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Unless we’re part of her trusted inner circle, we’re all just spectators. So, yes, this means we should approach what we say or post online with care and responsibility. As children, we were taught to think before we act or speak, and that same principle applies to what we write. Words and actions have power. They carry weight and can deeply affect someone’s life. Freedom of speech doesn't negate responsibility and accountability.

Why do people choose certain roles in their profession? For professionals, it’s usually about growth—gaining experience, improving skills, and diversifying. Actors, in particular, pick scripts that challenge them, offer depth, and push their boundaries. They audition for roles that help them evolve, and casting teams select the best fit for the character. In this particular script "Love's Ambition", I believe the ML is in his 30s and the FL is in her mid 20s? Would a 20 year old person be able to realistically portray a 30+ year old character? Debatable.

For ZLS, as an actress, taking on mature, complex characters isn’t just a career move—it’s essential for growth. Staying stuck in the same type of role is stagnation, not ambition. No one stays in their 20s forever, and waiting until 30s to evolve as an actor isn’t just risky—it’s boring and potentially career-ending. Growth demands stepping out of comfort zones, no matter your age.

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First, I commented on factual and confirmed actions and behavior, so let’s squash the whole “mean, evil, ugly” narrative you’re trying to pin on me. That’s your projection, not my words. "Oppa" is also your word not mine. Empathy, a concept you might want to familiarize yourself with, isn’t a pick-and-choose buffet. It applies to everyone—even people you don’t like. Yes, KJH made mistakes, and I’ve acknowledged that. But guess what? SYJ did too. Or is she somehow above accountability in your world?

And let’s not crown her a saint for being “professional” while keeping her toxic behavior confined to personal relationships. That’s not exactly Nobel Prize-worthy. Nobody’s perfect, and recognizing flaws on both sides isn’t “defending” anyone—it’s called being reasonable. So, why the selective forgiveness? Her ability to separate work and personal issues doesn’t magically erase her wrongdoings, just like KJH’s flaws don’t negate his professional ones.

Here’s the part you missed (if you even bothered to read my post fully): Anyone genuinely trying to make amends and improve deserves a second chance. Just like SYJ, no? And no one—no one—deserves the mental toll of cyberbullying. But clearly, you’re a fan of online hate mobs since you’re gleefully cheering for people to “rightfully” send hate. The irony of promoting hate while pretending to hold moral high ground is astounding. Ridiculous, hateful, and frankly, embarrassing for you.

Beneath the lights, a shadow grows,
Where beauty blooms but freedom goes.
They dance in cages, gold and bright,
But chains still bind in endless night.

Their voices rise, yet fall unheard,
Each note eclipsed by stifling words.
Agencies weave their puppet strings,
To clip the song their spirit sings.

Fame’s false warmth, a fleeting sun,
Blinds the world to what’s undone.
The riches shine, the crowds adore,
Yet locked behind a gilded door.

Their lives are staged, each breath assigned,
Dreams reshaped, identities confined.
A painted smile, a crafted part,
Hides the ache of a fractured heart.

Oh, fleeting stars who grace the screen,
Behind the veil, who sees the scene?
Not lovers free nor dreamers bold,
But pawns of power, trapped and sold.

May one day come when chains dissolve,
And artistry, its bounds absolve.
For those who shine deserve the sky,
Not gilded cages where dreams must die.

Dried out turds. Lol wonderful imagery. 😂From everything I’ve seen about Lusi’s character and values, she clearly respects the time, energy, and dedication of everyone involved in a production of a drama. It’s not just her, it’s the entire cast and crew who pour their hearts into creating something special. Canceling a drama that’s already completed filming wouldn’t just be a loss for the audience but would also undermine all the hard work and passion that went into it. I truly hope the efforts of Lusi, including everyone involved, are honored and appreciated.

It’s a widespread misconception that spans across continents, cultures, and languages. The reality is, mental health awareness should be a fundamental part of education, just like physical education. Teaching people to understand and care for their mental well-being can empower them for life, help break the stigma, and foster a generation that values emotional health as much as physical health.

A sentiment that should also be extended to the actor's family and close friends. Reading some of the comments about how her family, friends, or even she herself "failed" her is disheartening. This only adds more hurt to an already painful and difficult situation. Nobody is perfect, and I’m sure her loved ones are already struggling with feelings of guilt or helplessness. They don’t need strangers amplifying those feelings with judgment.

Compassion - compassion for Zhao Lusi as she fights this illness and for the people in her life who are trying their best to support and protect her. Healing is a collective effort, and it starts with empathy, not criticism.

Yes. I hope she follows her heart and does what truly brings her joy and peace, without feeling trapped by society’s obsession with rankings, appearances, or anyone else’s expectations. Life is too short to live for anyone else’s standards. Her happiness, well-being, and fulfillment should always come first.

If Lusi decides to keep acting and staying in the public eye, I’ll be thrilled for I genuinely enjoy her work. But if she chooses a quieter path away from the spotlight, I’ll wholeheartedly wish her nothing but success and happiness in whatever she pursues.

Depression is a heavy burden that often leads people to unintentionally neglect both their mental and physical health. This neglect can create a vicious cycle, increasing vulnerability to harmful behaviors and even physical illnesses like heart disease, chronic pain, or weakened immune systems. It’s not just “feeling sad” – it’s a complex medical condition that affects how someone thinks, feels, and functions daily. A medical condition that can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, culture, or profession.

I’ve seen this firsthand with friends and family members who’ve battled depression. Tragically, some weren’t able to hold on long enough to see brighter days, and that loss still hurts. But it’s also a reminder of how urgent it is to treat mental health with the same seriousness as physical health.

Depression impacts nearly 280 million people globally, yet stigma and misinformation persist. Compassion and understanding are so important here. For anyone reading this: if you or someone you know is struggling, reaching out for help isn’t a sign of weakness. There’s support out there, and healing is possible.

I believe that kindness runs deeper than what’s visible to the public. Those who genuinely care about Lusi - family, friends, colleagues, and those who respect her, have likely reached out privately to offer their love and support. At least that’s what I’d like to believe, especially since the details of her situation have been kept private until now, shared only with those she trusts most. Not every act of compassion needs to be on display to be meaningful or valid. This is a deeply personal and painful chapter in her life, and piling onto the gossip or rumors only risks making things worse for her. Why would anyone want to add more fuel to the chaos by adding their own limelight - or worse, attract their own toxic followers, to an already difficult situation? Sometimes, the best way to show support is with understanding and respect for someone’s boundaries.

I do hope she takes the time to heal and get better with the support, love, respect, and understanding of those around her.

She chased the person who killed her mother onto Yan Zi Jing's ship. The Cui family was one of the families who plotted and killed Zijing's parents and his entire family.

Abuse in any form, online, offline, mental, physical, or emotional, is something no one should ever have to endure or face alone - in silence. It leaves deep scars and lingering trauma that can resurface again and again, compounding the pain. My heart breaks reading about what Zhao Lusi has gone through. I can’t begin to imagine the fear, pain, and isolation she must have felt, especially knowing there were multiple witnesses who chose not to help her seek justice. How terrified and powerless she must have felt.

And then to endure years of bullying on top of it. It’s unthinkable how much pain she must have carried, being forced to relive her trauma again and again. No one deserves that. No one should have to endure such pain. I truly hope those responsible are held accountable, justice not just for her sake but to set a precedent that this behavior won’t be tolerated. Most importantly, I hope she finds the support and strength she needs to heal fully, inside and out, and comes back even stronger—happy, healthy, and surrounded by love.

Let’s remember to show kindness. It costs nothing but can mean everything.

There's a flashback of the times Duan Wu and Yan Zi Jing spent together in the last episode during the moment when Zhang Jin Ran revealed to Yan Zi Jing that Duan Wu had long known about the poison. It’s in that quiet devastation that Zijing fully realizes her love for him—not just in feeling, but in action. She fought for him, honored his choices, and chose to stay by his side, even as everything unraveled.

The lingering gazes, the tender care, the loving moments etched into memory, and the desperate attempt to immortalize it all in a painting—these are the gestures of someone who loves deeply, painfully, and unconditionally, while watching their world slip away. It was achingly human, heartbreakingly raw, and profoundly relatable in my view.

They never really explained exactly when she figured it out, but it seems like she pieced it together over time. She probably started suspecting something after seeing how he looked when they were in that poison water/lake, it must have left an impression. Then, when they started spending more time together again, you could see her watching him closely, especially when he coughed, and he looked like his health was deteriorating, like she was trying to commit every little detail about him to memory. She even started doing all these couple-like activities with him, like she wanted to make the most of their time. Even asked him not to drink too much alcohol. I think she finally found out that there is no cure from the physicians she had contacted and that's when she commissioned that painting of everyone. The final blow had to be when Zhang Jin Ran told her that Li Kui didn't give up the antidote. At that point, any hope she was holding onto completely shattered.

Ah, the irony of preaching about "freedom of thought" while bulldozing over anyone who dares to think differently than you. Clearly, the concept of empathy, or even basic human decency, is foreign to you. An appendectomy recovery varies by individual, but hey, why let facts get in the way of your self-righteous tirade?

Accusing someone of "destroying their own health" while they’re hospitalized reeks of ignorance and zero compassion. Spreading baseless assumptions as if they’re facts only highlights your need to feel superior rather than informed.

If you can’t respect someone’s struggles, at least have the decency to zip it instead of broadcasting your negativity. Your bitterness adds nothing but noise, and the world could do without it. Bye bye ✌️

Some people are saying 36kg, others 40kg, and then there’s talk of her losing 16kg - but without knowing her starting weight, it’s all just speculation. For reference, the general guideline for a healthy weight range for a 5'3" woman is 48-63kg. That’s a pretty broad range, and even then, it’s not one-size-fits-all. A healthy weight depends on several factors, including age, sex, genetics, body frame, existing medical history, and overall lifestyle, to name a few. All I'm saying is not to jump to conclusions or make assumptions. Can't walk and can't talk? She's sick... I was the same when I had appendicitis. Not being able to eat in the hospital, especially if you're sick... that’s not uncommon - many sick people struggle with eating, which is why IVs exist to provide nutrients. I think it’s best to avoid basing opinions on unverified online chatter. Unless the actress herself makes a statement, anything else is just speculation.

We don’t know the exact reason behind her hospitalization, so jumping to conclusions about it being due to weight loss might be unfair. It could be stress, something she ate, lack of sleep, or any number of factors beyond her control. When someone pours so much of themselves into their work or career, it’s easy to neglect their own well-being - a mistake many of us only recognize with time and experience. It’s a tough lesson, but one most people eventually learn. Let’s hope she takes this time to rest and recover with the support of her family and friends.

Ah, the bravery of anonymous online hate. To the author of this diatribe: @yoonsandykyaw, do you ever pause between typing such venom to reflect on your own dignity, morality, or the state of your heart and soul? You attempt to degrade someone’s character over long-past relationships and fabricated drama, all while cloaked in the comfort of a keyboard. If you looked in the mirror, would you be proud of the person glaring back, dripping with pettiness and deceit?

Your fixation on someone else’s private life says far more about your loneliness and bitterness than it does about the target of your ire. Do you parade this nastiness in real life, or is it reserved for the anonymity of the internet? And to the fans of the male leads you claim to speak for: I doubt they’d want a disrespectful, morally stunted, hateful liar as their self-appointed spokesperson.

Learn some manners, find a hobby, and maybe invest in some introspection. It’s clearly overdue.

I couldn’t agree more! The shorts and photoshoot were absolutely captivating. They really kept the spotlight on the leads, making it impossible not to be drawn in. I'm a new fan of the CP. As an international fan, I often have to wait for subtitles and struggle with access, which can make it harder for me to fully engage with the show when it's trending. With TSOPG, the promos were absolutely everywhere online, making it impossible to miss. And the only one I had to wait for subtitles was the cooking video. Even now, the enthusiasm hasn’t waned. Fan-made videos are constantly popping up on YouTube, and new viewers are still discovering the drama, asking where they can watch it.