etoks21

Stop using "pedo" or pedophilia.
You don't know what those words mean.

If Tutor and Akira disengaging is not a "disengagement," then what is it? They seem rational, calm, and friendly about it all, the opposite of what you want for Akira. You want trauma and devastation. Tutor saved his life and you can't stand it.

I know, the universe of grays is hard for a simple, black/white thinker like you.

"whataboutism" is a lame, derogatory euphemism used by people like you who want to proclaim moral certainty where it does not exist. Science, including the social sciences, are built on "whataboutisms," without which we would be unable to examine ANY question or quandry.

Lana Delulu would just come in, tell us all about how her black/white absolutism is the RIGHT view, and that would be it.
The universe is GRAY. Grow up.

Show me from the script where it is established, the age at which Akira and Hot Tutor started banging. It's not.

"Akira saved himself." lol This is why I christened you Lana Delulu. Akira was on the edge. Tutor brought him off of it. You hate that because it doesn't comport with your black/white nonsense.

Statutory rape, like most laws, exists as a guideline for the protection of those who need it. And like most laws, it allows for the particular circumstances of each, individual case. Were this not so, there would be no need for courtrooms and judges and sentencing variations, which exist largely to render judgment with respect to individual circumstances.

Laws are not black/white, just as the world in which they are applied is not black/white. Were Tutor charged with statutory rape (what happened to your charges of "pedophilia?"), Akira would testify on his behalf, the judge would hopefully see that Tutor had helped Akira far more than any imagined harm, and charges would be dismissed.

Grownups don't need black/white fantasies. Why do you?

Dearest Church Girl:

Why can't you answer five simple questions?

1. Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday?
2. Are some 16-year-olds more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds?
3. Should all relationships between people who meet in power-imbalanced relationships be made illegal? (Professor-college student, police chief-police detective, store manager-cashier, bank manager-teller, principal-teacher, etc?
4. If not, why not?
5. Was Akira healthier, happier before or after his relationship with Tutor kicked in?

Yours in Jesus,
Etoks21

Regarding Akira/Tutor, I adore reading the feverish, agitated comments from self-righteous, MDL Church Girls.
I bathe in the sweet tears of their performative outrage.

The tutor is hot.
The tutor is kind.
The tutor is thoughtful.
The tutor may well have saved Akira's life.
The tutor and Akira are ending their friends-with-benefits relationship on healthy terms, with no ugliness and no trauma.

It is the LACK of trauma to Akira that pisses off the Church Girls.
They want him hanging dead in the closet, rather than alive and having enjoyable sex with a hot, older young man he trusts, a man who is letting him go with affection, now that he has found love with Kanata.
Even Kanata isn't pissed at Kanda. He understands Akira needed him and the degree to which he helped him live and grow.

I can easily see the three of them as friends going forward.
But not the Church Girls. They want Akira traumatized and Kanda in prison.

You're not going to get what you want, bitches! :D

Should all relationships between people who meet in power-imbalanced relationships be made illegal?

If not, why not?

"It" may have saved Akira's life.
He was damn near suicidal when he and Tutor connected.

Question: Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday?
Question: Are some 16-year-olds far more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds?

"you minor-adult child sex promoter."

THIS is what you hysterical Church Girls always default to when your arguments falter. It's amusing.

"Akira is a person with very low self esteem and he was on the verge of suicide when the tutor came into his life and allowed him the space to finally open up. The tutor never lied and confessed to Akira that he was gay. There was no subterfuge on the tutor's part."

THIS.

The MDL Church Girls in this thread would much rather have seen Akira hang himself than find a healthy, mutually-nourishing relationship, just as he did with the tutor. Their purity of thinking is more important to them than even the lives of lonely gay teens.

Your comment is epic. Thank you for sharing it.

"I would advise you to reconsider your comment, as it reflects very poorly on you."

No one cares what you think, self-righteous Church Lady.
You want Akira traumatized and it pisses you off that his relationship with the Tutor has been the opposite of that for him; it saved his life.

Bravo a third time!

And here you are, all these days later, still shrieking your delicious outrage. Pathetic.

Bravo again!

Poor little self-righteous Church Girl, freaking out at reasonable people not freaking out over life.
I bathe in your tears of outrage.

Bravo.
I can't wait to read "Annie's" hysterical response to your very reasonable comment. :)

"Ya'all" need to stop watching shows you're not mature enough to handle.

No one cares how concerned and worried you are.
There has been NOTHING "unsettling and sinister" about Akira and Tutor's relationship. Tutor may well have saved Akira's life. THAT is what's driving you over the edge here.
I love it. :D

"Besides which bf would be ok with that."

A reasonable, well-adjusted, healthy bf who understands that Tutor was there for Akira when he had no one else.
You're the type that would rather see Akira jump off a ledge than find comfort in the arms of a kindred soul, suffering like he was.
They're only 3 or 4 years apart in age. Grow up.

Akira is 16/17 years old.
Tutor is 3/4 years older.
Tutor may well have saved Akira's life, and they are handling their disengagement like mature, reasonable people. And that drives you nuts.

hahaha
Oh look, another MDL Little Church Girl here to obsess about matters only adults should consider.

You didn't invent "trauma," you didn't discover "grooming," get over yourself.
You LOVE the tutor/Akira naughtiness of this show. Embrace the freak inside you.

They're 3 or 4 years apart in age.
Akira is a minor, not a child.
Grow up.