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Replying to Yuichin • 1 day ago
The original vers is 15-16 yrs old maybe that's why
Did you watch original?
Is it worth watching?

I saw few pictures but fl seems to be very old and quality of cinematography is too low after watching recent ones.w
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Replying to meko • 9 days ago
With that lawyer? Their scene where he destroys her phone and she throws a brick at his car has more chemistry…
Fair point on the slow pacing, but let’s be real—we’re all here watching fictional characters throw bricks at cars because real life is boring. That’s kind of the whole point of K-dramas, isn’t it?
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Replying to Obuom Nyante • 10 days ago
how can people ship female lead with sml he’s so toxic….i wouldn’t wish him on my worst enemy
With that lawyer? Their scene where he destroys her phone and she throws a brick at his car has more chemistry and spark in a single scene than the main lead showed in all 1.5 episodes 😭
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Replying to anele-051 • 10 days ago
Maybe it’s because the job of a bodyguard is to protect the client, not to save themselves. Would you hire a…
Yo I'm saying he didn't even try to fight 😭 just stand afk
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On A Love Other than Yours • 10 days ago
Are there women like FL?
I mean she's living with man 10 years, he seems green flag, and she doesn't want to marry?

I just have no clue about women, so asking. I'm watching first episode.
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Replying to Jemimah • Aug 15, 2026
i agree. I just knew people would have a problem with FL one way or another. She´s a fangirl and as someone who…
After Mina Chan 😢 I can't watch this fan obsessing dramas. Even before it was cringe but now it's a no-no
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On My Bias, My Boss • Aug 15, 2026
I can't watch dramas like this after Mina Chan😥 Liking an artist and going to a concert once in a while is totally fine, but extreme fangirling, buying endless merch, and making someone your whole world isn't healthy. It can create another Mina Chan - and even if it doesn't, I don't think obsession should be portrayed as something cute or aspirational.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 4, 2026
Title Spooky in Love Spoiler
he is her childhood friend i guess
Let's remove the ghosts and the curse entirely, because they actually distract from the real question.

Imagine this in real life.

You meet a woman three times.

The first two meetings are brief. Once, you pull her away from a car. Fine - that's an emergency.

The next day, you go to her house to return shirt. During that visit, you grab her hand and drag her into another room. A few minutes later, you grab her hand again and pull her somewhere else.

At this point, you've known her for less than a day, you've met only a handful of times, and you have no close relationship.

Would anyone honestly call that respectful behavior?

Notice that I didn't even mention the curse. I don't need it.

Whether she avoids touch because of trauma, illness, personal preference, religion, or no reason at all is irrelevant. You don't need to know why someone avoids physical contact to respect the fact that they do.

"She only said 'keep your distance' afterward."

People don't have to announce every boundary before others should avoid unnecessary physical contact. Respectful behavior is not grabbing first and asking questions later.

Saving someone in an emergency and repeatedly grabbing someone during ordinary conversations are completely different situations.

You can like Gang Uk. You can think he's brave, kind, and a good romantic lead. None of that changes the fact that these specific actions ignored another person's physical boundaries.

Friendly reminder: even if you're not studying to become a prosecutor, "don't grab strangers you've met three times unless it's an emergency" is a pretty good rule to remember. 😉

Also, the romance defense doesn't apply here. In Episodes 3–4 they are not a couple, not close, and barely know each other. He is a stranger who has met her a few times. Judge the action in that context, not through the lens of a future romance that hasn't happened yet.
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Replying to Jkat778 • Aug 3, 2026
What are you talking about? When she was falling off a cliff and he tried to grab her? What show are you actually…
Episode 3: In her house he grabbed her hand and dragged to closet. Minutes later near his house he grabbed her hand again and dragged few meters to the side of the house.

Episode 4 he grabbed her hand saying it's first day so he doesn't care if month countdown starts again.

Call it a "romance trope" all you want, but physically manhandling someone who is actively trying to maintain distance is objectively poor boundary enforcement.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 3, 2026
he is her childhood friend i guess
The problem is that you’re analyzing this without the actual context of the scenes.

This isn't just me personally being uncomfortable with a fictional trope. The character herself is shown going to extreme lengths to avoid physical contact - she literally falls into the ocean rather than risk touching him because she is afraid of what her condition can do to other people. That is not a subtle hint; that is the character communicating that physical contact is a serious boundary for her.

Also, "she should tell him her boundaries" ignores what the audience is shown. She does tell him to keep distance afterward. Her actions already show fear and avoidance. A person doesn't need to give a formal verbal statement every single time before someone can understand that grabbing their hand and dragging them somewhere is unwanted.

And "people probably bump into her all the time" is not really comparable. Accidental contact is not the same as someone deliberately grabbing you and moving you. Intentional physical contact requires a different level of consideration.

The issue isn't that the drama has a romantic trope. Fiction can portray anything. The issue is that the show frames behavior as charming that, in this specific context, ignores the character's fear, condition, and clearly demonstrated desire for distance.

ML is huge red flag.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 3, 2026
he is her childhood friend i guess
She's still a person - you can't just grab someone without consent, even if you know them. And they're not even friends.

On top of that, her touch has serious consequences in the story: it can make others "mystic ill" and see ghosts.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 3, 2026
he is her childhood friend i guess
I freaked out and she probably even more as she have some "mystic illness" so she can't touch people because they will become also "mystic ill" that see ghosts. Also few minutes later she tells him to keep distance between him and her that means she clearly doesn't want to be touched and someone to be in less than 1 meter close.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 3, 2026
he is her childhood friend i guess
Basic bodily autonomy means you don't physically grab and haul people around without their consent, period.

And regarding the timeline: the childhood friend reveal didn't happen until after he was already pulling and pushing her around uninvited.
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Replying to alicemia • Aug 3, 2026
he is her childhood friend i guess
That's not how personal boundaries work
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