Honestly i have zero issues with Mina Sue going even after all guys, I have issues with the double standards and…
EXACTLYYYYYY It's her attitude and the way she approaches this whole thing 😭 It's so self-centered and egotistical ughhhh She is NOT a girl's girl (even though she tries to come off as one)
Mina Sue is starting to get on my nerves after episode 4. Girl be a bit more mindful, you're so absolutely all…
OMG why is she acting so nasty 😭 THERE WAS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON FOR HER TO ROLL HER EYES LIKE THAT WHEN MIN JI AND SEUNG-IL DID THE LOVE SHOT. GIRL HE WASN'T EVEN ON YOUR MIND UNTIL HE MENTIONED THAT HE GAVE YOU HIS CHOCOLATE! Give me a break 💀
Mina Sue is starting to get on my nerves after episode 4. Girl be a bit more mindful, you're so absolutely all over the place rn smh. She's so scatter-brained & quick to change that it's kind of annoying. As of now, she's coming off as quite shallow in my eyes.
Sang Hyeon gives off such big LOSER energy omfg. I would not wish that man onto any woman 😭
Seo Hyun, save yourself and run, honey. (That ice-skating date preview looks proof enough that her overly idealistic facade of Sang Hyeon is cracking.)
Suddenly interested ? She was getting to know other guys and all her dates with other guys didn’t went well…
Dude, it's a dating show 😭 They haven't even known each other for a full week atp. This is basically a longer version of speed dating, you get to know a bit more about the person that peeks your curiosity and see if your interests line up. Sang Won was interested in Ye Eun but after that disastrous first date, he realized how emotionally immature Ye Eun was and that she was different from his definition of a "noona." He specifically joined the show cause he wanted a stable relationship, but with her mood swings, it's a whole land mine. Sang Won has the right to look at his options and see who matches his energy well just as much as the girls do. He literally said he felt drained after talking to her, and that usually only happens when you're masking and trying your utmost to cater to the other person and abandoning your real personality. It's better he make that distinction now than jump into a relationship that's mutually hurtful and then get into big conflicts later on and break up on bad terms. Might be a hot take but I don't think he should be "dumped" just for trying to figure out who's more compatible with him :/
I’m only asking this out of curiosity, reality shows aside, is it advisable to go for someone you love or like…
I would say, if you really like someone, subtly try to take care of them or spend time with them and if they open up to you or show interest in you, then continue to be there for them and slowly express your feelings (or speed things up if they mirror the interest—going slow isn't always the answer—there can be exceptions.) If there's someone else who likes you, get to know them, see if they strike your interest, and notice whether you naturally grow feelings for them or not. If what they, as a person, bring in to the relationship is what you're looking for at a pace you can keep up with, then it's not a bad idea to give it a try but obviously, you cannot guess any future conflicts that could possibly arise, so take it slow, be tentative, and above all, don't force yourself or give the other person false hope because that's cruel—for both you and the other person. Most relationships do grow from friendship to love so getting to know each other is the most important aspect of it all. If the person of interest doesn't give you the green light and actually keeps moving away from you and avoids engaging in conversations, then it's better to drop it and not make them uncomfortable. Ofc, it hugely depends on the situation and the person but I feel like being a constant and almost like a dependable "rock" in their life definitely improves their outlook towards you as a person so just being a friend in the beginning and then slowly expressing feelings could get you a better result than just straight up going for it. As for which of the two options is better, no one can really say because how each person matches with you and you energy is different. If the someone that likes you makes you feel energized and happy and full of life, they're obviously a better choice than someone who you like but drains your energy and makes you tiptoe around them in fear of setting them off. It's all about compatibility. Maybe they picked up something that you haven't yet or vice versa.
You could take Jun Seong and Seong Ho as an example. Jun Seong expressed his interest in Seong Ho from the beginning and stayed constant without being overbearing and giving him space and allowing him to make his own decisions, and Seong Ho came back to him after satisfying his curiosity. Jun Seong did wait but he also seized any opportunities to spend time with Seong Ho as he did show interest in Jun Seong as well.
As for an example from this show, I feel like Hyeon Jun is a similar case. He expressed his interest in Yeong Gyeong and they had a good time together. But after Yeong Gyeong showed curiosity in getting to know the others, he never outright told her to not do that as he does not have that right as of now. He patiently waited and continued to show interest in her and take care of her quietly, even though it is exhausting at times. We then see him make his intentions clear to Yeong Gyeong about being interested in her and that does make her see him a bit clearer?
P.s. Sorry for the essay sldfksflks I got too engrossed and didn't realized I wrote a whole page 😭
Bruh, Ye Eun bringing her dramatics in once again 😭
Right from the beginning, you could see how overbearing she was with how she instantly subjected Sang Won to the cold shoulder after hearing one singular response from him about being interested in the other women, which is ????? This is a dating show after all, I'd much rather have my date be honest about his curiosity than reassure me with fake promises and then break my heart later. That frigid atmosphere must've really left an impression on Sang Won, even if just subconsciously. He mentioned his energy felt drained every time he was with Ye Eun, and honestly, you could see it. Ye Eun's overbearing streak continued in this episode too and idk what it is about her, but she makes me uncomfortable lowkey. Like she'd plan and pray on your downfall if you cross her path even a little bit 😬 I mean, that conversation in Bon Hee's room was proof enough where she kept trying to rub it into Ji Won's face that she has a date with Sang Won and how "fun" it was. Girl, we get it, lay it down. I mean, this could be her ballet background playing in to the picture. Her competitiveness for that "lead role" from all those years in the industry could also be to blame but she should learn to tamper it.
Anyhow, I've been rooting for Ji Won since the beginning of the show, no matter who she decides to pursue. Wishing her the best! And Sang Won in his redemption arc was such a nice surprise lmao, I LOVE IT! <3
Just finished the first episode and it's not looking good. The medical in the title is only for name, the medical portrayal is not accurate in the least. A painful watch, I'm gonna have to drop cause even tho I like the cast, I can already sense that it's going to be heavier on the melodramatics and there's going to be close to zero credibility in the medical aspect which is not my cup of tea. But whatever I saw, was unprofessional and unrealistic on so many fronts, not to mention a strong ground to get your medical license cancelled. Like you CANNOT just brute force your way through a surgery and refuse help and say "NO! I can do it!" even though you genuinely are unable to. You're putting the patient's life at risk. And ofc, the elephant in the room, the chief allowing a foreign surgeon to perform surgery in HIS hospital with NO verifications whatsoever. Dude NO. If this was real life, there'd be such serious consequences. The board members would flip tf out.
Mu Jin is one brave and fearless mfer. Like holy- A RING?!?!? RING?!??! The most I would've dared would be a necklace cause it's only been four days but I also get that there are instances where you meet someone that you like so much that you would even go as far as to imagine yourself marrying them on the spot 😭
Yes I'm yapping quite a bit but eh, I'm too invested.
Ye Eun's only problem is that she switches between excited and depressed way too quickly and at random. She has no emotional stability, and her unpredictable nature where she's elated one second and grim the next almost comes across as if she has bipolar disorder (or maybe she's just really spoiled? Plus with her job being on the stage, her dramatics are really either at the highest peaks or lowest valleys. Perks of being in the entertainment industry ig) Her mood swings are too great and too intense. She's like the wings of a helicopter, even the tiniest disturbance or change will make her go completely out of a control. Her emotional baggage is too great and the rollercoaster of emotions she puts the other person through by going silent all of a sudden over the tiniest thing she finds unpleasant makes it so awkward and puts them into a tight spot. And no one really wants to experience that. She acts a lot like a school girl. And the ppl here are the ones who signed up for older women who are mature and who they could feel comfortable around and rely on, not a land mine that they have to carefully toe around to avoid detonating.
It's her attitude and the way she approaches this whole thing 😭
It's so self-centered and egotistical ughhhh
She is NOT a girl's girl (even though she tries to come off as one)
THERE WAS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON FOR HER TO ROLL HER EYES LIKE THAT WHEN MIN JI AND SEUNG-IL DID THE LOVE SHOT. GIRL HE WASN'T EVEN ON YOUR MIND UNTIL HE MENTIONED THAT HE GAVE YOU HIS CHOCOLATE!
Give me a break 💀
I KNEW THAT NUMBER 38 WAS COMING INTO MY INTUITION FOR A REASON 😭
Lmao, the fact that Bonhee and Mujin are exactly the age I guessed they'd be dkjflsfslkf I'm oddly proud
I would not wish that man onto any woman 😭
Seo Hyun, save yourself and run, honey. (That ice-skating date preview looks proof enough that her overly idealistic facade of Sang Hyeon is cracking.)
They haven't even known each other for a full week atp. This is basically a longer version of speed dating, you get to know a bit more about the person that peeks your curiosity and see if your interests line up. Sang Won was interested in Ye Eun but after that disastrous first date, he realized how emotionally immature Ye Eun was and that she was different from his definition of a "noona." He specifically joined the show cause he wanted a stable relationship, but with her mood swings, it's a whole land mine. Sang Won has the right to look at his options and see who matches his energy well just as much as the girls do. He literally said he felt drained after talking to her, and that usually only happens when you're masking and trying your utmost to cater to the other person and abandoning your real personality. It's better he make that distinction now than jump into a relationship that's mutually hurtful and then get into big conflicts later on and break up on bad terms. Might be a hot take but I don't think he should be "dumped" just for trying to figure out who's more compatible with him :/
You could take Jun Seong and Seong Ho as an example. Jun Seong expressed his interest in Seong Ho from the beginning and stayed constant without being overbearing and giving him space and allowing him to make his own decisions, and Seong Ho came back to him after satisfying his curiosity. Jun Seong did wait but he also seized any opportunities to spend time with Seong Ho as he did show interest in Jun Seong as well.
As for an example from this show, I feel like Hyeon Jun is a similar case. He expressed his interest in Yeong Gyeong and they had a good time together. But after Yeong Gyeong showed curiosity in getting to know the others, he never outright told her to not do that as he does not have that right as of now. He patiently waited and continued to show interest in her and take care of her quietly, even though it is exhausting at times. We then see him make his intentions clear to Yeong Gyeong about being interested in her and that does make her see him a bit clearer?
P.s. Sorry for the essay sldfksflks I got too engrossed and didn't realized I wrote a whole page 😭
Right from the beginning, you could see how overbearing she was with how she instantly subjected Sang Won to the cold shoulder after hearing one singular response from him about being interested in the other women, which is ????? This is a dating show after all, I'd much rather have my date be honest about his curiosity than reassure me with fake promises and then break my heart later. That frigid atmosphere must've really left an impression on Sang Won, even if just subconsciously. He mentioned his energy felt drained every time he was with Ye Eun, and honestly, you could see it. Ye Eun's overbearing streak continued in this episode too and idk what it is about her, but she makes me uncomfortable lowkey. Like she'd plan and pray on your downfall if you cross her path even a little bit 😬
I mean, that conversation in Bon Hee's room was proof enough where she kept trying to rub it into Ji Won's face that she has a date with Sang Won and how "fun" it was. Girl, we get it, lay it down. I mean, this could be her ballet background playing in to the picture. Her competitiveness for that "lead role" from all those years in the industry could also be to blame but she should learn to tamper it.
Anyhow, I've been rooting for Ji Won since the beginning of the show, no matter who she decides to pursue. Wishing her the best! And Sang Won in his redemption arc was such a nice surprise lmao, I LOVE IT! <3
Now I have to wait a whole day even for the raws 🥲
Hard pass.
A RING?!?!? RING?!??!
The most I would've dared would be a necklace cause it's only been four days but I also get that there are instances where you meet someone that you like so much that you would even go as far as to imagine yourself marrying them on the spot 😭
I'M SO SAT
He's one of those ppl that gets less and less attractive the more he opens his mouth 😭
They fit so well together! They're my next fave pick after Bon Hee and Mu Jin!
Ye Eun's only problem is that she switches between excited and depressed way too quickly and at random. She has no emotional stability, and her unpredictable nature where she's elated one second and grim the next almost comes across as if she has bipolar disorder (or maybe she's just really spoiled? Plus with her job being on the stage, her dramatics are really either at the highest peaks or lowest valleys. Perks of being in the entertainment industry ig) Her mood swings are too great and too intense. She's like the wings of a helicopter, even the tiniest disturbance or change will make her go completely out of a control. Her emotional baggage is too great and the rollercoaster of emotions she puts the other person through by going silent all of a sudden over the tiniest thing she finds unpleasant makes it so awkward and puts them into a tight spot. And no one really wants to experience that. She acts a lot like a school girl. And the ppl here are the ones who signed up for older women who are mature and who they could feel comfortable around and rely on, not a land mine that they have to carefully toe around to avoid detonating.