He Suye is a better person than I’m am! I would’ve hated it if my partner forced me to make amends with my…
You cannot escape your parents in Asian culture. She never forced. All she just suggested if they could have dinner together for which HSY agreed. His father is not even part of his daily life like his grandpa. You can just never abandon some relations. This is more realistic in context of the setting.
They might try redeem his father which I don't really agree on unless there's more to the story than what we know. That doesn't mean they have to cut ties, no. HSY should be filial not necessarily back to caring for his father. Hopefully, SXF doesn't try to act like 'i will fix them' person.
Some of these creative choices are poor especially towards late end of the show. All these developments should have been done between 15-25 eps. I was looking forward to her journey of dealing with this but they might skip that portrayal.
This show did not monologues but rather one-to-one conversations with someone. She had to come to a point to be…
The points that I've mentioned has nothing to do with POVs. This is a dual-pov drama. Even if it was a WYF's story that does not negate how other characters play part in her story.
'the plot is burdened with having to shoulder her trauma they didn't want the spotlight taken away from that'
This is the point I made. Her going away is just a weak plot point attempt at portraying the adverse effects. This also highlights how little-to-no SY's presence had on her. The idea was to use SY as a catalyst to let believe in herself and gather courage to move on in life from that phase. Or maybe she could have gotten therapy early.
'however everyone's reality is different.' But we are aware of her reality even from her pov. Her growth should have been done anywhere between 18-25 episodes including dealing with her family. And for this it was necessary for her to have faith on why she should be moving forward. You need help dealing with trauma, a reality check if I were to be blunt. The show did not attempt to tackle this rather gave us a unnecessary time-skip instead of letting us experience her recovery.
I wonder if the drama would not be so controversial if we got more monologues from Wang Yifan, yes we got a few…
This show did not monologues but rather one-to-one conversations with someone. She had to come to a point to be brave enough to open up about the past. The writers failed this dynamic between ML-FL. They gave ML 1D arc without having his own characterization align with her. Additionally, it does not really make sense for FL to be even in this relationship considering her own past with him and her not being able to have faith to let someone in her personal space. The only explanation is that she wished to rely on someone so she goes for the only option she has which does not really help her to face her issues.
Her spending time with SY just created a illusion of safety for her which got burst when things went south. SY is too dormant to bring anything out of her. Perhaps, a ML with more vibrant and mature characteristics would have been more compatible for her situation. These type of people will have more chance of breaking her walls. The fact that anyone has barely suggested or pushed her for professional help all these years is insane.
'the plot is burdened with having to shoulder her trauma they didn't want the spotlight taken away from that'
This is the point I made. Her going away is just a weak plot point attempt at portraying the adverse effects. This also highlights how little-to-no SY's presence had on her. The idea was to use SY as a catalyst to let believe in herself and gather courage to move on in life from that phase. Or maybe she could have gotten therapy early.
'however everyone's reality is different.'
But we are aware of her reality even from her pov. Her growth should have been done anywhere between 18-25 episodes including dealing with her family. And for this it was necessary for her to have faith on why she should be moving forward. You need help dealing with trauma, a reality check if I were to be blunt. The show did not attempt to tackle this rather gave us a unnecessary time-skip instead of letting us experience her recovery.
Her spending time with SY just created a illusion of safety for her which got burst when things went south. SY is too dormant to bring anything out of her. Perhaps, a ML with more vibrant and mature characteristics would have been more compatible for her situation. These type of people will have more chance of breaking her walls. The fact that anyone has barely suggested or pushed her for professional help all these years is insane.