik with his girl.
Chan Young isn't a good friend at all. I'm sorry to all the viewers that called out the clear lack of focus on Hee Su and Seung Won throughout the entire airing of this series.
Praise all of the performances from the actors, especially Ahn Ji Ho & Lee Sang Jun.
Just imagine what would happen if Akin actually tried to bring attempted assault charges against Johnny? The media/press and the lawyers represent Johnny would attempt to smear Akin's name, his reputation, destroy his professional career, and bring his personal life (including his true relationship with Jun) to the public eye.
Very many victims can't and don't want to put themselves through another aspect of assault, in order to get some semblance of peace and control back into their lives.
I am glad that Jun apologized to Akin for what he experienced, that it wasn't his fault, and that he did nothing wrong. That's all that Akin truly needed to hear, and the support he received from the man that he loves and trusts.
Watching a straight couple on TV kiss with all the passion of two cardboard boxes trying to check off a checklist—and no one bats an eye. But two men? One forehead touch and suddenly the pearl clutchers are tweeting “SMUT!” from their fainting couches.
Honey, if your only frame of reference for gay intimacy is filtered through discomfort, that’s a you problem. Not the show’s."
Thank you. It saddens me that certain pearl-clutchers are losing their minds over two adult consenting male characters being shown and portrayed as thoroughly enjoying their sexual and physical attraction towards one another.
Neither Sorn nor Jun want to fully admit that they are still drawn towards one another, but they cannot keep their desires from erupting. Be it in the club, outside of a friend's backyard garden, nor their workplace.
Grey's Anatomy has been on air for almost 22 years and the entire premise of that series was based on a med student have random one night stand with someone who ended up being her boss.
We only have 10 episodes of My Stubborn. Not all BLs have to be some sort of innocent quaint stroll down a romantic garden pathway, with no sexual touches until the 11th episode.
And there was no sexual assault of Jun by Sorn.
At least both Oat and Boat don't come across as having any sort of hesitation in portraying the sexual desires/needs of these characters.
I am not bothered that there wasn't any cray cray third party aka Kawi out to destroy the lives of his younger sister and his ex-girlfriend, because he couldn't accept that Pam never, ever loved him, and that she fell in love with one of his younger sisters. Kawi was someone that truly had the weight of the "success" of his family placed on his shoulders, due to his waste of human flesh sperm donor not being willing or able to not spread his seed throughout Bangkok.
I enjoyed seeing Nene, aka petite spitfire seeking revenge against her Mother's horrible sperm donor of a sack of flesh Khem. She got her revenge, while also gaining another chance at having a loving supportive family AND got her hot lover Ms. Oat at the end of it all.
What made me smile was that Orn was able to rediscover herself again, finally freeing herself, and her children from that house of deception, betrayal, and lies.
I await future GLs with Emi, Bonnie, and I am thrilled with the upcoming "Girl Rules" starring View and Mim.
When Ting Ting told Yi Ming: "Why does your fear negate my existence?", that wasn't something that Yi Ming expected to hear, nor something that Ting Ting truly wanted to say.
Ting Ting has loved her since high school. I love that she never thought that she would be able to have until the moment of their reunion at that lesbian wedding 3 years prior.
Yi Ming was very lucky to have Ting Ting's love for her survive her fears and cowardice.
Yi Ming literally told Ting Ting that she hasn't even thought about her role/place in her future. Not their future. Hers.
She had Ting Ting move in to her place, but not into her life.
She doesn't want to treat her as her girlfriend nor partner. She keeps her at a distance, in regards to her job, her ex-husband, and their child. Then Yi Ming's upset that she feels like Ting Ting's keeping stuff from her. When Ting Ting wants to actually talk about their issues, Yi Ming tells her, that everything she has done to try and turn herself into being a supportive partner for them as a couple is a "burden".
I get that Yi Ming has erupted her former life as a wife and sole care-giver to her son, but that was her choice. Ting Ting wasn't in her life during her divorce and separation from her former spouse, but I feel like Yi Ming has been slowly placing fault and blame on Ting Ting.
Yi Ming wasn't at all ready to try and have a live-in relationship with Ting Ting at this point in Yi Ming's life.
I may rewatch the OG series this weekend now.
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How is Fifa supposed to remember all of the names of their employees, their dietary requirements, and the layout of the farm within 24 hours in being there?
The premise of getting Fifa on the farm suggests that it has been a very long time since he and his parents visited beyond his early childhood years.
I just hope Grandma isn't too taken aback when she finds out that her grandson has fallen in love with her favorite hired hand.