Did the ML female friend just tell FL that the guy is a virgin? It was hilarious & disturbing at the same time.
How does this girl know the ML sexual activities? Does the ML call up this girl each night and say 'guess what, I did not sleep with a girl tonight as well'. Or may be he took a celibacy oath in front of the girl. Do the Cdrama writers think out of their bottoms when writing such things into the drama?
The FL getting together with ML after that makes her look shallow. If the ML has a past or has been with many girls, does that make him unfit for being her boyfriend?
This coming from a girl who would get pissed drunk every other week and some times tries to pick up random man to sleep with. Or go to swimming pool with her friend, ogle at half naked guys and rate them.
As expected with a C-drama, it starts out funny, light and amusing and around the middle they ruin it with forced…
As long as ML does not develop feelings for the other girl, it should be fine.
Wouldn't consider it a love triangle as long as leads are true to each other & they don't directly or indirectly encourage second leads to pursue them.
Yes all those complaining about FL cheating is starting to hit a nerve with me, as a woman I don’t see any cheating…
Sure what happened to FL is pitiful. The BF was a jackass to boot and she needs a fresh start.
Don't want to compare your personal experiences to what the FL did BUT what you did is remotely not what the FL did. You blew off steam like most normal people would.
My point is just not about cheating, that's the minor one. At this point it can even be justified from her POV. Whether it is ok or not boils down to personal look into lifestyle. The whole getting drunk, crying in front of a stranger and trying to have him does not sit right with me. Before the jackass down below @ma sha who made it personal, sex of the person does not come into picture. You get silly drunk and end up in strange place next day - you need help, irrespective of man or woman.
Her whole way of going about it & her attitude the next day with the ML & her back and forth with her BF - sorry not my cup of tea.
To the jackass @ma sha, man or woman, your choices should not depend on what others do to you. You make your choices irrespective of what your partner did. If your partner shagged a donkey does not mean you must shag one too,
Yes all those complaining about FL cheating is starting to hit a nerve with me, as a woman I don’t see any cheating…
Thats why a gender reversal is important,
A guy on rebound, fondles a girl, forces himself on her & the girl escapes due to circumstances. Next day, the guy thinking he had sex with that girl, tells her to forget what happened.
Yes all those complaining about FL cheating is starting to hit a nerve with me, as a woman I don’t see any cheating…
Yeah, nothing happened, not because of FL lack of trying but because the ML is a nice fella. missing the bigger point here. She was willing & threw herself at a random guy and tried everything to bonk him.
Gender reversal is important since it will drive home the point of what FL did is very unsavory. Why would you excuse a girl for the same thing you would trash a guy?
Yes all those complaining about FL cheating is starting to hit a nerve with me, as a woman I don’t see any cheating…
How about having sex with a guy after fondling for a long time? Would that constitute cheating? That's basically what happens in Ep1.
It's hard to respect choice of a person who gets drunk senseless and try to bonk a random guy.
Make a gender reversal here.
if the ML on rebound, drunk senseless, molests the FL, then proceeds to forcibly have sex with her. Next day he tells her to forget all about it and get all rude with her.....Would we be having the same conversation or would we discussing how much of a douche the ML is.
both Step mother & mother need a lot of growing up.Having said that, in spite of the crap the step mother keeps…
I am slandering both mom and step-mom. Step mom is not likable, I have repeatedly stated that. Dandan's dad should get a divorce, no disagreement there. That's not what I am disagreeing on.
My single point of disagreement was who did worse to Dandan.
Imagine her Trauma when Dandan learns her mom abandoned her. nothing her step-mom did would even come close to how Dandan would feel at that point.
both Step mother & mother need a lot of growing up.Having said that, in spite of the crap the step mother keeps…
Dandan should be absolutely pissed at her step-mom. he step-mom is a selfish, crude, rude person.
Even knowing all those facts, they all pale to what Dandan real mom abandoning her.
We are comparing two people who have done bad to Dandan. Her feeling hurt by her Step-mom did is perfectly normal and justified.
That's not what we are discussing, we are talking about who from Dandan POV has hurt her more.
in fact if her real mom did not abandon her, Dandan would not even have a step-mom in first place. What ever misery Dandan went through, it is all caused by her mom abandoning her.
both Step mother & mother need a lot of growing up.Having said that, in spite of the crap the step mother keeps…
Sorry to disagree, but whatever step-mom did pales in comparison to abandoning Dandan.
May be it's just my strong belief but if some one abandons their new born, they are just very very very bad. Anna's redemption arc is much much tougher than Step-moms.
Yeah, try justifying to an abandoned child why she was abandoned. In fact knowing that she was abandoned by her mom would crush Dandan more than anything her step-mom did. Worse Dandan would feel mightily guilty at some of things she said in anger to her step-mom & all of this is at the feet of her real mom not Step-mom. Dandan believes that step-mom was the reason her real mom left. Want to imagine how crushing it would be for her to know the truth?
both Step mother & mother need a lot of growing up.Having said that, in spite of the crap the step mother keeps…
Let me put it this way,
If Dandan's father abandoned her & his wife immediately after she was born would we still be saying the same thing? Would we be understanding of his circumstances about leaving his wife and daughter? Would we be saying, he is a nice guy, let's give him benefit of doubt? That guy who was absent from FL life for 26 years deserves our sympathy and empathy while the mother and daughter were struggling?
Now imagine a guy steps in, took care of her and her daughter. He was selfish, had negative things going on for him but he was there for the mother and daughter - even it was for his own selfish reasons. Who do you think he is a better person for Dandan? Her dad who abandoned her or the step-dad who is rude, selfish but was there for her when they needed him the most?
Step-mom did numerous selfish things but she also took care of her, wiped her, fed her. She did bad things but she also did good things. The mom though was just not there.
This does not mean I am justifying what the step-mom did. We are comparing two people wrt Dandan, that's it and the relative good and bad they have done for her.
both Step mother & mother need a lot of growing up.Having said that, in spite of the crap the step mother keeps…
Not making excuses.
Have already said how bad the step-mom is.
BUT
From the FL pov, when she learns the truth about how she was abandoned by her mom, she would be devastated. There are probably few things worse than being unwanted by your own mother.
And let's not light of 'being there'. There are also few things more important than being there for another person.
the Step-mom needs lot of growing up, no doubt. At this moment, the only thing she has an edge over the real mom is the fact that without her, FL and dad would not have survived. And no matter how bad she was, nothing she has done is worse than what the real mom did to her own daughter.
Look, the growth for these 2 women will definitely happen.
Don't mind the new guy being introduced since it would add to ML getting jealous, which in a way can be pretty much considering he is 41 going on 22.
Since he will have a 'noona' romance, writers can make it as cute as they want since the guy is not 41 anymore in his head.
Did the ML female friend just tell FL that the guy is a virgin?
It was hilarious & disturbing at the same time.
How does this girl know the ML sexual activities? Does the ML call up this girl each night and say 'guess what, I did not sleep with a girl tonight as well'. Or may be he took a celibacy oath in front of the girl.
Do the Cdrama writers think out of their bottoms when writing such things into the drama?
The FL getting together with ML after that makes her look shallow.
If the ML has a past or has been with many girls, does that make him unfit for being her boyfriend?
This coming from a girl who would get pissed drunk every other week and some times tries to pick up random man to sleep with. Or go to swimming pool with her friend, ogle at half naked guys and rate them.
Feisty FL & an unwavering ML. Nice chemistry between the leads and enough drama.
Wouldn't consider it a love triangle as long as leads are true to each other & they don't directly or indirectly encourage second leads to pursue them.
The ML is now younger than the FL, at least in his mind.
It would be funny him trying to hit on a girl older to him.
And the SFL would have no chance, she would be like an aunt to him at his mental age.
Get the feeling the Amnesic ML will again fall for the FL, in spite of people trying to separate them.
The BF was a jackass to boot and she needs a fresh start.
Don't want to compare your personal experiences to what the FL did BUT what you did is remotely not what the FL did. You blew off steam like most normal people would.
My point is just not about cheating, that's the minor one. At this point it can even be justified from her POV. Whether it is ok or not boils down to personal look into lifestyle.
The whole getting drunk, crying in front of a stranger and trying to have him does not sit right with me.
Before the jackass down below @ma sha who made it personal, sex of the person does not come into picture.
You get silly drunk and end up in strange place next day - you need help, irrespective of man or woman.
Her whole way of going about it & her attitude the next day with the ML & her back and forth with her BF - sorry not my cup of tea.
To the jackass @ma sha, man or woman, your choices should not depend on what others do to you.
You make your choices irrespective of what your partner did. If your partner shagged a donkey does not mean you must shag one too,
Carry on with your personal abuse.
A guy on rebound, fondles a girl, forces himself on her & the girl escapes due to circumstances. Next day, the guy thinking he had sex with that girl, tells her to forget what happened.
Let me see you defend the guy.
missing the bigger point here. She was willing & threw herself at a random guy and tried everything to bonk him.
Gender reversal is important since it will drive home the point of what FL did is very unsavory. Why would you excuse a girl for the same thing you would trash a guy?
Who does that to her own daughter for money!
Feel sorry for the ML sister, she is a pure soul being trashed around by circumstances.
Would that constitute cheating? That's basically what happens in Ep1.
It's hard to respect choice of a person who gets drunk senseless and try to bonk a random guy.
Make a gender reversal here.
if the ML on rebound, drunk senseless, molests the FL, then proceeds to forcibly have sex with her. Next day he tells her to forget all about it and get all rude with her.....Would we be having the same conversation or would we discussing how much of a douche the ML is.
Step mom is not likable, I have repeatedly stated that.
Dandan's dad should get a divorce, no disagreement there. That's not what I am disagreeing on.
My single point of disagreement was who did worse to Dandan.
Imagine her Trauma when Dandan learns her mom abandoned her. nothing her step-mom did would even come close to how Dandan would feel at that point.
he step-mom is a selfish, crude, rude person.
Even knowing all those facts, they all pale to what Dandan real mom abandoning her.
We are comparing two people who have done bad to Dandan.
Her feeling hurt by her Step-mom did is perfectly normal and justified.
That's not what we are discussing,
we are talking about who from Dandan POV has hurt her more.
in fact if her real mom did not abandon her, Dandan would not even have a step-mom in first place.
What ever misery Dandan went through, it is all caused by her mom abandoning her.
but whatever step-mom did pales in comparison to abandoning Dandan.
May be it's just my strong belief but if some one abandons their new born, they are just very very very bad.
Anna's redemption arc is much much tougher than Step-moms.
Yeah, try justifying to an abandoned child why she was abandoned. In fact knowing that she was abandoned by her mom would crush Dandan more than anything her step-mom did.
Worse Dandan would feel mightily guilty at some of things she said in anger to her step-mom & all of this is at the feet of her real mom not Step-mom. Dandan believes that step-mom was the reason her real mom left. Want to imagine how crushing it would be for her to know the truth?
If Dandan's father abandoned her & his wife immediately after she was born would we still be saying the same thing?
Would we be understanding of his circumstances about leaving his wife and daughter?
Would we be saying, he is a nice guy, let's give him benefit of doubt? That guy who was absent from FL life for 26 years deserves our sympathy and empathy while the mother and daughter were struggling?
Now imagine a guy steps in, took care of her and her daughter. He was selfish, had negative things going on for him but he was there for the mother and daughter - even it was for his own selfish reasons.
Who do you think he is a better person for Dandan? Her dad who abandoned her or the step-dad who is rude, selfish but was there for her when they needed him the most?
Step-mom did numerous selfish things but she also took care of her, wiped her, fed her. She did bad things but she also did good things.
The mom though was just not there.
This does not mean I am justifying what the step-mom did.
We are comparing two people wrt Dandan, that's it and the relative good and bad they have done for her.
Have already said how bad the step-mom is.
BUT
From the FL pov, when she learns the truth about how she was abandoned by her mom, she would be devastated.
There are probably few things worse than being unwanted by your own mother.
And let's not light of 'being there'. There are also few things more important than being there for another person.
the Step-mom needs lot of growing up, no doubt.
At this moment, the only thing she has an edge over the real mom is the fact that without her, FL and dad would not have survived.
And no matter how bad she was, nothing she has done is worse than what the real mom did to her own daughter.
Look, the growth for these 2 women will definitely happen.
Let's also be honest about the woman who dumped her newborn in hands of her husband to satisfy her own ambition.