So YL r*ped JXN many times in the first life, according to novel reader and some flash backs in the drama. I just…
Dear lord, I thought I was the only one who had a problem with that ! Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him. But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where I can feel soft-hearted when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN. I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape, because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic. I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness but not when I see him being rejected
i love wei long but why wouldn't they use Victor Ma as Sang Yan? He IS SANG YAN 😩😩😩
Maybe (I don’t know, I haven’t watched Hidden Love) but he’s not famous enough And the producers will not just consider talent when hiring actors but also the actors’ fame Unfair but that’s the way it is
im only in ep 11 but the mother get any better? I'm so fucking annoyed of her I just wanna slap her
Nope ! At some point, female lead’s sister will suffer a blow and their mom will totally blame in on Ning Er’s bad reputation and yell at her as usual and Xie Wei will kinda put her back in her place by pointing at her she’s being a biased shrew (not in those words though)
I wonder if they’ll keep everything like the original I hope not because his new wife is such a manipulative gold digger, she does not deserve to get his love a second time
Edit : but I hope he’ll end up with her cute and nice sister !
Maybe LGX was just a fake or baseless rumor Or maybe they simply considered him for a very short but when people heard about it, the rumor grew until people wrongly believed it had already been decided
It just baffles me how novel readers say xie wei is so red flag (towards xuening) when at this point in the drama,…
Thé novel and the drama ain’t so different… Honestly, I wouldn’t call him a red flag… Sure, he’s no angel and he can be scary but that’s how morally grey characters are… Some people just want PERFECT/SAINT leads… Personally I like leads who have flaws and can be a bit bad… it seems to give them a REAL personality… I just don’t see why all leads absolutely have to be morally flawless (sure there are some flaws I can’t tolerate in some characters but Xie Wei presents none of these Some even said he was a rapist in the novel : lol, as someone who HATES rapist and toxic male leads AND who has read the novel, I can personally attest that Xie Wei is neither a rapist nor a toxic partner to the woman he loves… he’s not flawless but he will definitely treat the woman he loves right !
In the novel, does Zhang Zhe get jealous in the second life?
Not really… He still loves Xue Ning… But the pains from the previous life stop them from being together So I think he kinda considers he had no right to be jealous of someone who’s not his, since he gave up on being with her on his own
Just curious, why does MDL often put the drama/movie that aren't confirmed yet?
The drama was actually confirmed Only it was a confirmed by an unknown company which is in financial troubles so this is why we won’t get this before a few years (until some other company buys the adaptation rights). But technically speaking, MDL had no reason to refuse to put this drama back then
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Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him.
But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where I can feel soft-hearted when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected
I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN.
I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape, because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me
I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily
The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic.
I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness but not when I see him being rejected
I feel like i’m reliving Love Like The Galaxy !
And the producers will not just consider talent when hiring actors but also the actors’ fame
Unfair but that’s the way it is
At some point, female lead’s sister will suffer a blow and their mom will totally blame in on Ning Er’s bad reputation and yell at her as usual and Xie Wei will kinda put her back in her place by pointing at her she’s being a biased shrew (not in those words though)
I hope not because his new wife is such a manipulative gold digger, she does not deserve to get his love a second time
Edit : but I hope he’ll end up with her cute and nice sister !
After his death, he transmigrates in the body of a much younger man
Green flag dies killed by the nang rai…
But from what I’ve read somewhere, he doesn’t die here, although he won’t end up with FL
Or maybe they simply considered him for a very short but when people heard about it, the rumor grew until people wrongly believed it had already been decided
Honestly, I wouldn’t call him a red flag… Sure, he’s no angel and he can be scary but that’s how morally grey characters are…
Some people just want PERFECT/SAINT leads… Personally I like leads who have flaws and can be a bit bad… it seems to give them a REAL personality… I just don’t see why all leads absolutely have to be morally flawless (sure there are some flaws I can’t tolerate in some characters but Xie Wei presents none of these
Some even said he was a rapist in the novel : lol, as someone who HATES rapist and toxic male leads AND who has read the novel, I can personally attest that Xie Wei is neither a rapist nor a toxic partner to the woman he loves… he’s not flawless but he will definitely treat the woman he loves right !
He still loves Xue Ning…
But the pains from the previous life stop them from being together
So I think he kinda considers he had no right to be jealous of someone who’s not his, since he gave up on being with her on his own
Only it was a confirmed by an unknown company which is in financial troubles so this is why we won’t get this before a few years (until some other company buys the adaptation rights). But technically speaking, MDL had no reason to refuse to put this drama back then
I’d be damn surprised if they keep this title when this finally gets adapted (which won’t be before a few years, in my opinion)