littleberry09

Actually I never thought she was strongly infatuated with him until he made her admit feelings. If she was then it was completely unknowingly. Everytime they interacted in the beginning (the lunches she felt forced into, the baby shower, etc) were because she thought she had to follow his orders, and because she didn't want to let his sister down (infact she cared more about his sister than she did for him for the whole first part) . I don't think it's that she didn't expect him to love her, but that she didn't have any feelings for him at all at that point. Whereas he was definitely infatuated with her because he was secretly watching her, and always finding ways to make her spend time with him.

Disliking a drama is fine and plenty of people disliked The First Frost, just as you said because the stalking got too much. I myself thought it was just average too. But to call it trash just because you did not like it, and did not understand the mature themes shows a lack of understanding on *your* part. Sexual abuse and harresment is common, yes. It's weird you don't believe that. Sexual abuse victims may also have issues with trust in a relationship. It doesn't mean they are any less 'adult' than people who have healthy communication in a relationship. You downplaying the entire aspect of Wen Yifan being abused makes you seem heavily insensitive and non-empathetic.

Just saw that this drama and Love Has Fireworks are releasing one day apart. PLS SLOW DOWN I'M WAY BEHIND AT THIS PACE. The First Jasmine also released not too long ago 😭

Definitely a very strange drama. Found this to be the strangest drama I've ever watched lol. Not sure what it was trying to be, I liked the dark atmospeheric vibes but sometimes the writing dropped to the point it felt like a comedy?

Watched a few episodes of this previously but realised it's only hyped up by Viki and Instagram reels. I don't know why but it feels like one of those weird short Cdramas lol

She is meant to have been married for some time though. She is not meant to be a too-young girl or it would look unrealistic. I agree that she didn't look 18-19 and we can only assume everyone was too blind/stupid to see through it 🤣

Depends how fast or slow it feels to the individual then. Personally I thought the mad plotting, revenge and politics moves quite fast in this drama. It's one of the Cdramas that moves the fastest in this regard. Many things were always going on with multiple characters and side plots. I think that's why it never felt slow even if certain things never happened till later on in the drama.

Same. I guess it does help when a main lead literally comes back from being buried alive to stir things up completely lol. And everyone looses to her.

He always seems like such a gentleman ❤️ . He became one of my favourites last year and the more I see of him the more I can't get over him 💕💕💕

It's why I nicknamed this one Romance of Female General lol. Her love story is more of the main focus. Not that ai'm complaining, but just the way it's portrayed you wouldn't think that

I'm on Ep 29 and I feel the same way about the plot. Couldn't care about it at all. I'm really only slogging through it for the leads as they are really cute together (Gong Jun's character flirting since the beginning has helped too, iykyk) and with the addition of 'their child' Chengling too. But I know it's really only the last few episodes which get more intense. So I'm nearly there, it's just felt like it's taken forever 🫠

Only a year later did I realise Meng Xi Bai was Tian Xu Ning! I must have been blind... Tbf I wasn't into the second couple as much and only fell for him when I watched his BL drama Revenged Love 🙈

Yes they pinned on every dream actor so you will feel more depressed when it doesn't ever release. Eternally waiting and eternally depressed

Are we ever going to get this drama or just eternally waiting? With a cast like that we can't NOT get this. Yet another drama where the wait will make us immortal

I watched this a few months ago and found it so entertaining. Part 1 is definitely better than Part 2 though, rated this part just a little bit higher

That's exactly what Dylan said in his post so I'm directly going off that itself. I'm not going to assume his actions/thoughts when he explicitly said what happened himself.

If you want to watch just for him, then sure. The plot itself was quite boring otherwise. I thought the vibes in When I Fly Towards You was a lot better overall.

Yess I think this is why the drama worked so much. If he seemed reluctant or against her behaviour it would have seemed off putting. But he was totally willing to out up with all her whims as he clearly found her very endearing.

I would love it if these 2 were paired up again in another cute but chaotic live story too. A historical would be nice! I don't think you're over thinking at all, we could definitely do with more of this pairing... Until then I'll just have to wait until my yearly rewatches of this drama lol

Definitely not. The characters, the vibes, the OST are all just one of a kind. Even within Cdrama itself it's hard to find another youth romcom that lives up to this one IMO. The absolute 🐐

The GOAT. On my playlist and will be forever 💕