moonfolk

I am also not making/writing something though, my friend, so let's agree to disagree since we can't have agreement.

I won't refute it because what you said is true, it had a domino effect.

I hope that you'll find enjoyment when watching the Chinese dating shows :) Especially recommended are Chinese Heart Signal S2 and S6.

He somehow took the role of "catfish" in this show. not YJ that came later. But how can he's in the wrong? He didn't approach any of them except Choa until now. Other people's wavered hearts were because of they're attracted to him, not like he's trying to get their hearts.

BTW, if you don't mind to try, if you want a lighthearted/heartwarming watch of dating show, try Chinese dating shows. Never ever expect it from Korean ones.

My friend, I watched it again as you suggested but I saw different things from what you saw. He never blamed Choa for the reason. He only mentioned that he noticed their differences. Choa asked him if they could make adjustment for their differences. Yong Woo told her about the attraction that didn't grow stronger/bigger and the reason why. He mostly talked about himself and never blame Choa. He even explicitly said "I don't think it's your fault. This situation simply came from my thoughts." that implied the problem lied with him, not her.

And I didn't find he said or implied that "I don't like you because you don't communicate with others". Maybe your hate/dislike towards him somehow blurred your memory, my friend.

If you're looking for "no drama" dating show, then I will recommend you to watch Chinese dating shows. They're heartwarming and have less dramas, also have more lasting couples than the Korean ones. One of them even married already.

I agree with you. What I like about her is that she didn't just make assumption from what she heard, but also tried to confirm it, even not only from one side but from both sides, by going to both JS and CA to hear what they said about it.

He asked her to talk once again because he wanted to make everything clear with her. Maybe he thought that he rushed in his explanation before and could make some misunderstandings. From my point of view, he didn't say that she's the reason for his change of heart but impliedly told her that he's the reason. Because he didn't grow more attracted to her, that he's stuck, so he's the problem. So he's back to square one, the day one, when he had a bit attracted to Choa. That's what he meant with "Choa OR none" and it's none for now, no one else. He only texted her to thank about peaches just like how he texted Yoon Ha for her "advices" the day before. He already made his stance clear twice, but Choa liked to make assumption and confused herself.

Up until now EP 14, he was not interested in anyone (except maybe a bit lingering feelings for Choa). He didn't approach anyone. About Ji Won, he only said that her way of thinking was similar, that as if he's looking at his female version. Either it's his indirect confession or just a casual talk, we'll still need to confirm it in the next episodes. Don't rush to accuse him.

But I understand everyone has their own point of view based on their experiences, personality, etc. So maybe like how I can't understand your POV, maybe you also can't understand my POV. I just want to say my POV just like how you said your POV.

Her brother reaction was normal. Because he didn't know the content of the text, and also only heard stories from his sister which was full of her assumptions which later she corrected but already left very bad impression in her brother's thought.

Maybe he couldn't read the room, but he came to check YJ and seeing him like that he tried to comfort him.

And he only told her that her way of thinking was the same with him just like what he told in his interviews, indirectly. He also only told that after being asked by Jae Hyung. If Jae Hyung didn't ask him about what happened to Yong Woo, Yong Woo would never mention about it in the first place.

And IF, once again IF, he was really sneaking into Jaeji, it's allowed anyway and that's what this show wanted so much either. Drama. It's detestable to the Jaeji shippers and Yong Woo haters, but it would be what the PD most welcomed. Don't forget she's the ex PD of EXchange, and Korean shows like to have a lot of dramas, unlike their Chinese counterparts.

Choa was also wanted and happy to have the conversation, and she also said that she's relieved because she got more clearer about the situation. She also got her chance to ask questions about her curiosities. And how he spoke in a way that was not respectful of other people? Maybe your like towards Choa blinded you.

Same thing happened to me. Maybe my like towards Ju Yeon blinded me also but the way Jae Hyung talked to her made me sheeted with anger. He even didn't see at her even once during the conversation, so disrespectful, and even far more cruel than Yong Woo, so inconsiderate. Yong Woo still tried to soften it but Jae Hyung said it bluntly which hurt more. The panelists even had the audacity to say that it's better to have one strong punch than 100 weak punches. Such a nonsense. That strong punch can kill someone while someone still can recover from weak punches just like what Choa did. But well, Yong Woo had been made a villain while Jae Hyung was the golden child. So no one will bash him for his doing.

When did YW said "I don't like you because you don't communicate with others"?? I don't remember he said that to Choa. He did tell her though that he didn't become attracted to her more along the time they spent together means that he told her impliedly that the problem was on him, not her.

Aahh that's what you meant by decided to go to YH hahaha, "that day". But I think it's normal though. It would be abnormal if he still texted Choa after saying to her that he wasn't interested with her anymore. Following his "normal" pattern will be "keep pursuing her because of responsibility/obligation" like what he explained to Choa. People will bash him even more if he still texted Choa after that especially Choa's fans.

I think it's too quick to say that he decided to go to YH. He went to a date with YH and sorted his mind/feelings in the conversation with her so it's normal for him to send text to YH to thank her. We still need to watch further episodes. More than one person in comments above you even accused him will go to JW LOL. So we'll see whether he will go to YH or JW or none of them. But I think you most probably right that he's not interested in particular person at this moment.

You keep accusing me that I twisted your words and not understand your points!! So I explained myself repeatedly and you STILL don't understand. You are so defensive and not trying to understand my explanation. I already said why I got that impression and you explained why you said what you said. But you keep accusing me that I keep accusing you about having problem with exes couples hence I tried repeatedly to explain it. And I already said that you already explained yourself and I already explained mine. Because I already got your point, but seems you even never try to understand my point.

Improve your reading comprehension!!!!

Which words of yours that I twisted? You sounded unhappy because only the exes couples that last in S3. Whether it's a new couple or exes couple, we should be happy that they're lasting and find their happiness. You mentioned about more exciting to see people move on, you are not satisfied that only the exes couples last and mentioned about Haeeun and Hyungyu move on beautifully. All of those give impression that you don't care about the exes couples and their happiness. Hence my response about new rule.

I can be wrong but I think the reason why more exes couples that last compared to only one new couple as you mentioned is because the exes already know more deeper about each other compared to the new one. It's only about 3 weeks in the show and people only try to show the good side as much as possible, even if bad side shows then it's only minimal. So the new couple can only see each other good side but when they're out from the show and in society now, bad side and incompatibility starts to show up hence the break up. Exes couple that come back together won't have that problem. If they decide to come back together then they most probably have solved their past problem and try to change for better besides the attraction from their ex is still more than the new people around them. So even if there is more new couples compared to exes couples, there is no guarantee that there will be more lasting new couples compared to lasting exes couples.

And don't forget that this is Korean dating show. Most of the participants are only looking for fame, not new partner, So even if all of participants form new couples and no exes couple at all, it's still possible that all of them won't last and break up. The reason I mentioned about Chinese dating show is because they're more serious in finding their partner hence a really lot more lasting couples compared to the Korean ones.

You already explained yours and I already explain mine. So I don't think there is a need to prolong this anymore.

There is nothing wrong with what you said about wanting balance that's why i didn't mention anything about it. You want more lasting new couples but seems don't care about exes that come back together and keep emphasizing about new couples. I didn't see you mention about Nayeon and Heedo even once for S2 for example. And my response was that if it's like that then for the next season better to have a new rule that exes can't go back together. I am very clear in my two responses. Are you purposefully ignoring my point?

Because your first comment vibe/implied that you're not satisfied with exes getting back together and prefer for new couples formed instead. Half of the comment sounded as if you're dissatisfied with ex couples lasting and you prefer that the new couple that lasts instead.

(Even though we got 3 final pairings, it's a shame the only ones that lasted were ex couples. That's probably why s2 still remains the best)

(of course it's nice for exes to get back together, but there's something more exciting to see when people learn to finally let go of past relationships and genuinely move on to another one. Haeeun and Hyungyu did that beautifully)

And in your second comment:
(The whole reason why Transit Love s2 became so popular is Because a new lasting couple formed)

Those parts that were made me think if it's like that as you want then better for the next season that they make a new rule that exes can't go back together, because what's the point for that if what's more exciting is move on and what made the show so popular is a new couple formed (which is nice that they last till now). Exes that come back together and lasts is not or less exciting and not make the show popular, don't they?

BTW, maybe you know this already but just in case, Chinese Dating Shows have more lasting couples than the ones from Korean Dating Shows and they're newly formed (though off course that's because they're not exes). One of them married already and the rest are still dating till now. So maybe you'll enjoy watching the Chinese Dating Shows more rather than the Korean ones.

Friending everyone is not a problem, but not about giving chance. Not everyone is comfortable with the attention from the suitors that are not their interest, and if he/she gives chance to the suitors that they're not interested in then it can be troublesome in the pursuit of the one they're interested in, also can cause unnecessary misunderstanding to the person of their interest (even SS was misunderstood by JS just because she took a stroll with CH in the park).

And don't forget that CA is an introvert. That will be too overwhelming for her. She'll also get the backlashes and criticized by viewers like what JS got so far.

I don't agree with you though. Maybe it's more exciting for viewers to see when people learn to finally let go of past relationships and genuinely move on to another one and that Haeeun and Hyungyu did that beautifully. But we're talking about real people here that have feelings, not fictional characters in drama. That's why they're also allowed to get back to their exes. Just because it's their past relationship doesn't mean that it's not their best choice.

If you want all seasons like S2 just because of Haeeun and Hyungyu, maybe starting from next season they should change the rule that the exes can't go back to each other. Actually it's more exciting for me to see the exes learn how to resolve their problems in the past and trying to change for the better for their partner like what Changjin did to Yujung.

Why it's a shame that CA's attraction to YW stopped her from giving JS a chance? That's actually a good quality of her. She should only give someone else chance when she changed her mind/feelings. I don't think that you want her to be like JS, don't you?