December 2021 was not a favorable month for me, January 2022 was not any better, but I miss the time that this was still airing when I looked forward to it weekly. And also because it was that time that I was very active in the comment section at MDL for the first time, and so far, no other drama comment section has topped that experience yet :)
but when i get to know you more, I might have to change my type. Also because I have been dating according to what I thought is my taste for women, but they don't last long. (my personal words from my delusional world)
you console by offering your time and attention, an assurance to be a sturdy pole that one can lean to when the knees starts to become weak. consoling is not necessarily helping them get over those feelings or offering help to solve the problem. It is when you allow the person hurting to let them journey with you in their misery.
vulnerability on the other hand is knowing that you can be in misery but you are still safe. Being able to articulate the pain, guilt and shame, yet, when you see that person, you feel ok. The hopeless situation or regretful situation is something you can live with.
And also because it was that time that I was very active in the comment section at MDL for the first time, and so far, no other drama comment section has topped that experience yet :)
but when i get to know you more, I might have to change my type. Also because I have been dating according to what I thought is my taste for women, but they don't last long. (my personal words from my delusional world)
waaaah!!!
let's see how long this love can survive and thrive..
consoling is not necessarily helping them get over those feelings or offering help to solve the problem. It is when you allow the person hurting to let them journey with you in their misery.
vulnerability on the other hand is knowing that you can be in misery but you are still safe. Being able to articulate the pain, guilt and shame, yet, when you see that person, you feel ok. The hopeless situation or regretful situation is something you can live with.