On rewatch, I paid close attention to JQX's conversation with the landlord. This quote which I included in my…
Yes, I remember him saying that. It’s a heartbreaking way to think about love and himself. That is despair carried over from childhood trauma. His character is very relatable to me and people I have met. It’s like he had given up and was merely existing until he di*d and didn’t want anyone to see his demise. He was a very affectionate and caring person, but that side of him had been caged by his ‘mother’.
on one hand it was fantastic seeing when yu qiao and ying tao just spoke to his face how he wasn’t right ghosting…
Yes. No foundation to make decisions because everything he did garnered criticism and rage. He was very sensitive, and that barrage of vitriol from someone who was supposed to love and protect a child was unbearable for him, so he chose to hide and try to make himself into the person he was told he should be by that abusive woman which only took him further away from who he was meant to be.
Cherry saw who he was supposed to be, and coaxed that out of him, and loved him despite his perceived flaws.
you nailed it!!! he could not act like a functional heads on adult since he did not have any good example during…
It was a beautiful story! And you are correct - there is no flawless or perfect human being.
There is a psychological principle with trauma experiences where, especially when young, the age a person experiences trauma and their underdeveloped mind has no reference in how to cope, this is where that decision comes into play for the rest of their life unless the seek counseling or someone intervenes on their behalf. And Cherry was not only his hope, but she gave him patience and strength to fight for something better.
after seeing so many negative reviews bashing the FL, calling her self centered and out of touc, your review perfectly…
Thank you. She was very strong even as a child. It’s too bad people read romance and expect something from their imaginations instead of taking the story as it is.
nice review, thank you 😊 i disnt know this drama was so deep.. i will add it to my watch list now.what you…
Yes it is a sad representation. People are offended too easily, or someone behaves differently than they think they should and ‘dispose’ people who don’t stroke their egos or make them feel good all the time. There’s no space for people to express their emotions or difficulties. It truly can be a very lonely planet.
Watched POB, TSOPG, TLB, AJTY, and out of all his dramas, this is Liu Yuning best role. Like Nan Heng will always…
I agree. He pulled off this triple role brilliantly. He is incredibly talented and far surpasses many other actors who have gone through schooling to become actors.
I am still trying to figure out what I just watched. It made no sense to me. It was filmed like they weren’t…
okay, that makes more sense. I vaguely remember that conversation between them. At first I thought you were referring to the blossoms in his courtyard 😂
Thank you! I have been using this name since 1996 (not on here - I had no idea there were dramas at that time. People have a difficult time trying to pronounce it too. 😂
I think it would be better if people discuss ZLS related topics in ZLS page since this is a drama page. Also people…
This is true about the censoring. If that had been portrayed, every person in the cast and crew would most likely be in jail.
And yes about the false rumors that LuSi is soft banned or blacklisted. She has received so many new brand endorsement contracts since her openness about her illness and the grace and frankness she brought her struggle public. People seriously need to stop watching gossip videos and believing comments made because they saw it on the internet, so it must be true.
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Cherry saw who he was supposed to be, and coaxed that out of him, and loved him despite his perceived flaws.
That is love.
There is a psychological principle with trauma experiences where, especially when young, the age a person experiences trauma and their underdeveloped mind has no reference in how to cope, this is where that decision comes into play for the rest of their life unless the seek counseling or someone intervenes on their behalf. And Cherry was not only his hope, but she gave him patience and strength to fight for something better.
Thank you! I have been using this name since 1996 (not on here - I had no idea there were dramas at that time. People have a difficult time trying to pronounce it too. 😂
And yes about the false rumors that LuSi is soft banned or blacklisted. She has received so many new brand endorsement contracts since her openness about her illness and the grace and frankness she brought her struggle public. People seriously need to stop watching gossip videos and believing comments made because they saw it on the internet, so it must be true.