Finding Neverland

It's not a matter of loving or not loving the mother. She seemed to be a really noble mother when she was educating her daughter just by talking or showing her.

I understand that she was cautious and harsh at first, but there was no need to teach her with a stick. She didn't give up her stubbornness and pride just because she thought she was right. Everyone around her thought her attitude was exaggerated. I think it was too.

If I were the girl, I would have rejected her as a mother after that scene, not because I was beaten, but because I couldn't handle the injustice more than the caning. A person's pride is damaged in the face of injustice and even more so when it comes from the mother. Otherwise, it wouldn't hurt so much to be caned by your mother for little mischief. What I am trying to say is that it was not the girl's butt that was hurt here. Her pride and her feelings were hurt. It was the same method the King used when he punished Ling buyi, but no one's feelings were hurt because there was no injustice. So it's very important why you give that beating.


It was not emphasized in the show because the girl left the family, but I think she would have had much more difficulties if she had stayed there. It was best for both of them that they broke up.

Yes, I love her too. She is beautiful and sympathetic and she acts well.
I'm not sure if it's her own voice, but she usually uses the same voice in dramas and I love the way she speaks. I tried Hidden love for her.

I tried Hidden love about two weeks ago, I skipped the whole thing and got to episode 17 (to see if there was anything to interest me, if there was, I would have started watching without skipping) but I couldn't find what I was looking for. I like historical dramas more, modern ones are too monotonous. The chemistry between her and the leading boy was good, and he was very handsome, but unfortunately, a straight romance that starts when they are young and develops without much interruption does not work. Maybe if they had an exciting start when they met when they were younger and met again in college, I would have been more interested, but when I got to the episode where they started dating, I lost interest. Modern dramas are not bad, but they are not exciting. Despite that, I keep trying.

And yes, I also like the contrasts in Chinese dramas and how they can be in the same drama and then reunite in different dramas and sometimes even become the lead. Just like the lead couple here.

I finished the series, so I don't think I missed anything. There is a 15 year old girl who has grown up without parental love, with a faithful helper and has been constantly abused by her grandmother and her uncle's wife. Such a girl learns nothing but to defend herself. Even a wild animal in the forest will come and bite you if you throw a stone at it. The so-called educated noble girls belittled her, set traps, gossiped, mocked, ridiculed and even abused her every chance they got to show their power. Because unlike her, they had strong families behind them who supported them. She had to struggle without the support of her family. Of course, she could not complain about them to her mother, who tried to discipline her at every opportunity, compared her to others and tried to discipline rather than love her, she had no choice but to deal with them herself. Even Ling buyi gave him her full support in the bridge incident.


They both understood that some things should not go unpunished. If you make a habit of being oppressed you will end up like Lou ben. No one on the bridge was innocent, two or three people were tormenting and the others were busy sycophanting and mocking and watching, the innocent ones were the ones not on the bridge.

I don't think her mother disciplined her, she learned to defend herself through her own experiences. She just showed her some things at the beginning and that's it. Showing her daughter what Luo's family was like is one of the few good things she did. That's when her scenes started to diminish.

After she left her mother, she became a little bit stronger because of what she went through. Then she came to the palace and matured in the palace. She never compromised her character. She always avenged what was done to her. Fortunately for her, the Emperor and his wives knew the concepts of justice. Unlike her mother, they were fairer.


Unlike their spoiled children, they were extremely mature. And they did not hesitate to do justice for the girl when necessary. She was also fortunate that Ling buyi supported her and taught her some court procedures.

Every argument between the couple made her think and with the advice of the empress, she began to improve herself. Through her experiences with Ling buyi, her quarrels, her experiences with the princesses at court, the way the adults at court treated her, she matured and grew stronger.

In fact, most of the people in the series have experienced character development through their suffering. Including the mother. Some in the opposite direction, unfortunately. For me, the daughter was the one who matured her mother. When her daughter locked herself in the palace and left her and the mother couldn't see her daughter for five years, this was the biggest punishment and maturation period for the mother. Her mother herself admitted her mistakes as she screamed at the door that closed on her. I still don't like the character of the mother in the first 10 episodes and the excessive discipline. As I said, if it was a short series and there was no time for the series to take a different turn, this excess would have made me leave the series.

I think the only good thing about long series is that they can suddenly switch to a different storyline. In this way, the mother's scenes were reduced, some separations that should have happened occurred, focal points shifted, life and death issues emerged, and each character matured with pain in their own place. The mother didn't have time to discipline her daughter and had the chance to self-criticize by witnessing her daughter's suffering. So when the story took different turns, we relaxed a bit and started to worry about other things.

Yes, I've already started the second part, we don't see the mother as much as we used to, she rarely appears and when she does she's protective, but still her behavior at the beginning is meaningless. We can even say that she is still a bit stubborn. If it wasn't a 50-episode series, I would definitely leave the show because of this. The overall flow of the series has shifted elsewhere, the middle part is centered on the palace. For this reason, it became a little softer. I'm glad that the girl got away from her mother, at least it's like a punishment for the mother.

It can happen. I realize she have her reasons, but that doesn't justify her methods. Unfortunately, it is not possible to say that everything is permissible on the way to the goal. She will be better in the future, of course, but that doesn't justify her unnecessary rigidity at the beginning. And after leaving her alone at the wolf's table for so many years. She should feel guilty. The girl needs some education, of course, but before comparing her to others, she should think about how she lived. Everyone around her made sense, except the mother. Just because she is a mother and an adult doesn't mean she is always right in what she does. She was not the only adult there. It's absurd to constantly compare her daughter to someone else, scolding her and punishing her. If I didn't know she raised two sons, I'd say she's a rookie mother. She only knows how to be a soldier. She can't accuse her daughter of lack of education if she doesn't know how to express what she thinks. If she is the so-called rational one, she should have expressed herself in a better way. And some things should be left to time. Treating her daughter like a machine that needs to be repaired is not being a mother in my opinion.

The mother character is just a who....e. She's a bit.......h who takes it out on her daughter for her own mistakes. Goddamn it, she deserves every curse word. I couldn't stand it. The way she protects her daughter like she's training soldiers is stupid. She's an assh.............le who thinks she's smart. Damn a mother like her. With a mother like that, there's no need for enemies. She doesn't think about the pain her daughter has suffered all these years. She doesn't need training and discipline, she needs love, she needs a mother. Damn woman.

He's an actor who I've always found very handsome and one of my favorites, and now the period image suits him perfectly, he should immediately star in a period series. Absolutely gorgeous gorgeous.

She is a manipulative b.tch from the beginning till the end.

The male lead had a much better hairstyle in the first episodes. Why didn't you let him keep it that way ..I hope his hair returns to its former style.

I enjoy watching both of them.

Revenge ! for what and and why does she take it from him. It's a stupid plot. She knows very well who he is, what kind of person he is and that he is actually one of the biggest victims. And her father is the prince's teacher. This is so stupid.

What, this topic and cast and only 1 episode, nooo :(

ahhhh naye uhm tae goo and my save me couple again <3

Omooo I can't wait. My carzy save me couple. Uhm tae goo is one of the best <3

Finally, it's a bit late, but at least there won't be the same suffering in the future.

This is the stupidest revenge motive and plan I've ever seen. You've already gotten revenge once. He'll take revenge on all their reincarnations out of boredom. So stupid. Oddly enough, even though they reincarnated, he still holds them responsible, but he is too distant from the woman he loved in the past and treats her like a completely different person. He's too cold towards the reincarnation of his beloved. There's an inconsistency. It's turned into a stupid intrigue show. I couldn't finish 11 out of anger. I'm dropping it. It's awful, awful, just awful. It's not very good anyway, but at least it didn't make me hate it. Now it's just annoying.

Exactly.

Dirty assholes. Now they're reporting that he was slandered. I wonder what kind of brain they have to be born with to believe every news that comes out. If it had been reported just a day ago, maybe he wouldn't have died. Everything is so senseless. He is no longer with us and it is not clear what will happen to the psychology of his family and friends in this process. But people with spider brains only blame the brainless cops and the media. They have lost their brain cells from drinking and working too much. They have no idea how the world works. Their lives are so boring that they get satisfaction when they send deadly messages to celebrities. No one dares to speak out against politicians and the real evil rich. They all had a part in his death. They destroyed these beautiful dreams. Just like they did to so many celebrities before. I'm sad and angry. It shouldn't have happened. Whether he really committed these crimes or not, the price shouldn't be death.

They wasted him easily, as they always do, just like those disgusting events in their series, but they will never get wise. They continue to spew their hatred for him even after he is dead, the vile creatures. He only died in vain.