That's all well fine...The point people are making is simple and pointed.'ML is putting in efforts to make up…
Your first line starts with implying people here misogynistic.
And there is nothing in your post that asks the writers to make dramas more sensible and balanced. Things like 'FL knows what happened to ML' or 'FL loves ML' matters for nothing. It's actions that always speak, words are cheap. FL talks big but zero action. Who cares for words when actions speak opposite?!
In case you failed to comprehend it, most people are asking for character growth of not just ML but also the FL. The history of Kdramas and the way it is progressing in this one as well, it is only ML is making all the amends & FL is just a queen who is never wrong or does not need to do shit like making ML's feelings better.
THAT was the single point most people are pointing at.
This comment section reeks of misogynistic mindsets and so many people are only taking things at face value and…
That's all well fine...
The point people are making is simple and pointed.
'ML is putting in efforts to make up for his errors and short-comings. FL is doing nothing to make up much bigger errors and short-comings'
That's it. That's the whole point people are making. No matter what happened and who is in error etc etc, in Kdramas, it's only the ML's putting in the efforts and the FL will be the strong woman who can't ever be shown to be doing silly things ML is doing to make things right.
People find it duplicitous that the writer is making the bigger victim, the ML crawl on all fours to appease FL, while the princes is not even thinking on the shit she pulled in the relationship. THAT is worst writing. It basically is saying, no matter what, the FL's in kdramas never need to reflect or change. They are perfect as they are and nothing they do will have any consequences for them.
ML provoked her! Unless we are watching different drama, the amount of public disrespect as well as private humiliation ML went through makes his anger and provocation justified. If genders were switched, you would never be saying FL should be quietly taking the disrespect and abuse from her husband and his family.
nah i also dislike how the writer tortures ML more by making her lose her memory 🥲 at the epilogue there's…
I have no such hopes. There has not been a Kdrama in last 5 years where FL was actually made to work to win over ML. In fact, there is not a drama where the FL is shown to be even a little sorry for what she did to ML.
This aint going to be different.
The disease of FL is the crutch writer is going use to divert our attention from everything ML went through and make him do the crawling.
The lack of empathy towards hyunwoo character from majority audience is so sickening. They keep excusing fl behavior,…
If not for her disease, FL would come across as the villain.
She even has her ex-boyfriend tagging along with her as her business partner that ML was never comfortable and could not even voice because the FL stopped treating him like a husband.
This is not right, Everything was good between them, After the miscarriage everything fell apart, The only thing…
I would have rooted for FL if the writers make both the ML and FL reflect what went wrong and both worked to make amends.
Alas, it looks like there is only ML that will be crawling and making amends.
Out of the two of them, the bigger victim was always the ML. If not for the disease of FL, she would have no leg to stand on what she and her family did to ML.
Just reverse the genders and you would be rooting for the women who has been neglected and abused by her in-laws, not the man who claims he loves her but never shows it when she is suffering,
At this point rooting for FL to die and ML to escape the whole toxic family including the FL and find some other woman.
There does not seem to any reflection from FL and with the memory loss and track of Kdramas where 'the FL is never wrong & the only one crawling is ML' formulae, it seems like FL will never reflect what she and her family did to ML.
The writers will use FL disease to ensure the ML crawls on every joint to make it up to a woman who does not deserve him.
well technically the employer isnt giving the work they agreed she was hired for. she never applied for marketing…
It does not matter.
Any employee acting up after getting their first job will be fired. Any employee acting up after entering a new company, even with lot of experience would be fired.
It is red flag if you are happy about your wife illness and praying for her death . People can have flaw but out…
I doubt anyone here is denying FL having her own set of issues and challenges.
Point was about ML dealing his own set of issues and challenges.
You are talking as if FL was the only one who lost the child, the ML did as well. The drama makes it a point to show it devastated both of them in different ways.
The only negative thing ML did was to be happy about FL death. That's a morbid thought and the drama shows why his thoughts went there.
Now start thinking about what the ML is going through every day of his life in FL's house and working with FL in office. Unless we are watching a different drama, it is pretty apparent that he is leading a pathetic life with very chance of escape.
Her whole interaction with the male business partner leaves a lot to be desired. You can simply see how disrespectful she was to her husband to the point the ML stopped believing she indeed still thinks of him as her husband.
You only talked about the FL plusses but fail to mention the hard work ML puts in for the company and contributes to it's success numerous times.
Again, not saying what ML thoughts on FL weren't shitty. Point was, he had good reasons to think like that. Does not make it right but neither does what his wife and her family are putting him through.
Typical Kdrama writing.They must surround FL with multiple men, makes the drama spicier.It's revolting watching…
FL comes across as stupid because of Kdrama writers wanting FL to be pawed at multiple men. There seem to viewers who like the FL be sexualized by multiple men and it sells in Kdramas.
Unfortunately this kind of stupid writing causes chaos in FL's character.
FL is shown as introverted and smart. So, she should never be comfortable with the other guy but because the writers want to sell the drama, so they write these kind of scenes and the FL comes across as bit of trashy.
It is red flag if you are happy about your wife illness and praying for her death . People can have flaw but out…
I suppose he should just wish her best of health so that she and her family treat him like shit for rest of his life without chance of escape.
the FL can continue to treat him like crap in front of everyone. She can also discuss her sex life with her new buddy who she spends more quality time than her husband Oh oh..her family practically is killing him in front of her and what does she do?
I guess because he is Kdrama ML he must love the FL unconditionally since that is the only option for Kdrama ML, no matter how shitty the FL is..
Oh yeah, we are supposed to believe that the FL loves ML a lot since she claims so, even after we see her apathy and insults repeatedly. Because that's what love is and that's how we show it.
If the genders were reversed and ML was treating FL like that, we would be demanding ML crawl on his bum to make it up to the FL.
This drama is good because it does not completely sugarcoat what's happening to ML and FL.
And there is nothing in your post that asks the writers to make dramas more sensible and balanced.
Things like 'FL knows what happened to ML' or 'FL loves ML' matters for nothing. It's actions that always speak, words are cheap. FL talks big but zero action. Who cares for words when actions speak opposite?!
In case you failed to comprehend it, most people are asking for character growth of not just ML but also the FL.
The history of Kdramas and the way it is progressing in this one as well, it is only ML is making all the amends & FL is just a queen who is never wrong or does not need to do shit like making ML's feelings better.
THAT was the single point most people are pointing at.
Especially since he is crawling on his bum making up..
FL on the other hand is like a queen who does not begin to think the shit she did to the ML
The point people are making is simple and pointed.
'ML is putting in efforts to make up for his errors and short-comings.
FL is doing nothing to make up much bigger errors and short-comings'
That's it. That's the whole point people are making.
No matter what happened and who is in error etc etc, in Kdramas, it's only the ML's putting in the efforts and the FL will be the strong woman who can't ever be shown to be doing silly things ML is doing to make things right.
People find it duplicitous that the writer is making the bigger victim, the ML crawl on all fours to appease FL, while the princes is not even thinking on the shit she pulled in the relationship.
THAT is worst writing.
It basically is saying, no matter what, the FL's in kdramas never need to reflect or change. They are perfect as they are and nothing they do will have any consequences for them.
ML provoked her! Unless we are watching different drama, the amount of public disrespect as well as private humiliation ML went through makes his anger and provocation justified. If genders were switched, you would never be saying FL should be quietly taking the disrespect and abuse from her husband and his family.
If anything, your post reeks of misandry.
ML too should find some other girls to shag around.
And the writers have a chance to show her growth where she realizes the person she loves deserves a lot more from her.
Still waiting on FL to do some gestures herself rather than taking ML's love for her granted and abuse it.
Wish I could draw a diagram to explain better.
most romance centric Kdrama ML's are like these now a days.
No wonder everyone puts their used underwear in his mouth.
jeez, grow a pair.
There has not been a Kdrama in last 5 years where FL was actually made to work to win over ML.
In fact, there is not a drama where the FL is shown to be even a little sorry for what she did to ML.
This aint going to be different.
The disease of FL is the crutch writer is going use to divert our attention from everything ML went through and make him do the crawling.
She even has her ex-boyfriend tagging along with her as her business partner that ML was never comfortable and could not even voice because the FL stopped treating him like a husband.
Alas, it looks like there is only ML that will be crawling and making amends.
Out of the two of them, the bigger victim was always the ML.
If not for the disease of FL, she would have no leg to stand on what she and her family did to ML.
Just reverse the genders and you would be rooting for the women who has been neglected and abused by her in-laws, not the man who claims he loves her but never shows it when she is suffering,
There does not seem to any reflection from FL and with the memory loss and track of Kdramas where 'the FL is never wrong & the only one crawling is ML' formulae, it seems like FL will never reflect what she and her family did to ML.
The writers will use FL disease to ensure the ML crawls on every joint to make it up to a woman who does not deserve him.
Any employee acting up after getting their first job will be fired.
Any employee acting up after entering a new company, even with lot of experience would be fired.
but boy the FL's behavior in workplace is pure fantasy.
In real life she would be fired in less than a day.
Point was about ML dealing his own set of issues and challenges.
You are talking as if FL was the only one who lost the child, the ML did as well. The drama makes it a point to show it devastated both of them in different ways.
The only negative thing ML did was to be happy about FL death. That's a morbid thought and the drama shows why his thoughts went there.
Now start thinking about what the ML is going through every day of his life in FL's house and working with FL in office.
Unless we are watching a different drama, it is pretty apparent that he is leading a pathetic life with very chance of escape.
Her whole interaction with the male business partner leaves a lot to be desired. You can simply see how disrespectful she was to her husband to the point the ML stopped believing she indeed still thinks of him as her husband.
You only talked about the FL plusses but fail to mention the hard work ML puts in for the company and contributes to it's success numerous times.
Again, not saying what ML thoughts on FL weren't shitty.
Point was, he had good reasons to think like that. Does not make it right but neither does what his wife and her family are putting him through.
There seem to viewers who like the FL be sexualized by multiple men and it sells in Kdramas.
Unfortunately this kind of stupid writing causes chaos in FL's character.
FL is shown as introverted and smart. So, she should never be comfortable with the other guy but because the writers want to sell the drama, so they write these kind of scenes and the FL comes across as bit of trashy.
They must surround FL with multiple men, makes the drama spicier.
It's revolting watching a married woman, who as per own claims loves her husband so much give another guy that kind of leeway.
the FL can continue to treat him like crap in front of everyone.
She can also discuss her sex life with her new buddy who she spends more quality time than her husband
Oh oh..her family practically is killing him in front of her and what does she do?
I guess because he is Kdrama ML he must love the FL unconditionally since that is the only option for Kdrama ML, no matter how shitty the FL is..
Oh yeah, we are supposed to believe that the FL loves ML a lot since she claims so, even after we see her apathy and insults repeatedly. Because that's what love is and that's how we show it.
If the genders were reversed and ML was treating FL like that, we would be demanding ML crawl on his bum to make it up to the FL.
This drama is good because it does not completely sugarcoat what's happening to ML and FL.
There is nothing like redemption for FL's. They are never wrong in the first place, no matter what.
I will bet anything it will be the ML doing all the begging and gestures.