Kiss lovers, how long do you plan to complain about knowing that ML respects his real wife by not kissing (like…
Putting aside his respectable behavior and his family, I still feel that as an actor he should be capable of expressing the full range of emotions required by the script — and yes, kissing is also a part of acting. Some fans say that adding a kiss would have made the story more exciting, and that’s their preference.
Personally, I’m not someone who enjoys heavy kissing or bed scenes. In a romance drama, kissing isn’t what matters most to me, and as fans, we don’t expect that from him either. What I don’t understand is why people are protesting so loudly when the lack of kissing hasn’t affected the flow, quality, or emotional weight of the story at all. The narrative is still strong without it, so the complaints feel unnecessary.
this drama as usual has the complete ingredients of a ren jialun drama. always a problem in every solution and…
someone had mentioned that novel has a happy ending. i definitely agree with you. all the complete ingredients here we have. i think he will die from cold sickness
Appreciation of how complex and multi-layered Xiao Huan is as a character:First, lets cover one of the first things…
Well said. From the very first scene of the drama, I already started trying to understand XH. He acted harshly, even cruelly, but something in the way he carried himself made me feel that he wasn’t doing it without a reason. I’ve watched seven episodes now, and throughout each one I’ve been peeling back the layers of his character, trying to figure out what shaped him, what pressures he’s under, and what exactly he’s trying to protect.
Once the flashbacks came in, everything about him started to make more sense — his decisions, his contradictions, his emotional restraint, and even the moments where he seems cold-blooded. The story clearly paints him as someone torn between his duty, his fear, and his desire to shield Cang Cang from a reality that could break her.** Like you, I find his overprotectiveness frustrating and even “dumb” at times, but I also feel sympathy for him. I can’t help feeling angry at some of his choices, while at the same time understanding the helplessness that forces him into them. That mix of resentment and pity tells us how well his character is written.
And honestly, even if his cruel façade can fool the Dowager Empress, I doubt he could ever deceive the Preceptor or the Grand Tutor for long. Those two are far too intelligent and politically sharp. If anything, his behavior is more likely to expose how conflicted he truly is — which again shows how human and imperfect he is beneath all the masks.
He’s deeply flawed, but not beyond understanding. And that’s what makes watching him so compelling.
I don’t quite understand why there are so many complaints about the drama by day 3. It’s one thing if people…
Complaining about a drama after watching only one episode is understandable — first impressions can be rough. But complaining while completely skipping the clear on-screen text like “TWO MONTHS LATER” and “ONE YEAR BEFORE”… that’s wild 😭💀. If you miss the time jumps, of course everything will feel confusing.
And about the cast — what you said is absolutely true. They’re really good, and the acting is solid. My only problem is with how the FL’s character is written. Something about her characterization feels a bit off to me. Not the acting, just the writing.
Watching misunderstandings play out again and again is honestly exhausting 😩💤. It’s getting really tiring…
Her father and adopted brother perform well in front of her. Meanwhile, he appears as a villain. It is reasonable for her to feel this way. Here, it is not fair to blame FL for everything, but if we want, we could blame the screenwriters 😂
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Personally, I’m not someone who enjoys heavy kissing or bed scenes. In a romance drama, kissing isn’t what matters most to me, and as fans, we don’t expect that from him either. What I don’t understand is why people are protesting so loudly when the lack of kissing hasn’t affected the flow, quality, or emotional weight of the story at all. The narrative is still strong without it, so the complaints feel unnecessary.
They literally just swap their given names and walk in like:
“Hi, I’m Lu Wuming.”
“And I’m Su Lingfeng.”
That’s name cosplay 💀💀.
But somehow everyone still believes them 😭.
Once the flashbacks came in, everything about him started to make more sense — his decisions, his contradictions, his emotional restraint, and even the moments where he seems cold-blooded. The story clearly paints him as someone torn between his duty, his fear, and his desire to shield Cang Cang from a reality that could break her.**
Like you, I find his overprotectiveness frustrating and even “dumb” at times, but I also feel sympathy for him. I can’t help feeling angry at some of his choices, while at the same time understanding the helplessness that forces him into them. That mix of resentment and pity tells us how well his character is written.
And honestly, even if his cruel façade can fool the Dowager Empress, I doubt he could ever deceive the Preceptor or the Grand Tutor for long. Those two are far too intelligent and politically sharp. If anything, his behavior is more likely to expose how conflicted he truly is — which again shows how human and imperfect he is beneath all the masks.
He’s deeply flawed, but not beyond understanding. And that’s what makes watching him so compelling.
But complaining while completely skipping the clear on-screen text like “TWO MONTHS LATER” and “ONE YEAR BEFORE”… that’s wild 😭💀.
If you miss the time jumps, of course everything will feel confusing.
And about the cast — what you said is absolutely true.
They’re really good, and the acting is solid. My only problem is with how the FL’s character is written. Something about her characterization feels a bit off to me. Not the acting, just the writing.