GoldMedalist just admitted some damning truths just today in their most recent statement (#8).1. They never had…
Quick question, have they proven the connection between gold medalist and smear campaign? I know there has been very plausible allegations, but certain things are getting lost in translation. Regardless, I agree with you on the intentional cruelty on their part.
The family has a perfectly concise statement:"We just wanted an apology, but this is disappointing.The agency…
Glad they’re sticking up for their baby. Also it’s part of their grieving. I just wish they would have protected their child at the young age they handed her to the entertainment industry wolves. I hope they can speak to this in the future, when the legal battles have settled. We need their voices. This problem goes beyond these two people. Big sickness.
What I find dubious and murky territory are the statements around the debt, threats of legal action… what her…
As to our role as witness, and holding toxic behavior accountable, it is a good time to reflect on how we do this… Are we taking care of our triggers and activations, in order to be able to respond with coherence. How am I owning my blind spots in the system/culture that has perpetuated this and making steps to mature my relationship to it?
As of today what is 💯 irrefutable is that he groomed KSR starting at a ridiculously young age, since he met…
What I find dubious and murky territory are the statements around the debt, threats of legal action… what her understanding was is unknown/speculative (unfortunately)…there were standard legal practice on behalf of agency to protect their product in the face of her (understandable) erratic behavior… It is not clear if they were using excessive pressure or if she just felt that way given the overwhelming situation in her life and the way she was trying to make sense of it all… edit to acknowledge that either way, it seems it was meant to scare her and put her in line with their agenda.
In the end someone she thought was a safe haven completely eradicated all trust when she reached for help, escalating her mental breakdown. KSH and further, gold medalist, had a huge part in this. Sadly, so did her family, that should have protected her all along, cancel culture, toxic media and internet vampires. KSH cannot be made responsible for the entirety of the decision to terminate her life, though there is much he can and should own in the matter (as stated above).
It is also unclear to me at the moment (waiting on diary, for example) what exactly was going on in the grooming phase of their relationship, or if he can say they were not yet dating and hold it as true (in his mind). This may change as meta data (cyber forensics) are revealed. Right now this is heavy on speculation based on what side we are on. It won’t be long before it is clear.
As of today what is 💯 irrefutable is that he groomed KSR starting at a ridiculously young age, since he met her as a prepubescent girl.
Also, the fact that they were exchanging sentiments of love/dating from at least the end of his military service.
He coerced, love bombed , and future faked (marriage), manipulative strategies often used by people with personality disorders like narcissism, at a time where her brain wasn’t even done developing. This could very much have led to severe mental health issues and trauma for the girl and subsequently the young woman.
It is no accident that she chose to end her life with a statement to him, on his birthday. That along with the photos of the couple she posted that January were clear signs that in her mind, her world shattered and he was at the center of that fantasy.
All of the above are things he could easily apologize for, take responsibility (perhaps with “nicer” language) and still be sitting pretty under Korean legal paradigms. If he is on the npd spectrum (narcissism) this is something he absolutely won’t be able to do, however, as the reality built on an empty shell would fully crumble (like KSR in her way). His agency has already begun to name his emotional destabilization as a result of what is occurring. This in no way can be easy for him, as it involves his entire perception of reality and the fog and mirrors he built around his perfectly constructed persona.
Now, what is murky/unclear, or seems debatable below👇🏽 . Plus, a word to our choices as witness to this trauma that was not only very specific, but part of a dark systemic underbelly, deeply embedded across the cultures of this world.
Grooming is not only prevalent in SK entertainment industry, Hollywood is also a bedrock of pedophiles. https://news.un.org/en/story/2024/03/1147247With…
Hollywood and Disney are the og. Nothing to see there folks 😡
Does anyone know what time Viki will release episode 9? Viki used to release kdrama episodes within 2 hours of…
I agree that they are taking lomger, even with my refreshing tricks. Now dramas airing on kocowa way longer, while its out on kocowa right away (even before subs). It seems there is a competitive point here.
I feel for all the gold medalist actors that will unwillingly be implicated. Those with the means may be able to get out of their contracts and switch representation, but how about the many just trying to “make it” or stay afloat? Ouch 😣 So much damage.
I compared the astrological horoscopes of KSR and KSH (no birth times available). She is strong Leo and Cancer,…
So this is an attempt to sound neutral by using western astrology natal chart, only looking at dynamics in chart whilst ignoring the age at time of involvement, in response to “grooming” accusations. However, there are speculative and false statements such as “I can imagine that the agency pressured him to distance himself”. The agency is literally HIS agency and imagining has nothing to do with the astrology or the truth of the situation. These statements are thereby lacking coherence and are having the opposite effect as intended, @kdmd.
Just thoughts I work with, if it inspires anyone.
Stay well and healthy!
It is not clear if they were using excessive pressure or if she just felt that way given the overwhelming situation in her life and the way she was trying to make sense of it all… edit to acknowledge that either way, it seems it was meant to scare her and put her in line with their agenda.
In the end someone she thought was a safe haven completely eradicated all trust when she reached for help, escalating her mental breakdown. KSH and further, gold medalist, had a huge part in this. Sadly, so did her family, that should have protected her all along, cancel culture, toxic media and internet vampires. KSH cannot be made responsible for the entirety of the decision to terminate her life, though there is much he can and should own in the matter (as stated above).
It is also unclear to me at the moment (waiting on diary, for example) what exactly was going on in the grooming phase of their relationship, or if he can say they were not yet dating and hold it as true (in his mind). This may change as meta data (cyber forensics) are revealed. Right now this is heavy on speculation based on what side we are on. It won’t be long before it is clear.
Also, the fact that they were exchanging sentiments of love/dating from at least the end of his military service.
He coerced, love bombed , and future faked (marriage), manipulative strategies often used by people with personality disorders like narcissism, at a time where her brain wasn’t even done developing. This could very much have led to severe mental health issues and trauma for the girl and subsequently the young woman.
It is no accident that she chose to end her life with a statement to him, on his birthday. That along with the photos of the couple she posted that January were clear signs that in her mind, her world shattered and he was at the center of that fantasy.
All of the above are things he could easily apologize for, take responsibility (perhaps with “nicer” language) and still be sitting pretty under Korean legal paradigms. If he is on the npd spectrum (narcissism) this is something he absolutely won’t be able to do, however, as the reality built on an empty shell would fully crumble (like KSR in her way). His agency has already begun to name his emotional destabilization as a result of what is occurring. This in no way can be easy for him, as it involves his entire perception of reality and the fog and mirrors he built around his perfectly constructed persona.
Now, what is murky/unclear, or seems debatable below👇🏽 . Plus, a word to our choices as witness to this trauma that was not only very specific, but part of a dark systemic underbelly, deeply embedded across the cultures of this world.