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My point is, that people should be more worried about akirass mental health then his sex life. Its not ok to judge moraly just because you have no argument to forbid it.

There is your problem, you jaust now kids or adults. Like the holy Ghost went on 18th birthday in kid and transforms him to an adult. And thats why a Consent of an 14 year old (but i think Akiras was 15 to 16) can count. No Manipulation no grooming, just consent that should count. I think you are to obsessed wiht thinking of minor sex, so oyu forgot humnaity. Akira has rights, he is not an object. Yuo should think less on sex with akira,then his mental health.

Why should i accept your opinion, its not a fact. And a good justification is still lacking.It it is consentual, its not your concern it they dont break the law. You should question yourself why your are so obsessed of thinking of Sex that you dehumnize Akira to an object with no free wlll.

in many countries a consent of minor can count. You can dislike it, but you should have arguments.

The age of consent in Germany is 14, as this is the age at which the legal capacity for sexual self-determination begins. It aims to protect the development of young people without prohibiting curiosity and hormones through overly strict laws. Furthermore, it seeks to prevent excessively harsh criminal consequences in cases of small age differences.
Here are the key reasons in detail:
Sexual maturity: According to Sections 175 et seq. of the German Criminal Code (StGB), at age 14, young people are considered mature enough to consent to sexual acts.

Historical development: The age of consent was set at 14 in 1973/1974 to create a uniform regulation following the reform of Section 175 of the German Criminal Code (criminality of homosexuality).

Protection from exploitation: Although consent is possible from the age of 14, the law protects young people under 18 from exploitative situations (such as dependency on teachers or coaches) by keeping these situations criminalized. Real-life reality: Studies show that a large proportion of young people have their first sexual experiences before the age of 16, which is reflected in legislation.

In summary, the age of 14 represents a compromise between protecting minors and acknowledging the onset of sexual maturity.

no in the uncut version its the same

yes i do, thats seems to be the difference between ua. He is a friend of his brother who tutors him, he is not a teacher or Trainer or else. And again, just using words without saying, wht exactly is the matter. He has not manipulate him or used force or something else, If you think otherwise then name the things he have don.

Another interesting thing is, we now they have sex, but fucking? If im not overseeing it, there is no hint, what Sex they really done, Its not so important, but it shows how much you and theres are triggered and leave the concret situation which is told.

You dont understand, that no one is cheering Kanda fro his doiing, yes perhabps it would be better not doing so. but it is right to overeact like you do now? And it is not even clear if Kanda breaks a law, unfortunaletly the plot is hier not clear.

And you confrim my statement you can see just black and white, akiras suffer is no concern for you, thats his own bad fortune, who cares. But many people have experinced simular like Akira and these are disappointed in your only concern about sex and not mental health.

For me that i think wouldnt happend, when i was i middle school, i was not attracted by oder men, But in fact would like to had a buddy like Kanda in this time just to find myself, but ok just without sex

As expected no answer to my question what acitions of kanda you see as grooming or gaslighting. Just more insults cause you lack arguments. Have a nice day

i hope not, that would be to much clichee, in realtity young gays get more rejectet by straight frineds, who fnish the friendship, ghosting them or here bullying them. So it would become a thing between gays, but i like the story because there are many gay teens who are not accepted by their straight friends

you use words like gasligting without understandig. And you insults shows juist that your are not the smartest person. yYou're just making claims without any concrete content,. Indeed thats time wasting

Thank you vor thinking my existence is a tragedy, does it need more to prove , that you are poor women wiht low moral standard= i feel pity for you. Another woman who has no compassion cause she dont understanes what Akira fells- You dont understand, why me and otheres see the suffer of Akira and are disgusted by your
superficial observation

whree is the grooming or gaslithing, please become concret which aciion you mean

No one says hurray to this relationship, but you are more interested in being triggered from sex than see his soul. I really feel sorry for you

Ok then explain what actions or Words of the tutor was manipulation, grooming or gaslighting? Thinking that the problems of Akia are caused by Kanda shows, yoru are so clueless about life,

How hypocritical, the moment you cant abuse him as victim for your Lectoring you begin to blame him. You have no compassion for a gay kid, who suffers. Your only thing ist blaming others to satisfy yourslelf, Disgusting

I agree, but now they had done it with sex. So what. Its perhaps not a good thing, but i dislike viewing all things in black and white and not recognising the gray tones. He was not groomed, if you think it was grooming, then how? Kanda meets him without any sexual interest. you and otheres just declares its grooming gaslighting but cant expalin what Kanda hast done for this judgement.

For me you dont understand, that Akira suffers and had no way out. He is hurt and have no one to talk about cause the fear of being rejecetet again. thats why he dont talk to his parents or older brother.

Im on your side, perhaps it would be better without the sex, but it seems both of them need the sex just to reliev.

and i just wish, that the people recongnize what happens with akira because of his bad friend from middle school, cause that is, what many young gay teens experience. Some Teens commit suicide of the situation.

Look at yourself, the tragedy is here not the relationship with the tutor but the Jerk from middle school who hurt Akira so deep, that he lost jis joy of life. there are many young gays who commit suicide in such situationl. The world is not black or white, you should just be more intested in suffer of Akira. Thats the problem of all the people, they just want to see, what happens and judging just about the age gap, The rest like gsalighting or grooming happens only in your fantasy

IN germany it would be legal. Cause you say it was Manipulation, but this your fantasy, Rewatch the seenes and explain, what you see as manipulation. He is not a teacher or offiicial. authority. Dont put so much in the fact that he tutors him.

Other Thing, you say 7 years,, but i found ne clear hint, how big the age gap is.

Last thing, stop dehumanizing Akira just for you View of morality. He is young gay who has been brutal hurt by his best friend, but your only concern is having sex with an older.

There are studies, that homosexuality is one of the most reasons for suicide for teens. And thats why idiots like the middle school friends hurt so much, rejection of famliy hurt so much, but you are only interesting in scolding him for finding help.

You should focus more on your own weakness then lecture others

its not a question of blamimg, you and i havent studied japanese las so its not clear, if a private Tutor is a autority . But you dont get one thing. Do you really think Akira is hurt by Kanda? His really hurt was his friend in cram school, just rewatch the scene and see the pain this "friend" caused. I just see, that you obsessed in condemnig the sex, but have not interest in Akira himself. I never said you are blaming him, you just have no tinerest of his feelings. Its more important for ypu to use him for your complaining. But what has really hurt him, that he couldnt study anymore and lost his joy of life is not concern for you.

Again, i would wish Akira has found someone else to open his mind after that painful experience. but you cant imagine that he couldnt find someone. After that he has to much fear because he was afreid to being rejeceted again so thats why he couldnt talk to his parents or his brotheres.

And this heartbrocking situation doesnt bother the peopl,e cause they can blame the tutor, thats just sad.

So you studied law or psychiatry,? i did So this i found for Japan

n 2023, the two articles were amended to raise the age of consent from 13 to 16 years old. An exception was included for sexual acts involving persons aged 13 to 15, by which the older partner is only subject to penalty if five or more years older. The amendments were part of a larger reform of Japan's sex crime legislation

So its not that easy cause we dont know their exact age gap. And you misunderstand that he is not a teacher,. He tutoring cause hie brother waqnts him to help akira. That is not the situarion like School or cram school.

And dont missunderstand me, i dont think its cool and easy, but in your point of view you reduce Akira as just a prey, You have no interest of his feelings and needs.

The story is that he has no one to opened, no one to explore his sexuality. And you day it, you just think about him as a kid. In my country we called them adolescent not grown up but no more just a kid.

And he is gay, i see thats mostly women who complan about this. i thint you have no conclusion what it means for a young man to find out beeing attracted to men. I would have wish Akira that his friend in cramschool wouldnt hurt him so much. He is insecure he locks all this things in his mind and has no one to talk about no one he can approach.

But this doesnt bother you, your only interest is to blame Kanda, you have no interest in Akira and his situation

its not a question of convincing, i just dislik your desinterest for Akira, He is a human beeing not just only a victim you must protect. In my Country this could be legal. The age of consent in Germany is 14 because German law considers adolescents to be capable of sexual self-determination at this age. This threshold differentiates "children" (under 14) from "adolescents" (14-18), allowing for sexual development and voluntary acts, provided there is no exploitation of a custodial relationship or abuse of power.. You have no compasson for a young gay, who needs to explore his sexual orientation. What could he do instead? you just look at the age and have no mercy for Akira, he just should not disturb your comfort zone

Its good there is no happy end. They made decisions and we see the consequenze of it. Ejii has a child he loves but lose the partner he love. Their Triangle just worked as long Tagaki is just a part, but with the pregnancy she becomes more important to Ejii as Senoo can bear. im really god with this, because otherwise is all you do irrelevant, cause in the end all are happy. So i like this end, Senoo finds his way and can move on. Ejjii and Tagaki lost Senoo but have their child you cant get everything.

So i really suggest you to look to the end. i also need sometinms series with no real obstacles and a chesse happy ending But its good to see realistic stories which leads you to be thoughtprovoking

i like the series because it is realistic and not as often a fairytale. The father, who cant accept his son because he want him to satisfy his expectation. The Son who stands agains it and then do a stupid thing, to get both, his love and his father. The woman who wants to secure, that the three will stay together but ended up in a marriage withone. And Senoo, who realised that because of the child Ejii have feelings for Tagaki and cant accept it.