i was too emotional to articulate my thoughts yesterday but after gaining some clarity, i was finally able to form an opinion on the issue.
first of all, this sucks. okay? i don't want to sit here and talk about this but i feel like i need to let it out. it sucks to see someone you look up to turn out to be the worst kind of person that you fear but unfortunately this is what has happened so let's just deal with it. what build said was disgusting and to me, the moment i read those things, he had already reached a point of no return. there's no returning back to how things used to be. he was already an adult when he said those things, in fact, he was my age when he said those words. i will be the first to admit that i am not perfect but i am old enough to know what is right and what is wrong. i am old enough to know what things should be shared on the internet and what things shouldn't be. at this point, whatever i post online or even my political views concerning the society, gender, social norms are almost fully formed.
to the people saying 'we all say things that we regret' i am sorry but since i was born and till now i have never said anything even close to what he said so what's your point? it says a lot about you when you say that we all say shit like that because NO we don't and if YOU do, then there in lies the problem which is YOU. also boc already warned him about it. if he knows that he was wrong then he should've apologized. i'd like to think that his mindset has changed but honestly, it probably hasn't. he said that he almost forgot but if you really think you made a big mistake, would you ever be able to forget it? no. you would only forget it if it doesn't mean anything to you.
i'm not gonna blame anyone who is supporting him because we all need something to believe in. we all cope with these things differently. i understand if you can't let go of all the positive feelings you've attached to a person. of course it's not easy to finally come to the realization that the person you idealize isn't the best person HOWEVER to all of you guys who are defending him remember that he is probably not reading your comments but the people who have been victims of things like rape, sa, abuse probably are so even though i am willing to give the people defending him a pass, i have absolutely no sympathy for rape apologists and people who defend rape apologists. get your shit together and prioritize accordingly.
i hope we get more kimchay in tomorrow's episode along with some kp (ofc) and timetay. alsooo kinn, kim and tankhun interaction would literally change my life.
damn this show is so interesting. i'm on ep 3 and this show is making me use my brain cells to decipher what's gonna happen next.... and this comment section looks chill too....
I wasnt really going to comment on anything but Build's words,just made me relive something i have been trying…
i'm so sorry you had to experience that. i hope you know that it was not your fault and no matter what anyone else says, it will never be your fault. i hope you know that you are valid and so is your experience. take care of yourself and do what makes you happy <3
I DONT UNDERSTAND. I AM SICK. I AM FREAKING SICK OF HATERS/FANS/PEOPLE!!!!GO FUCKING GET A LIFE AN LEAVE THEM…
i’m sorry but why are you blaming us for build’s actions? what are we supposed to do? praise him? worship him? make a shrine in his name? clearly you’re angry and everyone professes their anger differently but i think the person who’s responsible for this in the first place is build not the people who have uncovered his old posts.
one weird thing about all of this is people blaming the ones digging up the information rather than build who made these comments himself. it's very bizarre and do not compare it to leaking bible's private photos which is an invasion of privacy and is totally wrong. my two cents over the whole fiasco? i'm just gonna stay away from it all because it makes me feel really sad. for me, there's nothing i hate more than misogyny and racism so it's not easy for me to forgive especially cause idk if he's apologizing cause he has really changed or if he's apologizing cause he got found out. if you have been here from the beginning, you know how much i love this show and the cast but this is something i'm finding hard to deal with...... so pls don't pressure me into forgiving build and don't be writing hate speeches in replies. i'm not doing very good rn and i hope no one adds to that by saying some stupid shit.
some people think it’s okay to say whatever you want on the internet just because you stay anonymous. well it’s true your identity stays hidden but i’m pretty sure your true personality will seep through your real life and make you face the consequences of your actions.
first of all, this sucks. okay? i don't want to sit here and talk about this but i feel like i need to let it out. it sucks to see someone you look up to turn out to be the worst kind of person that you fear but unfortunately this is what has happened so let's just deal with it. what build said was disgusting and to me, the moment i read those things, he had already reached a point of no return. there's no returning back to how things used to be. he was already an adult when he said those things, in fact, he was my age when he said those words. i will be the first to admit that i am not perfect but i am old enough to know what is right and what is wrong. i am old enough to know what things should be shared on the internet and what things shouldn't be. at this point, whatever i post online or even my political views concerning the society, gender, social norms are almost fully formed.
to the people saying 'we all say things that we regret' i am sorry but since i was born and till now i have never said anything even close to what he said so what's your point? it says a lot about you when you say that we all say shit like that because NO we don't and if YOU do, then there in lies the problem which is YOU. also boc already warned him about it. if he knows that he was wrong then he should've apologized. i'd like to think that his mindset has changed but honestly, it probably hasn't. he said that he almost forgot but if you really think you made a big mistake, would you ever be able to forget it? no. you would only forget it if it doesn't mean anything to you.
i'm not gonna blame anyone who is supporting him because we all need something to believe in. we all cope with these things differently. i understand if you can't let go of all the positive feelings you've attached to a person. of course it's not easy to finally come to the realization that the person you idealize isn't the best person HOWEVER to all of you guys who are defending him remember that he is probably not reading your comments but the people who have been victims of things like rape, sa, abuse probably are so even though i am willing to give the people defending him a pass, i have absolutely no sympathy for rape apologists and people who defend rape apologists. get your shit together and prioritize accordingly.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrlheUJzL_8&list=WL&index=5