moonfolk

I am a Lanlan fan. So far I just called Duoduo as Ailin, because I just like her just like how I like the other girls (even liking Wang Jue now) and not her fan, unlike how I call Rulan as Lanlan. I just defended her from unfair attacks, maybe too many times, that even it made some people thought that I am her fan because of that.

But after watching Episode 7 Part 3, especially the scene when Duoduo saw Yuan's face changed and fell silent realizing that Lechen's doll was a pair with Duoduo's, she offered to Yuan to swap their dolls without hesitation, and then what she said to Yuan in Yuan's room, I am very impressed and become her fan. She's amazing! I am now a Duoduo fan, while also still a Lanlan fan.

I don't mean that you must only like one person and can't move or like another person. I mean that if you have a mutual approach or if you approach A and A reciprocates, but along with time you then interested in B, then you have to tell A directly to end the bond/relationship first, and not just moving to B without ending it properly with A first. You have to tell directly and clearly to A so A will know and understand the situation. Like you tell A directly "I feel that we're connected from the beginning. But along the time I think that we're more fitted as good friends" or "I wanted to know you from the start, but now I also wanted to know B more. I am sorry."

That's with the premise that you approach someone and that person reciprocates, or vice versa, someone approaches you and you reciprocate. You're not forbidden to like another person. You just have to end it first properly and directly to avoid misunderstanding before you move to another person. No hints, no letter, or any indirect ways, it should be direct and clear. You have to have responsibility for your action. If you dare to start then you have to dare also to end it, and do it properly.

Or if it's too much / difficult for "that MBTI" to be direct then the production crews can prepare some means to help, like if you're interested in someone then you can put your picture/token in your love interest's locker (A) so A can knows about it if you want to tell them. So it's still a secret and only A knows about it. And if you change and become interested in B then you can take back your picture/token from A's locker and put it in B's locker. But you must do it before you approach B. You must end it first with A. No playing or putting your feet in two boats. And if A comes to you and asks for an explanation then you have to tell the reason why. That way A will know and understand that you want to end the bond/relationship and why you're not interested in A anymore. So you don't have to come directly to A but still have to give an explanation if A comes to you. Or maybe another way. Whatever it is, it should be fair and proper for the person that is rejected.

It's different matter if it's only one way approach. Like you approach A and A doesn't reciprocate or give a clear response, and then you like B after that, then you don't have to tell A about it since there is no bond/relationship formed between you and A.

I hope this can make it clearer of what I want/wish for the next season.

Same with you, I also admire those who like only one person from the beginning to the end. Too bad that not all of them will get a happy ending.

Yes, it started at S6 to give chance for the participants to leave if they feel that they don't fit in there anymore. This is just my guess but maybe it's because of Jin Jiayue's situation in S5, or maybe I am just overthinking and they just wanted to add something new.

Because in the end, they have to choose someone to confess on the confession day. So it's either confess to someone that already rejected them, or confess to someone that you're not interested in.

He must suffered quite a lot. Heartbroken because of the rejection but also had to see the girl that he liked heartbroken by the person that she liked. We can see how downcast he was when he was talking with Jue.

And as he said to Jue, that he only wants the best or he doesn't want it at all, and so he left.

They did that in S6, adding 2 people to replace Li Yujiao, which was a blessing in disguise for Hou Zhuocheng, and because of that he got the legendary Yang Ruqing. But Li Yujiao left early so they still had time to replace her. It's hard though to replace someone who left quite late like Rui Long or Cheng Jingqi or Liu Yufan.

I wish that they can add a new rule next season, that if you approach someone and that person reciprocates, then you must tell the other person directly and end the relationship first properly before moving to another person/interest. The same also for the person that reciprocates someone's approach and wants to move to another person/interest. That will prevent any unpleasant mess and controversy, and it's also a decent way and manner. This is Chinese Heart Signal anyway, not the Korean Heart Signal that want and will love to have a lot of dramas and even doesn't hesitate to do manipulation.

But it's just a waste of time for them if they don't have interest in the rest of the participants. They won't get any screentime anyway because there will be nothing that's interesting for the PD to show. And some of them have to go for a long distance and time from the house/cabin to their workplaces.

Yuan's father should be remarry or she lives with a foster mother, but most probably it's the first case, so who she was initially intended to bring/invite should be her stepmother. Yuan said that her stepmother cares a lot about her in every aspect of her life, so I guess maybe that's why her stepmother was the first that came to her mind.

Something strange happened to me lately. Yesterday I order for food delivery and the name of the driver is Keh Ai Lin! And today, I just know that the name of the singer of my most fav OST "See You When Spring Flowers Bloom", from one of my most fav dramas "Twelve Letters", is DOUDOU!!

Maybe because that I always defended Ailin that now she revolved around me. She delivered food and sang for me. That's crazy 🤣🤣🤣

Yeah, after being spoiled with S6 and S7, this season doesn't feel the same. Even S4 feels better for me.

I just checked it and it's working. Maybe you typed the wrong address? Or maybe the site was down at that time. Try it again and it should work. I usually watch it on WeTV (VIP) so I am not sure whether I can recommend it since you have to pay😁

Didn't I say already that she actually understood the hints and signs? Some people trying to defend Lechen and blame shifting it to her, either it's by questioning why she couldn't take the hints, or why she's asking Jiao to deliver the message and not directly go to Lechen, or it's because of her personality and demanding it the way that she wanted.

I explained her situation, and why what Lechen did was not proper and decent, and why she did what she did, and also asked if the same situation happens to you as I asked you to imagine, will you actually also do the same thing like her, or will you agree with what Lechen did, only giving you hints and not giving you a proper talk, and only accept it? Will you want to be treated like how Lechen treated Ailin?

So yeah, we are just going to have to agree to disagree.

I feel like I am a parrot, repeating the same comment over and over again 😂 And it's the third with you, so I will just copy paste parts from my reply to the first and second person.

If it's only one way approach like what Yuan did (which Lechen only accepted) then you can justify what Lechen did. Like what he did to reject Wang Jue by giving hints, since Wang Jue's was only one way approach.

Someone even questioned why Ailin couldn't take hints from Lechen. But what happened between Ailin and Lechen was two way approach. Not only Ailin that approached him, but he was also the one that proactively approached Ailin. So it should be for him to have a face to face talk with Ailin. Because indeed that Ailin took the hints and signs that she wanted to have a proper face to face talk, so she could be clear about what happened, what's the reason, and other things in her mind. Their relationship formed from the initiation from both sides. So no excuse for Lechen to just ignoring Ailin that was waiting downstairs. Even if he didn't want to come down and talk to Ailin, he should at least ask for Jiao to deliver his message to Ailin, not just ignoring her. Ailin even went upstairs to ask Jiao, and she could see clearly how Jiao was looking back to Lechen before trying to find excuses for him, and that Lechen was just listening without any courage or manner to come out and talk to Ailin. That's why she's so disappointed and unhappy and cried.

It's a relationship formed from both sides, and that's why it's only proper to end it with face to face talk if he wanted to end it with Ailin, not just by throwing hints. He even hopped to Yuan before he ended it properly with Ailin.

Imagine if someone approaches you and you reciprocate, but then suddenly that person is close with another opposite sex and avoids you and just giving hints, and just asks someone to talk it to you, and not giving a proper talk to you when you want a clarity, and even just hopping to another person before end it properly with you, how will you feel? Will you just accept it and thinking "Oh well, the hints are there, okay that's fine"? Or will you want to have a face to face talk? I myself will definitely want to have a face to face talk. Not mentioning to end it with good term, even with face to face talk, things still can ends up badly, not mentioning if that person just avoids and doesn't give proper conclusion to end the relationship. It's not about wanting/demanding thing because of her personality, it's about a proper and decent way and manner to talk things out, either it's to fix things or ends the relationship. Look at the context and whole picture, not just a scene.

I don't think Lechen ever told Ailin that he's not the type to do that. Can you please remind me on which episode and scene that he told Ailin about that? And even if Lechen is not the type to do that, it's still not appropriate. And he actually understood Ailin, he even agreed about Ailin wanted to be directly told when Lanlan confronted him because of the conversation in the car. So no excuse that Lechen didn't understand Ailin, IMO.

If it's only one way approach like what Yuan did (which Lechen only accepted) then you can justify what he did. Like what he did to reject Wang Jue by giving hints, since Wang Jue's was only one way approach.

Someone even questioned why Ailin couldn't take hints from Lechen. But what happened between Ailin and Lechen was two way approach. Not only Ailin that approached him, but he was also the one that proactively approached Ailin. So it should be for him to have a face to face talk with Ailin. Because indeed that Ailin took the hints and signs that she wanted to have a proper face to face talk, so she could be clear about what happened, what's the reason, and other things in her mind. Their relationship formed from the initiation from both sides. So no excuse for Lechen to just ignoring Ailin that was waiting downstairs. Even if he didn't want to come down and talk to Ailin, he should at least ask for Jiao to deliver his message to Ailin, not just ignoring her. Ailin even went upstairs to ask Jiao, and she could see clearly how Jiao was looking back to Lechen before trying to find excuses for him, and that Lechen was just listening without any courage or manner to come out and talk to Ailin. That's why she's so disappointed and unhappy and cried.

It's a relationship formed from both sides, and that's why it's only proper to end it with face to face talk if he wanted to end it with Ailin, not just by throwing hints. He even hopped to Yuan before he ended it properly with Ailin.

In my opinion, it's actually because indeed that she took the hints and signs that she wanted to have a clarity with Lechen face to face. Remember that their attraction and approach were mutual. It's different with Lu Yuan that was only one way approach (and Lechen only accepted). Between Ailin and Lechen, it's two way approach. They approached each other and had been intimate for quite some time before the train date invitation from Lu Yuan to Lechen.

But suddenly he changed and Ailin felt that. She already asked for clarity once before when she asked Lechen to make a choice for her second card for dating proposal. Lechen didn't want to give a clear answer. Now when she asked him to have a talk with walking the dog as an excuse so they could have a face to face talk, Lechen again avoided it. Since they had mutual approach and it's two way one, it's normal and understandable for Ailin to want a face to face talk. So she could understand what actually happened, what the reason etc. If they could fix it then they could try to fix it, and if they had to end it then they could end it in a proper and decent way.

It's different matter if it's only one way approach like what happened between Lu Yuan and Lechen. Though maybe someone will still say that he's a coward or whatever, he can use this way to reject her. Like what he did to reject Wang Jue by giving hints. But he's actually also the active one who approached Ailin before. So hints and signs are not a proper way to reject Ailin. He must give a clarity. And what he did was even more annoying, considering that Yuhang, who was more passive and many people looking at with one eye thinking that he's like Muchen, actually was more braver than Lechen, rejecting Yifan face to face three times in a row in the train date and he did it with quite consideration to Yifan's feelings trying not to hurt her too much.

Yes, Ailin was asking Jiao to deliver the message. But Lechen didn't come down nor ask Jiao to deliver his message to Ailin. He's literally ignoring Ailin who's waiting downstair. And remember, Ailin then came upstair to ask Jiao about it, and she could see how Jiao was looking back to Lechen and then trying to find excuses for Lechen, with Lechen only listening without any courage or manner to come out and talk with Ailin.

It's not about Ailin's persistence. It's about having a proper talk to conclude things and giving clarity, not just by throwing hints, considering how their relationship formed before this. It's about the manner.

Imagine if someone approaches you and you reciprocate, but then suddenly that person is close with another opposite sex and avoids you and just giving hints, and just asks someone to talk it to you, and not giving a proper talk to you when you want a clarity, and even just hopping to another person before end it properly with you, how will you feel? Will you just accept it and thinking "Oh well, the hints are there, okay that's fine", and then you just blame it to your persistence? Or will you want to have a face to face talk? I myself will definitely want to have a face to face talk. Not mentioning to end it with good term, even with face to face talk, things still can ends up badly, not mentioning if that person just avoids and doesn't give proper conclusion to end the relationship. So what Lechen did was not a good and proper thing. And that what caused the great dissatisfaction from many people. Look at the context and whole picture, not just a scene.

Well, the preview showed us that Ailin and Lechen will have conversation in next episode. So let's hope that they can conclude it properly. It's Ailin's feelings and choice, but if I can decide for her, I will actually choose for her to end it with Lechen. With what I saw from him in what the show showed to us so far, especially what he said in the car conversation and what he did in recent episodes, I don't see a chance that he can have a long-term relationship, even with Yuan as I mentioned once in my another comment. Maybe just 1-2 years and then break up with Yuan, like what happened with Zhang Genyuan and Li Nieshuangyu. If i am proved wrong then I will be happy for them, it's a good thing anyway, but I predict that Leyuan won't have a long-term relationship. The problem is not in Yuan but with Lechen's view that he will only choose and not adjust, how he will accept it willingly if his relationship ends, and how he handles things. I even more afraid that there will be a plot twist and that Ailin and Lechen will actually end up together.

My guess is that "Let's Fall in Love" last season has low rating/viewers, and that's why it's discontinued. I don't know, that's just my guess. Same with "Yes, I Do" from iQIYI. But the return of Twinkle Love maybe is a good sign. As dating show lovers, we can just hope that they'll be resurrected.

Anyway, I am sure that we'll get news as soon as there is a sign for it. We have Luffy here as the bringer of news 😂

Yeah it's a surprise😊 Hopefully it'll be good and they can reduce any scandal potential or even eliminate it.

I understand your frustration. I just hope those people can refrain themselves and have more self control. It's sad for me to see people like those. But don't let those people affect you negatively. Just continue to support your cp or the participant that you like positively, without dragging or shading other participants negatively. Cheers.

Sorry, but where in this comment section said that Lechen is a red flag? Seems that I passed it if there is any. What I see is actually some people shading Ailin as a red flag, and no one said Lechen is a red flag. Yes, I think there is someone that said that Lechen is a coward, but doesn't it the same that some people said Ailin is this and Ailin is that negatively, and even not just one person? Mostly what I see is some people disagree with Lechen and some people disagree with Ailin. And I think that's normal. Everyone has their own preferences.

Not only the viewers. Even the participants have different preferences. Just like how Lanlan and Zihan expressed their disagreement with Lechen's view and can understand Ailin's view in the "Watching Episode 5 (Part 2)". Even Lechen was flabbergasted by what he said himself in the car about "I think adults only choose, not adjust." and felt embarrased. A remark that made Lanlan "fiery" and asked for a pause to express her thinking, and Zihan said that what Lechen said was harsh.

So where is this "Lechen is a red flag" coming from? So weird!!! And for Yifan, Ruilong, Zihan, and Jiao, there are already some people already expressed their thought and support for them. It's just that this comment section is dominated with the comments for Ailin and Lechen. Even when it's mentioned that Yuan is hated, actually there is only a few that talk about Yuan here, and they talked about Yuan's smile or how they support Yuan.

If you're talking about people in Weibo or other social medias, please don't lash out here. Or make it clear that you're talking about people in other medias, so it won't cause confusion and misunderstanding because of the accusation for the people in this comment section.

This is good news for dating show lovers. I thought that they'll be discontinued because of the news out there. It's good to see it back ❤️ Thanks for telling this news!😊

If you're scared, then I think you mean scared of getting BE, not HE? 😁