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On Lovely Writer Apr 1, 2021
Wow! I just read somewhere that the actor who plays Aoey is actually the oldest of the main cast and is gay in real life. That's so cool!
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Replying to jpny01 Mar 31, 2021
He's consciously written as an uke, because BL writers and viewers like that dynamic, and as an uke is a male…
Interesting synopsis! Wow! I liked the "unevolved girl's role" statement. I think that was the impression that I was attempting to portray. But, alas, you instead, portrayed it far better than I did.
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Replying to imringoloveme Mar 31, 2021
I don't see it as weak personally. He is extremely unexperienced, introverted, and it seems like he has anxiety.…
All are very good points! I must agree! I again stand informed.
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Replying to J100 Mar 31, 2021
I don't think he is "weak" or "girlish" , your terms is wrong,as your prespective on male and female is wrong,…
Hmmm. I'm unsure if any perspective is right vs wrong. But, I do see your point and I stand duly informed.
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Replying to imringoloveme Mar 31, 2021
I don't see it as weak personally. He is extremely unexperienced, introverted, and it seems like he has anxiety.…
So true! I would have to agree! But, wouldn't you agree that it is a trope to portray all gay men or boys, who are inexperienced in relationships, as weak-like, immature or "girlish?" Can't they be mature and inexperienced or "boyish" and inexperienced??
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On Lovely Writer Mar 31, 2021
I like this series. However, one of the things that's annoying to me is how they have Gene's character being so weak. That itself is not necessarily the issue. But, Gene is supposed to be out of university, a mature and fairly successful writer. Okay, he falls for a younger university student and begins acting liking he's back in high school. Now, I realize that sometimes falling in love makes people giddy, gooey inside and do and say stupid things. But, give me a break! Nubsib is acting more mature than Gene (and he's the one with the initial crush). His character comes off almost as "girlish", and as the eps. progress, Gene seems to be taking on a more "girlish" (dare I say uke-like) demeanor with regards to his "relationship" to Nubsib, and Gene doesn't present as the "ladyboy" type, at least not yet. This is just one person's opinion.
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 30, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
Interesting synopsis. I can agree on many points. But in the totality of it all, whether or not it was meant as…
Fair enough.
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 30, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
Interesting synopsis. I can agree on many points. But in the totality of it all, whether or not it was meant as…
I totally agree about Yongjie and the career as a doctor info. The problem I believe so many are having with this series (just my guess) is that the HIStory series of the past showed more "positive" portrayals of lgbtq+ relationships. Yeah, they had the occasional bullying, manipulation, step-brother love and jealousy tropes (they even killed off a character, just to resurrect his dopple-ganger). But, what they didn't have is the seemingly crossing of the line with violence, possible "drunk rape", stalking , etc. I guess the producers decided to explore wider avenues with this series, and some fans are having a hard time adjusting. Like me! LOL
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 30, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
Interesting synopsis. I can agree on many points. But in the totality of it all, whether or not it was meant as…
Wow! I've known some folks like that as well. Unfortunately for them, the outcome wasn't so good. I totally agree with your behavioral assessment of folks like that. But, what is really interesting is that Yongjie is studying to be a doctor! I'm not sure that's a good thing or not.....

P.S. Thanks for the correction notice. I did mean Yongjie. LMBO!
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 29, 2021
??? You like that the bullies have a reason for beating up people?? OK. I'm missing something. There's actually…
Fair enough. However, it did seem that your comment was more condoning than condeming. My apologies for the error.
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Replying to BenedictTan Mar 29, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
Many people who left comment here seemed to judge the whole series too quickly after just 30% into the entire…
Interesting synopsis. I can agree on many points. But in the totality of it all, whether or not it was meant as a "rape" I believe is irrelevant. Many BL's slide that slippery slope for dramatic effect. IMO, it's not good either way to series to portray the acceptance of characters that intentionally take sexual advantage of others, who apparently don't possess the ability to provide "consent." And, unfortunately, it's a common theme in BLs. As for your analysis of Fu Yongjie, very interesting, and I can agree with much of it. I would like to add a bit to his character: a) he made a key and broke into his brother's apartment; b) he stalked his brother for what appeared to be quite a lengthy period of time; c) he attacked one of his brother's roommate's without provocation, presumably due to jealousy/possessiveness; and d) he took sexual advantage of his brother while the brother was in an inebriated state (that he admittedly confessed that he caused and for the purpose of "making his brother his"). Love his brother or not, that's some serious psychopathology in this drama . LOL
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Replying to soapopera Mar 29, 2021
I've been thinking about the discussions on incest and drunk rape, trying find a 'neutral' thinking.Incest seems…
Wow! Interesting analysis! I'm not really sure if I agree or disagree. I do believe you've posed some interesting points. Let's take the incest issue first. According to the western definition of incest, "incest is sexual intercourse between persons so closely related that they are forbidden by law to marry..." And, most western cultures agree with and/or accept this definition, even if they may deal with the incest differently within their cultures (to many of those cultures, it's a crime). I'm unsure about the Asiatic cultures (to which there are NO significant western cultural influence). So, I can't comment intelligently on those cultures.

Now, as for the idea of the "drunk rape," I agree with you that many countries (and/or cultures) are unable to agree on an common definition. However, many western cultures (and several Asiatic cultures with strong western influence) have begun to recognize the complexities of sexual assault and have commonly (if not legally) agreed that "the assault occurs when one of the parties is unable, for whatever reason, (underaged, unconscious, under the influence, has a disability, confinement, or saying "no", etc.) to give "consent." Hmmm! It seems that the scene in question might fit that definition. Aahh! But, Thailand isn't a western culture.
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 29, 2021
??? You like that the bullies have a reason for beating up people?? OK. I'm missing something. There's actually…
Thank you! I thought I was missing something! My sentiments exactly!
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On Second Chance Mar 29, 2021
I truly hope that this series deals with the violence foretold in this first ep. I realize that these are dramas and don't necessarily have to be politically correct. But, the series can be just as dramatic without the trope of all the defenseless students in the school being beaten-up every other day. Jeez!!
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Replying to Second Chance Mar 29, 2021
Title Second Chance Spoiler
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??? You like that the bullies have a reason for beating up people?? OK. I'm missing something. There's actually reasons for bullying other people???? Just in case you missed it, I'm being sarcastic.....
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Replying to NIke_v Mar 28, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
Well in that case the 2nd relationship isn't far behind.XLC is basically serial sexual harasser (started as as…
You know what! You're absolutely right! I hadn't thought about like that.
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On HIStory4: Close to You Mar 28, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
The series was going ok, up until the "drunken rape" trope. It's so sad, IMO, that now the Taiwanese BLs are using the old stand-by stereotypic, tropic plot lines that had befallen many of the Thai BLs of the past. What makes it even worse is that the HIStory series was kind of ahead of the game with what could be more positive views of lgbtq+ relationships. I guess they've also fallen prey to the money and exposure these kinds of BL series can generate. I will no longer watch the relationship between the two step-brothers and simply concentrate on the other two characters. Relationships born out of sexual assault are not good, no matter how "romantic" the series tries to portray it.
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Replying to crlsb Mar 26, 2021
This must have been the dumbest script I’ve ever seen. She throw everything randomly there just to create a…
I agree. Although I liked the ep., it could've been so much more with a little less lazy writing.
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On We Best Love: Fighting Mr. 2nd Mar 23, 2021
Personally, I'm ready for more Shi Yu and Bing Wei and Pei Shou Yi and Zhen Xuan. Their relationships seem to have a more characterization that the Shu Yi and Gai Shi De. But, alas, with only a handful of eps to go, there probably isn't enough time to devote to the secondary couples. I also didn't like the way they just glossed over the sex scene. Lazy writing in my opinion.
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Replying to JohnGotti Mar 23, 2021
I believe it was written that way to increase the dramatic effect of the show. And, IMO, it worked!
You know what? You're right! That would've been so much better!
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