moonfolk

It's his usual posture when talking. You can see it in the group conversation, in his private or one-on-one conversation, when they're waiting for the night texts to come in, and heck even in his first meeting with Jiwon which was basically they're still strangers at that time (and which made Jiwon attracted to him for some reasons). I guess that he even doesn't realize his posture when he's talking.

I think it's actually Yes I do Season 2 China Dating Show, not Season 1

Sadly that they don't remember, or maybe even don't care, that this is an edited show, and act as if these real people are fictional characters in drama, and so trying to justify their judgments just because those people being in the show.

Liking or disliking someone is normal, but judging people red flag blablabla just because of 1-2 episodes in an edited show is really laughable IMO.

(Just say "𝐈 𝐧𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈'𝐦 𝐧𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝". Terrible idea to continue to pursue someone out of responsibility/obligation.)

Yong Woo is a good talker in group environment as the rest even laughed that he's an attention seeker but that's only for common talks, not private one. He's obviously not articulate in one-on-one talk especially about serious matter, as you said that even his sister couldn't understand what he's trying to say, and even Yoon Ha. And he's also slow in understanding things.

He couldn't just say "𝐈 𝐧𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈'𝐦 𝐧𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝" bluntly also because it would hurt Cho A's feelings more. You can see in the comments how people raging about Yong Woo hurting Cho A's feelings even when he talked in a roundabout way, I can't imagine if he said it bluntly.

He's interested in Cho A from beginning until they arrived in Singapore, even at the beginning of the first date there. But something in the date then put him off and made him realized that reality and what he thought about Cho A was different. He's confused about his feelings and that's why he hated himself. So to confirmed and clarified himself then he still chose Cho A for the second date but things didn't work out.

And it's true that it's a terrible idea to continue to pursue someone out of responsibility/obligation. The conversation with Yoon Ha "enlightened" him. That's why he decided to talk about it to Cho A. But you see in comments that people are still raging to Yong Woo and said that he should do that from the beginning LOL. I don't know how they got the idea that when he finally changed his mind then he should time travel to the past.

(And that 𝗬𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗪𝗼𝗼 and 𝗬𝗼𝗼𝗻 𝗛𝗮 would make a good match as far as personalities go.)

I agree with this so far. Comparing his date with Cho A and Yoon Ha, you can see that Cho A was very serious and heavy in conversation that it almost didn't feel like a date, while Yoon Ha smiled and laughed a lot and made the conversation relaxing even when the topic was serious. I think there was personality clash between Yong Woo and Cho A.

(I want 𝗦𝗲 𝗦𝘂𝗻𝗴 to forget 𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘂𝗯, I'm tired of seeing these to go on a date have fun, get sulky & talk about the past.)

I read in a comment that said that the PD told that someone shocked them because of her final decision and the delusional JH-CA shippers thought that it's Cho A changed her mind from Yong Woo to Jae Hyung. I personally want that it's Se Seung and she'll choose Cheol Hyeon (maybe I am delusional also LOL).

(My poor 𝗝𝘂 𝗬𝗲𝗼𝗻 maybe if another sibling duo came in, I'd have hope she's leave with a match.)

She's my favourite also among the women. Too bad no one interested in her especially her crush Jae Hyung.

You can like somebody based on some things and not. But hate shouldn't be done towards any contestant in any case. <-- Well said, I wholeheartedly agree with you.

I hope SK can be understood also for her behaviors by many people. What she's doing on the screen maybe get someone's nerve but I also think that she's understandable. I can understand why she did this and that, but it will be a long preach again like Gyumin case. I just hope that through Gyumin that many people misunderstood and got many hates, people can be more understanding that she had her own reason also for her behavior, don't just label her as toxic or red flag or whatever. This is not addressed directly towards you but only a general statement. Sorry that i highjack your comment, and thank you also for replying nicely and explain yours.

About (what I didn't like was some of his actions, like him leaving her alone on the terrace and going to her shared room with nayeon to talk, leaving her alone, not even giving her a chance to speak, even his interviews were cold and heartless which didn't show any hardships or feelings which were shown later.) this, I disagree with you. Gyumin was clear about his feelings for Nayeon, but he's also still had some lingering feelings for Haeeun, and that could be seen in his interviews. He said that he didn't want to confuse Nayeon by interacting with Haeeun and so he built a wall. I could see that his effort to build a wall between him and Haeeun was because he tried to move on and not being swayed by his lingering feelings. I could clearly see this, but seems many people saw/think differently I don't know why. Gyumin looked cold in his interviews because he's good at controlling his feelings and a bit poker face. Though he crumbled at the end finally. DJ did the same thing and even worse than Gyumin. He's even went further by saying that DH's messages were spams. Yes, he helped Dahye when announcing jobs, but I think Gyumin would also do the same thing if he and Haeeun were in the same situation.

Gyumin's actions and words sometimes seems cold but DJ did the same thing also towards DH. And I already explain my opinion about their reasons above. But people seems to give hard treatment towards Gyumin and soft treatment towards DJ. Many people are more forgiving towards DJ but Gyumin got many hates. I think many people misunderstood Gyumin. I don't mean that DJ should get hate. Tbh, I dislike the red flag green flag game that many people play. They seems forget that this is an edited show. Many things offscreen were not shown, even what was shown in preview from previous episode can be edited out in the next episode. I just don't understand why there is double standard / different treatment between both of them? Even you admitted indirectly that if Haeeun didn't move on with Hyungyu then maybe you'll still hate/dislike Gyumin.

PS: I finally find out why my message kept being truncated.

From seeing your reply to a poster and you basically said you agreed with the poster and that SK is worse than Gyumin and about Gyumin's redemption, I think I can assume correctly that everything Gyumin did or said pissed you off and that you hate/dislike Gyumin.

But reading your comment here about DJ, I don't feel the same vibe. DJ is basically Gyumin v2. They both had a very long relationship with their exes. They both wanted to move on. They both tried to build a wall between them and their exes. Gyumin even said many times in his interviews that he didn't want to confuse Nayeon by interacting with Haeeun. But I saw many hates towards Gyumin (I assume including you). But only frustration being expressed to DJ. Why the different treatment or thinking towards both of them? I think Gyumin was even better than DJ. He never confused either Nayeon or Haeeun, unlike what DJ did to HW.

So Mi couldn't voted Da Boem anymore before she died. She voted already. The reason she was revealed as a mafia was because she voted for Na Hee, resulting Na Hee revealed her identity as a police to check So Mi's identity as revenge, and that's why So Mi was caught.