tinygreencollective

I agree. If you are honest and open to your friend and they may be uncomfortable you've at least given them the opportunity to express their feelings, positive or negative. When you don't give people a chance to share their thoughts or make assumptions, misunderstandings and miscommunication roll on in.

Please keep rating each episode if you can everyone. It all helps even though MDL is not totally reliable?

Well said. I have very similar experiences to yours lately!

I agree. I was disappointed that I could never get that time back as I gave XK all the patience and waited and waited till about Ep 27 then said to myself....why am I putting myself through this pain of emptiness?

I watch for enjoyment and sweet moments so like you I dropped BCE because the toxicity of the mother didn't balance out thestory. Oh forgot, the mother was the story!

Keep rating each episode helps. Thank you.

I'm rating each episode I've watched to help out. If people can rate each episode it does help the show. Thank you.

ZD is there to show how women in belittling others belittling themselves. She has low self esteem because she behaves in this way.

I couldn't agree.... lets wait till the end or rate each episode. I'm really enjoying both leads and imo its a good piece of modern drama for Xu Kai which promotes him in a mature and realistic light. I don't know why its not getting more promotion......

Totally agree... I've not seen that in a C drama where the ML showed integrity in such an mature, honest and thoughtful manner. Well done HT.

Totally agree... I've not seen that in a C drama where the ML showed integrity in such an mature, honest and thoughtful manner. Well done HT.

The annoying mother ruined BCE for me. Nothing against the actress just the script. It took me out of the warmth of the story. She was a real dampner.

I agree. Its annoying and it seems to be with the stars with large fanbases. We are here for the story and to be entertained. If people don't like it turn it off. Simple.

Totally agree, Love XK but had to drop BCE even after I stuck it out for 28 episodes as could not cope with the behaviour of her Mother even though I understood the cultural drivers. I found it too imposing and the other characters seem to pivot around her.it should have been called Mothers Choice Forever. I'm here for Xu Kai and 7 who is a lovely actress.

Oh thank you!

Does anyone know the significance of the fireflies in the lantern in the opening credits. Perhaps I've missed that point? Thank you.

Does anyone know the significance of the fireflies in the lantern in the opening credits. Perhaps I've missed that point? Thank you.

Thank you for your voice of reason. I was a little perturbed by the distraction of comments around the commitment levels of the Lead couple in their first life. I haven't read the novel nor will I. This is a "drama"tization of the novel as a guide. If people decide that the perceived values of the Lead couple don't align with theirs...all good, don't continue to watch. In life you will meet many people with inconsistent values and behaviours to your own.

Interesting viewpoint - like it!

You're very helpful person! I'm glad you like C dramas too.