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Replying to Akhilesh Dandge Aug 29, 2025
The bad reviews are from the people who are used to the typical plot based fictional yaoi characters, unlike here…
Untrue.
Replying to Akhilesh Dandge Aug 29, 2025
The bad reviews are from the people who are used to the typical plot based fictional yaoi characters, unlike here…
He does not grow or change, from beginning to end. He repeats his various neuroses over and over. Sad.
Replying to Sov Aug 29, 2025
As a gay man myself, Love in the Big City is the BL (or queer drama, whatever you call it) with the most realistic…
Obviously, you haven't watched many BLs. Or you don't pay attention. There is loads of the f**ked up misery you want to see among BLs.

That you consider the sad, messed up life of this show's MC as "the most realistic depiction" you've seen of gay life is what's really f**ked up.
Replying to yoooonnn Aug 29, 2025
you're way too used to the cutesy bls lol this one shows the reality of queer people that bls dont show
THIS
Replying to rinn Aug 29, 2025
unfortunately, when it comes to queer cinema, bls especially are being really fetishized. that's why, when it…
You think that all "actual" gay people's lives are as f**ked up as this loser's? Your outlook is tragic.
Replying to joy Aug 29, 2025
B*tch a*s bl fans who loves fluffy, cute and fairytale-ish bls complaining about a queer drama based on a queer…
Why are you pushing the offensive term "QUEER" so hard? It's the gay equivalent of N****R and I don't see or hear Black folks raving about "N****R" shows.
Replying to lillanlee Aug 29, 2025
because straight people don't like things that are made ONLY for queer people
I'm gay af and I don't like this series. And it wasn't made "ONLY" for gay people.
Replying to Wooyonyang Aug 29, 2025
Hate to break it to the bl fans, but as a lesbian: Our life is SHIT. Shittier in some places than others. And…
8.4 isn't high enough for you?
I'm a gay man. This series is boring garbage.
Also, lots of gay people have lives that are more happy than sad. Stop thinking in black/white terms. Life is not either "sunshine and rainbows" OR thunderstorms and lightning. Life is BOTH.
Furthermore, the MC in this series is the source of his own misery, over and over again. The character learns nothing and never grows. From one awful relationship to another.
Terrible casting too. A plain-looking, annoying fellow such as this does NOT have men falling at his feet, one after the other.
Absurd.
Replying to etoks21 Aug 28, 2025
Your perspective on sex is sadly twisted.Is there some reason a couple can't grow emotionally, develop their characters,…
Hi. I already dropped Fahlanruk.
I was amused by much of it, but 30 minutes in, I could tell it was not for me. I found the guy playing Sherbet to be entirely ridiculous from a casting perspective, and was not willing to invest 8 hours in watching the show.

It seems I've completely outgrown that sort of Thai BL, along with most other Thai BLs. There's just so much wrong and annoying about the acting/writing/direction in Fahlanruk. If you're interested, I left a brief comment on the show's MDL page explaining why I was dropping it and giving it a rating.
On Fahlanruk Aug 28, 2025
Title Fahlanruk
Oh well...

I gave this a try on the recommendation of a fellow MDLer. Thirty minutes in, I know it's not for me, but it was kind of fun to watch even that much of this show's old-school BL vibe, especially leads who are clearly what MDL Church Ladies like to call "toxic" and "red flags" and all the other terms they think are negatives, but which the rest of us know as "fun, fucked-up bad guys who make lame plots watchable."

That said, even excellently toxic lead characters won't be saving this one for me. Whoever cast that James dude as Sherbet, who is supposedly hot af, a total and very successful player, who all gay men and straight, and trans, women too! obsess over and are in love with, should be shot. Dude is not hot, he has a string-bean bod, and an annoying affect. It's excruciating to watch an actor who is not a devastatingly attractive, romantic lead, try to convince us with each expression and gesture that he is just that.

Tanklao as Fahlan seems to have that leading man vibe potentially, but I'll not be sticking around to find out.

Got a kick out of seeing the Thai BL Uni ratio of two trans women for every one cis woman among the student body. And that queeny gossip in the early lunchtime scene was a stitch. :) Those weird, chopped-bangs Thai haircuts! What is up with that? :)

Dropped. I'm out of here.
1/10
Replying to Reset Radio Aug 28, 2025
I never really thought about it, but you're right, BDN acts mostly the same in everything I've seen her in.
Yes, indeed. Often with her mouth hanging open.
Replying to etoks21 Aug 28, 2025
Your perspective on sex is sadly twisted.Is there some reason a couple can't grow emotionally, develop their characters,…
Thanks for the rec.
I have never watched "Fahlanruk." I gave up on almost all Thai BLs past 2020, so never got around to this one. But, at your suggestion, I just went and read the synopsis, which sounds intriguing. But the real clincher is that one of the most supercilious MDLers in the history of MDL, someone I have long found annoying af, left a review there with the title, "Hands-down the worst-written BL of all time."

And thus, I knew I would probably LOVE Fahlanruk. :D

The ass-hat of whom I speak proceeded to write a lengthy piece about how terrible and offensive Fahlanruk is, yet for some reason, he watched the entire show, of course. He has never been big on self-awareness.

So, I am definitely going to give Fahlanruk a look-see.
Replying to etoks21 Aug 27, 2025
Your perspective on sex is sadly twisted.Is there some reason a couple can't grow emotionally, develop their characters,…
Come to think of it, actually, this was done well in several old-school Thai BLs, back from before Thai BLs went to s**t: "Together With Me," "Tharntype," "Love By Chance," "Make It Right," and several others, portrayed fervent, young, male romance, right alongside youthful, often raunchy, male lust, and were better for it.
Replying to etoks21 Aug 27, 2025
Your perspective on sex is sadly twisted.Is there some reason a couple can't grow emotionally, develop their characters,…
Bingo! And lol at the way you say it. :)
But remember, "you can't have the 24/7 libidos of two young men AND the passionate, romantic, emotional love between two young men, portrayed in the same drama." That is not allowed...or something. :)
On The Depths Aug 27, 2025
Title The Depths
With much better casting in the role of Ryu, this might have been a great little psychological thriller.

As it is, however, the idea of handsome, accomplished straight men turning gay and falling in love at first sight with this rather plain-faced, scrawny midget is absurd. When I first realized Ryu was to be taken as the prize stallion among a small stable of money boys, I chuckled. When the Korean photographer was stunned by Ryu's beauty and mystique in the camera's eye, and immediately demanded he follow him back to Seoul, where he could "join any top modeling agency," I laughed. When the strikingly handsome, jilted groom swooned at Ryu's advances and porked him, I guffawed. By the time, near the end, when the Korean photog crossed the hotel hallway to knock, drooling, at Ryu's door, I rolled my eyes.

With an actor whose facial and physical features/charisma match the requirements of the role, this could have smoldered. Instead, it plodded. It didn't help that the Korean's supposed passion for Ryu was played so flatly. It's one thing to sense that heat beneath a calm facade, it's another thing entirely when there's no heat to sense.

The goofy hotel guest who picked Ryu up at the hotel at the end was the highlight of the film. lol Yet one more unsuspecting man turned to jelly at the sight of Ryu's stunning, 4-foot-high looks.

5/10
Replying to SideDishBahngChan Aug 27, 2025
Title The Depths
its a confusing premise, but from what i got the photographer gave ryu a last chance to decide whether to go to…
Nice spoiler.