What if Nabi actually isn't that naive (or dumb)? I mean the reason why she chose to begin a relationship with…
I'm not sure what her backstory is but it seems that she likes being desired or at least having the illusion of being safe while she's in a relationship, so she interprets her boyfriend's actions as something he does for her because he loves her and not about anything else. I also think her insecurity plays a part too. In the group, she's as artistic as everyone else but she doesn't seem to believe in herself or her own skills.
She's not the quiet friend but she seems to model herself as a "good girl" and in my opinion, she finds it thrilling when she does things that you wouldn't expect of her, so for example, smoking (or at least entertaining the idea that she could/would smoke), going to a night out gathering. I don't think she has the courage to be who she wants to be so she seems to model herself around people she's around, especially her girlfriends.
So when she's in a relationship, or in love, she uses men like a major driving force for her being. It makes you question whether she even likes them (or at least her ex-boyfriend as we're only in Ep 1) in the first place because she knows what she's up against but she almost willingly sets herself up to be used? Which would kind of explain how she was so distracted by the ML even though she'd just broken up with her ex. Sure, she might've been hurt, but she automatically found another outlet (ML) for her issues.
Her falling for the ML that fast only proves how manipulative he is, literally the moment they met he started…
I think she's not as dumb as she seems. She subconsciously and consciously knows what she's getting into. I think she likes the thrill of being in relationships where it's dangerous. She is motivated by her lust and desire to said men so she allows herself to do whatever it is they want to do, only for her to realise that she doesn't actually like some of the things that she's done with them, or how she's been treated. It'd be interesting to hear her backstory as normally these types of issues arise when there's neglect in childhood and there's lack of emotional involvement from parents, and for women, mostly from their fathers, "daddy issues" so to speak.
Her first artist boyfriend was a dick. Making and naming a sculpture of her in her private moment is a low blow. Disgusting!
ML is quite flirty and how FL chases him is a bit cringe lool. It reminds me of high school days when you like bad boys because they're somehow more "interesting" because they've got a backstory of some sort and you wanna be the one to change him. Haha.
Yeah I know that in real life this would be way too hard and the realistic, more graphic details that the show has omitted for the purposes of slapstick storytelling would probably so much worse in real life. I mean even knowing that you were videoed during those intimate moments and those moments were shared to the public would really have a mental impact on anyone. Plus knowing that you somehow changed someone's life and made them paraplegic is such a burden.
I guess it depends on how realistic they may want the story to be. As far as realism goes it's pretty accurate but ofc, as a drama there are times when things happen for convenience. Maybe I'd be happy too if they didn't end up together but I don't know, I hope the ending is worth it and I hope that they tackle the MH issues well and not just make them "disappear" because in real life, it takes years to be able to resolve such issues.
I feel bad for the ML but I won't blame the FL for not staying.It's been known that the ML had some traumatic…
Exactly! You said it right. I think in real life this would be too hard for anyone because their traumas are quite serious. I'm not even sure they should be having a relationship but sometimes you can't really help bonding especially when you have someone who's just like you.
You can't expect life to go as smooth as butter. Things happened in last few episodes were bound to be happened…
Yeah. I mean shit happens all the time. It's really a rollercoaster. It doesn't mean you're always down but when you do have those moments, you learn how to appreciate the "miracles" and even the daily routine/peace.
Ep.12 was amazing but also tough to watch. As much as I want them to be together I understand her decision to…
Yeah. I think whilst to me she was a little off, more annoying than I expected her to be (MH issues aside of course), the breakup would eventually be good for FL because it seemed to me that she was getting a little too dependent on ML, which could turn unhealthy and not really be good for her healing as it would just give her another "crouch" to use instead of facing her fears or moving forward from her past.
I cant understand the FL at all, she suffered from the people who disbelieve her, but at the same time she didn't…
Sometimes when you get burnt once, that burn stays with you even when you've healed. She also said that she was fearful that everything was going so well and I think when you feel that, your insecurity plus your trauma will evidently have great control over your emotions. FL is quite impulsive but I think she's had to be because if she doesn't act quickly towards a situation, then she could find herself caught in a situation she didn't create. Ultimately for her, it's the control that she tries to have so that she can avoid the trauma that she's experienced.
However, I did find her characterisation a little off in the recent episode. It felt to me that the breakup was created so that there could be some sort of rift before the ending.
She's not the quiet friend but she seems to model herself as a "good girl" and in my opinion, she finds it thrilling when she does things that you wouldn't expect of her, so for example, smoking (or at least entertaining the idea that she could/would smoke), going to a night out gathering. I don't think she has the courage to be who she wants to be so she seems to model herself around people she's around, especially her girlfriends.
So when she's in a relationship, or in love, she uses men like a major driving force for her being. It makes you question whether she even likes them (or at least her ex-boyfriend as we're only in Ep 1) in the first place because she knows what she's up against but she almost willingly sets herself up to be used? Which would kind of explain how she was so distracted by the ML even though she'd just broken up with her ex. Sure, she might've been hurt, but she automatically found another outlet (ML) for her issues.
ML is quite flirty and how FL chases him is a bit cringe lool. It reminds me of high school days when you like bad boys because they're somehow more "interesting" because they've got a backstory of some sort and you wanna be the one to change him. Haha.
I guess it depends on how realistic they may want the story to be. As far as realism goes it's pretty accurate but ofc, as a drama there are times when things happen for convenience. Maybe I'd be happy too if they didn't end up together but I don't know, I hope the ending is worth it and I hope that they tackle the MH issues well and not just make them "disappear" because in real life, it takes years to be able to resolve such issues.
However, I did find her characterisation a little off in the recent episode. It felt to me that the breakup was created so that there could be some sort of rift before the ending.