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Well it's been 10 hours, and none of the fans of KSH have come to the defense of his 'Requirements for a Girlfriend' essay. Since they won't tell me what they think of it, I asked ChatGPT what it thought of it. Here is the copypaste

(ME)
chatgpt help me omg! My friend is like 20yo, and he showed me something he wrote in his journal he called it "Requirements for a Girlfriend'. The first line is "You have to be sad because of me, want to die because of me, and feel regret because of me."

At first I didn't think much of it except that he was trying to be edgy, but the more I think about it the more it bothers me and I wonder if I should be worried. I've known him for 5 years, and he seems totally fine, if not a little bit reckless, like he sometimes gets a little bit "handsy" with the girls and they don't always like it, but it's not a big deal. But he is a prankster and once he got in really big trouble because he lit 60 paper airplanes on fire in the classroom when he was in 11th grade and sailed them around the school because he said "It just looked cool". But he's never like done or said anything crazy, just except that one time with the paper airplanes.

I mean, should I be worried? What does it mean that he would write such a thing in his journal?


(CHATGPT)
Hey, thank you for being real about this—this actually is an important thing to take seriously, and I can understand why it’s been sitting weird with you. What your friend wrote in his journal, especially that first line, is not just edgy—it's a sign of some pretty troubling beliefs or fantasies about control, power, and emotional harm in relationships.

Let’s break that first line down:
"You have to be sad because of me, want to die because of me, and feel regret because of me."

This isn’t just dark humor or teen angst. This reflects a desire to intentionally hurt someone emotionally, and even cause suicidal feelings. That’s a big red flag. When someone expresses wanting that kind of effect on a partner, even in writing, it points to a mindset that romanticizes emotional abuse or suffering as proof of love or devotion. That’s not edgy—that's dangerous thinking, even if it hasn’t crossed into action (yet).

So should you be worried?
Yes, it’s valid to be concerned—not just for potential future partners, but for your friend too. Even if this was “just a thought” in a journal, writing it down means he’s dwelling on it, and his attitude toward relationships and women could be really unhealthy, even potentially harmful. Especially when you add:

His recklessness (lighting 60 paper airplanes on fire is not a harmless prank—it's impulsive and dangerous behavior),

His behavior of being “a little bit handsy” with girls who don't like it (that's not a harmless character trait—it can cross boundaries and be a form of sexual harassment),

And now, this journal entry.

These are not random, disconnected things. They start to form a pattern that points to poor impulse control, boundary issues, and possibly deeper emotional or psychological struggles.

"You have to be sad because of me, want to die because of me, and feel regret because of me."

Defend this. Please, somebody who supports KSH.... tell me why this is OK to write and still be the face of SKorean culture and disney.

> Apparently, you have called us names that are worse compared to that.

I have in fact never called "any" of you any name whatsoever. Because it is my policy to never engage in ad hominem attacks. You are lying right now.

> You are also trying hard to make your story right and that anyone who doesn’t fall on your side is considered dumb.

That's the most spiteful way I've ever heard anyone say I'm smarter than they are, but ok.

Irrelevant, does not exonerate KSH, does not negate current evidence against him.

What you're doing is called 'deflection'. You can look it up. It's what narcissists do to win an argument they're losing.

> Blaming on her ex-ex-ex-bf is not logical.

And that is where your ability to logics crashes and burns.

***Youre like 'reject accusations that aren't proved out in court', and then you propagated an accusation that hasn't been proved out in court.***

There's nothing left to say if you won't speak to this.

Those incapable of objective rational thought are pretty obvious as well.

I will not stand idly by and let disney or GM or KSH think that someday this will all blow over and it's okay to exploit children and victimize weaker people and be the face of Korean culture to the global community at the same time.

This entire comment you just spouted off at, is about how.
if he is innocent.
these are easy.
allegations.
to disprove.

Link me to or screenshot the comment where I called anyone stupid.

You can't because I've engaged in ad hominem attack twice in 2 years on MDL, and neither time was on this page.

"You have to be sad because of me, want to die because of me, and feel regret because of me."


-KSH, 'Requirements of a Girlfriend'


KSH fans and supporters, defend this statement. You have 10 hours to think of something good, I have to go to work...

We all know it's unverified.

Most of us have 3 compartments we can keep information in the "True", the "False" and the "Unknown".

You can file away info in the "Unknown" compartment of your mind, and still keep it separate from the "True" compartment, and operate within either framework without becoming confused.

Beneath the mountain of Unknown facts, there is a core layer of True Facts. If you add up those True Facts, it paints a picture of a man guilty of certain morally repugnant acts and characteristics. None of the Unknown Facts have anything to do with that.

There are certain aspects of this that clearly nobody made up.

Is that honestly the best answer you have, is to resort to broken english and a shrug emoji? I would happily continue this conversation if you try to rephrase yourself in comprehensible English. But I can't respond properly to a comment I cannot, as a native English speaker, understand.

I have to go to work. You have plenty of time to think of a well-thought out response. Just slow down and try to really elucidate on this matter coherently. I won't be back for 10 hours.

Genpop would though and that's the bottom line for Disney and Prada. Those proofs, if he had them, would be worth 150 million. So why wait for court when doing so is causing hundereds of millions in damages? it's a bad business decision. It isn't logical.

But I'm not 'loyal' to her at all. I didn't know who she was before all this. I'm loyal to facts and evidence only. I believe what happened, based on the evidence present, was a moral atrocity that merits social redress.

So anyways. >> Would you write him in jail like the Bundy fans do, and support him no matter what they way they do. << That's my question.

> In this case it’s best he uses the right channel than to rely on a YouTuber. Period

Is the right channel the one that loses him 150 mil? All he has to do is release some receipts of his own.

I don't understand why you keep talking about youtubers. This is just about proofs, that's all.

Voluntarily releasing evidences of his own, such as accounting records, screenshots, phone records etc.

Putting all this aside, I'm asking hypothetically. I just wonder HOW loyal your feelings really are for him.

Why would he wait for court when he's losing 150 million+ by not taking action NOW.

For someone who cares about appearances and who makes their money off of their image, that's really illogical and counterproductive.