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ep. 2 was boring and hard to watch. No progression no real story. In fact i think Itt knows that Rit was lying but is interested in him and so all was teasing

Wir müssen uns auch nciht einig werden, sämtliche Altersgrenzen sind letztlich willkürlich von Menschen gezogen. Deswegen stört mich aber dei Absolutheit mit der hier viele diskutieren, als wäre das in sTein gemeißelte Wahrheit. Auch ich kann falschl liegen, aber meine Begründung für meine Meinung wird ja einfach ohne Argument einfach vom Tisch gewischt. Und viele finden es halt schade da wird ein Junge gezeigt, der durch Ablehnung und Mobbing seine Lebensfreud verliert und das rückt völlig in den Hintergrund. NIcht sein Schicklas wird diskutiert, sondern nur die Frage, ob sein Sexpartner nciht zu alt war.

Du schreibst oben, dass er ins Gefängnis gehen soll, wofür denn, wenn nicht für ein Verbrechen? Und so ziehen sich deine Ausreden durch. Du denkst an Akrias Gesundheit aber kommst nur als Besserwisser um die Ecke.. Behaupten kann man viel.

Dieser Fall ist doch genau der Grund warum in Deutschland die Sexualstraftaten so geregelt sind. Akira hat eben auch Rechte.

Und ich kämpfe für Akira und nicht für Kanda, aber das begreifst du nicht, weil dich der Gedanke so triggerd, ass Kanda mit Akira geschlafen hat, dass du alles andere verdrängst. Sei mir nicht böse, aber so wie viele homophobe selbst homosexuellle Neigungen haben, sind unter den Beschhützern der armen Kinder eben auch leute die genauso empfinden. Und dann dreht sich dein geschickter Vorwurf, deine Unfähigkeit sachlich zu argumentenieren, so Dinge ich ich habe nie gesagt er hat ein Verbrechen begangen während ein Post vorher steht, er gehört dafür ins Gefängnis. Dein Desinteresse Akira eigene Rechte zuzugestehen, nähren ehrlichwerie diesen Verdacht. Denn diese Grenzen sind alle willkürlich gezogen und daher immer diskutabel. Aber du hast ja schon meine Eräuterung zur Situation in Deutschland mit den Gründen als Essay abgetan.

Und natürlich kann so jemand eben nicht differenzieren,dass es um Akira geht und nicht um Kanada,

Nun, da du aus Deutschland bist, antworte ich auf Deutsch. Ich habe keinen Essay verfasst, sondern die deutsche Rechtslage erläutert und die Gründe hierfür aufgeführt. Diese kannst du offenbar nicht entkräften, also haust du einen raus. du solltest du nicht soviel an Sex mit Minderjährigen denken, sondern dir lieber ernsthafte GEdanken machen, waurm du hier auch Kanda falsch beschuldigst. Ein Freund eines Bruder der prifat Nachhilfe gibt ist keine Autorität, wede gesetzlich noch moralisch. Und auch an dich die dringennde bitte, denkt doch mal an Akira anstatt Kanda zu hassen. Wie würde isch Akikra fühlen, wenn Kanda ins Gefängnis muss, wieviel möchtest du dieser verletzten Seele noch zumuten nur um deinen Hass zu befriedigen.

My point is, that people should be more worried about akirass mental health then his sex life. Its not ok to judge moraly just because you have no argument to forbid it.

There is your problem, you jaust now kids or adults. Like the holy Ghost went on 18th birthday in kid and transforms him to an adult. And thats why a Consent of an 14 year old (but i think Akiras was 15 to 16) can count. No Manipulation no grooming, just consent that should count. I think you are to obsessed wiht thinking of minor sex, so oyu forgot humnaity. Akira has rights, he is not an object. Yuo should think less on sex with akira,then his mental health.

Why should i accept your opinion, its not a fact. And a good justification is still lacking.It it is consentual, its not your concern it they dont break the law. You should question yourself why your are so obsessed of thinking of Sex that you dehumnize Akira to an object with no free wlll.

in many countries a consent of minor can count. You can dislike it, but you should have arguments.

The age of consent in Germany is 14, as this is the age at which the legal capacity for sexual self-determination begins. It aims to protect the development of young people without prohibiting curiosity and hormones through overly strict laws. Furthermore, it seeks to prevent excessively harsh criminal consequences in cases of small age differences.
Here are the key reasons in detail:
Sexual maturity: According to Sections 175 et seq. of the German Criminal Code (StGB), at age 14, young people are considered mature enough to consent to sexual acts.

Historical development: The age of consent was set at 14 in 1973/1974 to create a uniform regulation following the reform of Section 175 of the German Criminal Code (criminality of homosexuality).

Protection from exploitation: Although consent is possible from the age of 14, the law protects young people under 18 from exploitative situations (such as dependency on teachers or coaches) by keeping these situations criminalized. Real-life reality: Studies show that a large proportion of young people have their first sexual experiences before the age of 16, which is reflected in legislation.

In summary, the age of 14 represents a compromise between protecting minors and acknowledging the onset of sexual maturity.

no in the uncut version its the same

yes i do, thats seems to be the difference between ua. He is a friend of his brother who tutors him, he is not a teacher or Trainer or else. And again, just using words without saying, wht exactly is the matter. He has not manipulate him or used force or something else, If you think otherwise then name the things he have don.

Another interesting thing is, we now they have sex, but fucking? If im not overseeing it, there is no hint, what Sex they really done, Its not so important, but it shows how much you and theres are triggered and leave the concret situation which is told.

You dont understand, that no one is cheering Kanda fro his doiing, yes perhabps it would be better not doing so. but it is right to overeact like you do now? And it is not even clear if Kanda breaks a law, unfortunaletly the plot is hier not clear.

And you confrim my statement you can see just black and white, akiras suffer is no concern for you, thats his own bad fortune, who cares. But many people have experinced simular like Akira and these are disappointed in your only concern about sex and not mental health.

For me that i think wouldnt happend, when i was i middle school, i was not attracted by oder men, But in fact would like to had a buddy like Kanda in this time just to find myself, but ok just without sex

As expected no answer to my question what acitions of kanda you see as grooming or gaslighting. Just more insults cause you lack arguments. Have a nice day

i hope not, that would be to much clichee, in realtity young gays get more rejectet by straight frineds, who fnish the friendship, ghosting them or here bullying them. So it would become a thing between gays, but i like the story because there are many gay teens who are not accepted by their straight friends

you use words like gasligting without understandig. And you insults shows juist that your are not the smartest person. yYou're just making claims without any concrete content,. Indeed thats time wasting

Thank you vor thinking my existence is a tragedy, does it need more to prove , that you are poor women wiht low moral standard= i feel pity for you. Another woman who has no compassion cause she dont understanes what Akira fells- You dont understand, why me and otheres see the suffer of Akira and are disgusted by your
superficial observation

whree is the grooming or gaslithing, please become concret which aciion you mean

No one says hurray to this relationship, but you are more interested in being triggered from sex than see his soul. I really feel sorry for you

Ok then explain what actions or Words of the tutor was manipulation, grooming or gaslighting? Thinking that the problems of Akia are caused by Kanda shows, yoru are so clueless about life,

How hypocritical, the moment you cant abuse him as victim for your Lectoring you begin to blame him. You have no compassion for a gay kid, who suffers. Your only thing ist blaming others to satisfy yourslelf, Disgusting

I agree, but now they had done it with sex. So what. Its perhaps not a good thing, but i dislike viewing all things in black and white and not recognising the gray tones. He was not groomed, if you think it was grooming, then how? Kanda meets him without any sexual interest. you and otheres just declares its grooming gaslighting but cant expalin what Kanda hast done for this judgement.

For me you dont understand, that Akira suffers and had no way out. He is hurt and have no one to talk about cause the fear of being rejecetet again. thats why he dont talk to his parents or older brother.

Im on your side, perhaps it would be better without the sex, but it seems both of them need the sex just to reliev.

and i just wish, that the people recongnize what happens with akira because of his bad friend from middle school, cause that is, what many young gay teens experience. Some Teens commit suicide of the situation.

Look at yourself, the tragedy is here not the relationship with the tutor but the Jerk from middle school who hurt Akira so deep, that he lost jis joy of life. there are many young gays who commit suicide in such situationl. The world is not black or white, you should just be more intested in suffer of Akira. Thats the problem of all the people, they just want to see, what happens and judging just about the age gap, The rest like gsalighting or grooming happens only in your fantasy

IN germany it would be legal. Cause you say it was Manipulation, but this your fantasy, Rewatch the seenes and explain, what you see as manipulation. He is not a teacher or offiicial. authority. Dont put so much in the fact that he tutors him.

Other Thing, you say 7 years,, but i found ne clear hint, how big the age gap is.

Last thing, stop dehumanizing Akira just for you View of morality. He is young gay who has been brutal hurt by his best friend, but your only concern is having sex with an older.

There are studies, that homosexuality is one of the most reasons for suicide for teens. And thats why idiots like the middle school friends hurt so much, rejection of famliy hurt so much, but you are only interesting in scolding him for finding help.

You should focus more on your own weakness then lecture others

its not a question of blamimg, you and i havent studied japanese las so its not clear, if a private Tutor is a autority . But you dont get one thing. Do you really think Akira is hurt by Kanda? His really hurt was his friend in cram school, just rewatch the scene and see the pain this "friend" caused. I just see, that you obsessed in condemnig the sex, but have not interest in Akira himself. I never said you are blaming him, you just have no tinerest of his feelings. Its more important for ypu to use him for your complaining. But what has really hurt him, that he couldnt study anymore and lost his joy of life is not concern for you.

Again, i would wish Akira has found someone else to open his mind after that painful experience. but you cant imagine that he couldnt find someone. After that he has to much fear because he was afreid to being rejeceted again so thats why he couldnt talk to his parents or his brotheres.

And this heartbrocking situation doesnt bother the peopl,e cause they can blame the tutor, thats just sad.