mooc

Whenever you read a book or watch movie or drama, it needs a logical sequencing.

If ML dumps or does something to hurt FL, the story ark demands he makes amends and win the FL back.

Similarly if the FL does something bad to ML, it should be her making amends and trying to correct the wrong.

That is what we call story progression and character progress.

I don't understand the shit being shown in this drama.
Here, the FL does not even move a finger. It's basically some power fantasy where the woman is detached and only cares for her career and family & has a man who would sacrifice everything for her, even if she treats him like shit.

Why in the world would a man that good looking and that successful stay so dedicated to such a flimsy woman?
Even if he was in love, he should have tiniest bit of dignity left to explore other options. Pretty sure there would dozens who would treat this man thousand times better than the FL.

Even a brain dead moron would know by now... she would always put herself first and will dump him in future without a second thought.

Dropping this.

The drama keeps hinting that FL loves ML but her actual actions with consequences shows she cares shit for ML.

What's the point of using the word 'love' when FL does not take a single step to protect the said love or the person she loves? It just shows love is not a priority and neither the person she loves.
It's become a very common trope in Cdramas as well Kdramas. The cool FL has other priorities than love and no matter what she happens and what she does, it's always the ML who will keep chasing her.

Does it even make any sense that ML is the one chasing FL?
Wasn't FL the one who left? Shouldn't she be the one putting in the effort to win ML back?
Why would any man with half a brain ever consider chasing the woman who brutally dumped him? Looks like ML being smart is just another lip service, that guy has shit for brain.
If he really had a brain he would have found another woman who respected and treasured his love.

Story is nice. Comes as advertised.

That guy who swam a canal to catch glimpse of the beauty & seriously and proudly declaring that it's worth going to jail.....hilarious

Imagine someone saying a 30 year old woman never had a period because she was busy with studies and work and stuff.

That's exactly how all the reasons come across.

Once a boy hits puberty, the only thing he sees is boobs and more boobs. There are zero exceptions. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying.

After watching lot of Korean and Chinese drama, I am convinced that men in these 2 countries have zero sexual desires.

Same same wimpy simpy ML who would sacrifice both his testicle for the woman he loves
&
the FL is your modern woman with better priorities than being in love with the testicle sacrificing ML.

Yet another in long list of shitty Cdramas where the ML is just a toilet paper to be used and discarded by the FL.

Did not watch it, got lucky I guess.

I don't blame the actors though.
They need the money and the actors are probably more aware than the viewers about the messed up characterization of ML's.

JCW in real life can go to a club and pick his choice of women & most would happily oblige him.
He would probably be having a chuckle playing these kinds of simpy wimps in dramas.

You are asking for the sky.

There has not been a Kdrama romcom in last 3 years where the ML has explicitly shown sexual attraction to any woman other than FL.

most of them have never dated and ever looked at any woman.
The purity and virginity of Kdrama romcom ML is the only thing that matters in a Kdrama.

The Kdrama ML does not have sexual feelings. In fact they don't ever go through puberty. The only thing that happens to them is that they fall in love with FL, the kind of spiritual, all consuming, galactic, across multiple life times love....only from the ML end.

the FL though comes in multiple variations.

Some one else gets it.

She was the red flag in all her relationships.

And the garbage the writer came up with 'I only walked and ate with them'.
What kind of shit is that?
Does that mean she has zero feelings for the men she dated?
The writer wrote shit and turned it into bigger shit as the drama progressed.

And YP is by far the worst simpy wimp ML in Kdramas bar none.

And as drama progressed it becomes clear that man neglected his own dad to simp for FL.

Like I stated, it's poor writing.

What the drama shows, says and means does not match.

in Doctor Cha, there is no ML. The show centers around the FL with a cheating husband. He was a main character but to classify the husband as male lead is completely wrong.
The drama does not make excuses for the cheating husband. He was portrayed as trash. In fact the husband was a top grade Ahole and the drama makes sure the viewers know exactly what he is.

When we talk about ML's, let's not start pretending we don't know what we are talking about.

wow..another very original unsolicited advise.
So many of them in a single day. I am weeping like ML of this drama at the incredible concern shown for me...
booohooo...

who will tell this dear that both ML and FL are fictitious, made up by the writer....

Anyhow, just like everyone else, you did not take the challenge.
Guess, I will need to keep waiting for someone to take the challenge and let me know of a single drama where the ML dated bunch of woman & the FL was madly in love with ML and never looked at any other man.

upset, sure, like when you see some one shitting on the street, you get upset...that kind of upset.

I do get rest of your post though.
How men actually are in real life being inverted in Kdramas does make for a different take.& it can be charming as well.
Don't get me wrong, few years back I actually liked dramas with these kinds of ML's. One of my fav drama ever was 'what's wrong with secretary Kim' and it still remains my fav.
But it was long back & those times Kdramas had a lot of variety.
Now, every drama you start, it's the same ML staring at you.

More than anything, that's my main complaint.
you pick any drama, especially romance genre, this is the only ML you will find.

Just saying, yet another person who seems to have read my post and agrees with everything.

Since they have no point to counter, they just get offended and start giving free advises.

I think you lot need to get ready.
am pretty much convinced I will be poking fun of every future drama with similar virgin ML's.
I promise you that we will have a lot of fun with my posts.

It's the other way around dear.

They have made the drama for public consumption.
When public consumes something, they will review it and give their opinions.
That's how it works for each and everything in public life. From products we consume to politicians we vote for. Everything and everyone in public sphere is reviewed and opinions freely shared.
Pretty sure this concept is not unique or new to educated people....unless you are a North Korean.

Instead of asking public to stop giving their opinions, you should ask the writers to stop making these shitty dramas...

democracy 101 dear.

point taken.

I love the second-hand embarrassment, whether giving or receiving.

Guess, I should continue.

Don't know why people say 'I won't be replying'...I mean, just don't reply, why announce it to the world? It's not like someone is holding a gun to your head to reply...