But isn't rebirth dramas banned in china, how will they pass this censorship,even if they film. Are they gonna…
It was banned but it seems it’s actually slowly but surely passing the censorship : I mean, we found it Lost Track if Time and in SOKP, it’s still here even though there’s a very subtle transition to convey it
And second : am I the only one who wants to smack not only her mother but also her sister (not as much as her…
Yeah I know she’s a good person, that’s why I do feel a bit guilty but I don’t know, I just can’t get myself to like her Kinda like when there’s an actor or actress that everyone seems to adore but or some reason, not you don’t see what makes people so crazy about them, you even kinda dislike them
Okay, so I have two unpopular opinions and I’d be curious to know if i’m the only one who feels that way.…
And second : am I the only one who wants to smack not only her mother but also her sister (not as much as her mom) ? I mean, let's not even mention that even when Ning Ning does good, she scolds and belittles her, that she never gives her either marks of love or real advices of guidance and yet expects her to behave But the sister also annoys me because she's so... perfect. URGH ! I know, she's a good girl. But her Bodhisattva heart makes it really hard for me to relate to her. And every time she uses her sweet little voice with her sweet little smile... I'm sorry, this is just so annoying. She reminds of these perfect, extremely kind and forgiving female leads that we used to see before in dramas, who forgive and understand everyone. I feel someone like her, who's never really known suffering, and also a a heart and a kindness above everyone reaction to have cannot possibly comprehend the feelings of those who do not have as much want to have more and do not succeed at being as morally good as her. And yet despite being unable to understand the sufferings of others or how people can do bad things or have bad thoughts, she will still offer them her almighty kind and merciful judgement, but like one offers alms or charity : oh poor them, it's not their fault, they didn't have as many chances, let's give these poor souls some charity. Moreover, apart from being overly kind, she has no real personality But what annoys me most : in this particular episode, she says that her mom is like the saying "love well, whip well". Sure, you dummy, encourage your mother ! Basically say that her awfully mean remarks to her daughter are actually a sign of love, and that therefore it's actually not so bad, sure go ahead ! Now, I don't expect her to necessarily stand up for her sister because honestly, she doesn't have to but if that's the only kindness she has to offer, she might as well keep it Honestly, I don't think her exceeding kindness is actually of any real help : I feel like sometimes, she would have had much chances of really helping everyone by not giving in so easily (and I'm in good place to know : I have a half-sister and there was a time where I was also trying to be the overly kind one. On the other hand, my sister was the temperamental one. And then someday, I realized that being kind was of no use for us both, that maybe it was worsening thing. So I went ahead and fought her when she asked for it. And it wasn't easy sure, but still better that when I was trying to be a saint). By trying to be overly kind, she's actually putting Ning Er in a more difficult position : first it makes Ning Er look even worse in the eyes of their mom. Second, it actually hurts Ning Er more than anything. The more she is kind and tolerant Ning Er, the more Ning Er will feel angry, frustrated and also, the more she will feel bad about herself. And third, when she's trying to mediate between their mom and her sis', she's really making things worse : because she's too dumb to realize that being sweet to her mom won't make her stop being unfair, she's accidentally/unconsciously encouraging her in her harsh words, making it harder for her sister. And by involving herself in a fight that should stay between their mom and her sis', she's just annoying Xuening even more and growing the gap between the mom and Xuening ' Okay, now I'm sorry, I know I'm being weirdly mean, and I do feel a little guilty for this one but I just can't help it. Now if it wasn't for her stupid and biased mom, maybe I could tolerate her, but I don’t know, when I see her, it’s like seeing a mosquitoes : it makes me irk, grit my teeth and I have an urge to either open the window to get her out or to smash her out Edit : okay, after a few episodes, I hate her less now. Anyway, I won’t hate her as much as her mom
Okay, so I have two unpopular opinions and I’d be curious to know if i’m the only one who feels that way.…
Am I the only who doesn’t pity YL as much as everybody does and who can’t help but remember how he eventually raped her out of revenge ? I mean, everyone is like « oh poor he ! He’s so touching ! So devoted ! He so deserves Ning Er’s love, I feel so sad for his unrewarded love » Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him. But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where i can forgive him and forget when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat like a stone on which I’d be choking on : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN. I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape (I don’t know why this topic makes me so sensitive since I had no experience about this), because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic. It can mix with his hatred and become something dangerous and destructive. I mean, when you love someone, you don’t hurt them like this, you don’t fall so low no matter what they did to you or if your love is now mixed with hatred and resentment. I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness, how he eventually hated everything in this world, including him, and possibly himself but not when I see him being rejected
Okay, so I have two unpopular opinions and I’d be curious to know if i’m the only one who feels that way. Now I’ll put on spoiler ‘cause they’re quite long to read :
Even if the woman is a bad person, doesn't mean she should be raped, else FL might have felt guilty of what she…
ML wasn’t really « okay » with the rapes… first time it happened he had Yan Lin beat up and was honestly really angry When it kept happening he eventually gave her a knife so that she would kill Yan Lin (not realizing that this would actually lead to her death because of her misunderstanding) So I think we can clearly say that Xie Wei was not okay with YL raping her…
in the novel yes it was several times it was bad. like yanlin became someone else. what i admire about JXN tho…
To say he let it happen is not exact if I recall He punched YL when it happened the first time and gave JXN a knife to defend herself (although she misunderstood that it was to kill herself)
So YL r*ped JXN many times in the first life, according to novel reader and some flash backs in the drama. I just…
Dear lord, I thought I was the only one who had a problem with that ! Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him. But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where I can feel soft-hearted when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN. I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape, because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic. I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness but not when I see him being rejected
i love wei long but why wouldn't they use Victor Ma as Sang Yan? He IS SANG YAN 😩😩😩
Maybe (I don’t know, I haven’t watched Hidden Love) but he’s not famous enough And the producers will not just consider talent when hiring actors but also the actors’ fame Unfair but that’s the way it is
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Maybe the fact that he was listed here, on mydramalist, and on Baidu as a 3rd ML
In that case, sorry but I’ve lost all interest here (what a disappointment)
but I don’t know, I just can’t get myself to like her
Kinda like when there’s an actor or actress that everyone seems to adore but or some reason, not you don’t see what makes people so crazy about them, you even kinda dislike them
I mean, let's not even mention that even when Ning Ning does good, she scolds and belittles her, that she never gives her either marks of love or real advices of guidance and yet expects her to behave
But the sister also annoys me because she's so... perfect. URGH ! I know, she's a good girl. But her Bodhisattva heart makes it really hard for me to relate to her. And every time she uses her sweet little voice with her sweet little smile... I'm sorry, this is just so annoying. She reminds of these perfect, extremely kind and forgiving female leads that we used to see before in dramas, who forgive and understand everyone. I feel someone like her, who's never really known suffering, and also a a heart and a kindness above everyone reaction to have cannot possibly comprehend the feelings of those who do not have as much want to have more and do not succeed at being as morally good as her. And yet despite being unable to understand the sufferings of others or how people can do bad things or have bad thoughts, she will still offer them her almighty kind and merciful judgement, but like one offers alms or charity : oh poor them, it's not their fault, they didn't have as many chances, let's give these poor souls some charity.
Moreover, apart from being overly kind, she has no real personality
But what annoys me most : in this particular episode, she says that her mom is like the saying "love well, whip well". Sure, you dummy, encourage your mother ! Basically say that her awfully mean remarks to her daughter are actually a sign of love, and that therefore it's actually not so bad, sure go ahead ! Now, I don't expect her to necessarily stand up for her sister because honestly, she doesn't have to but if that's the only kindness she has to offer, she might as well keep it
Honestly, I don't think her exceeding kindness is actually of any real help : I feel like sometimes, she would have had much chances of really helping everyone by not giving in so easily (and I'm in good place to know : I have a half-sister and there was a time where I was also trying to be the overly kind one. On the other hand, my sister was the temperamental one. And then someday, I realized that being kind was of no use for us both, that maybe it was worsening thing. So I went ahead and fought her when she asked for it. And it wasn't easy sure, but still better that when I was trying to be a saint). By trying to be overly kind, she's actually putting Ning Er in a more difficult position : first it makes Ning Er look even worse in the eyes of their mom. Second, it actually hurts Ning Er more than anything. The more she is kind and tolerant Ning Er, the more Ning Er will feel angry, frustrated and also, the more she will feel bad about herself. And third, when she's trying to mediate between their mom and her sis', she's really making things worse : because she's too dumb to realize that being sweet to her mom won't make her stop being unfair, she's accidentally/unconsciously encouraging her in her harsh words, making it harder for her sister. And by involving herself in a fight that should stay between their mom and her sis', she's just annoying Xuening even more and growing the gap between the mom and Xuening '
Okay, now I'm sorry, I know I'm being weirdly mean, and I do feel a little guilty for this one but I just can't help it. Now if it wasn't for her stupid and biased mom, maybe I could tolerate her, but I don’t know, when I see her, it’s like seeing a mosquitoes : it makes me irk, grit my teeth and I have an urge to either open the window to get her out or to smash her out
Edit : okay, after a few episodes, I hate her less now. Anyway, I won’t hate her as much as her mom
Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him.
But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where i can forgive him and forget when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected
I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat like a stone on which I’d be choking on : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN.
I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape (I don’t know why this topic makes me so sensitive since I had no experience about this), because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me
I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily
The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic. It can mix with his hatred and become something dangerous and destructive. I mean, when you love someone, you don’t hurt them like this, you don’t fall so low no matter what they did to you or if your love is now mixed with hatred and resentment.
I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness, how he eventually hated everything in this world, including him, and possibly himself but not when I see him being rejected
She’s be perfect for this part !
When it kept happening he eventually gave her a knife so that she would kill Yan Lin (not realizing that this would actually lead to her death because of her misunderstanding)
So I think we can clearly say that Xie Wei was not okay with YL raping her…
He punched YL when it happened the first time and gave JXN a knife to defend herself (although she misunderstood that it was to kill herself)
Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason why JXN feels so guilty towards him is because her betrayal towards him when he was at his lowest made him lose himself, lose his original innocence and goodness, and turned him into this twisted, self-destructive creature who raped her and who wasn’t the real him.
But I feel like i don’t pity him as much as everyone does : a little but no more. It’s not to the point when I feel like he deserves to have JXN’s love in this life or where I can feel soft-hearted when I see him being sweet with her or to feel sorry for him when he gets rejected
I’m sorry but the fact that he raped her in the previous life remains stuck in my throat : every time I think of that, I want both to throw up and cry out like a baby for JXN.
I don’t know, maybe i’m biased because I have zero tolerance for rape, because I can’t stand any character of Bai Lu being bullied or because I pity JXN for having lacked so much love in the previous life. But every time I see him, the light rape scene replays in front of me
I know : it was FL’s heartless and cruel betrayal towards him that made him lose his original self. But lots of guys gets heartlessly betrayed by the girl they love, they don’t go rape her ! There’s no excuse for that and I feel like everyone forgives him so easily
The thing that bothers me is that the fact that he raped her in previous proves two things : first, that means he CAN. He CAN be a rapist under some circumstances. Some men will never use rape as revenge, no matter what, but YL is unfortunately no part of them. And the second thing : that proves that his love for JXN is not so pure as it looks. It can become obsessive and toxic.
I’m sorry but because of that, i can’t feel so sorry for him when I see FL reject him. I do feel a bit of pity when I recall his fall into madness but not when I see him being rejected
I feel like i’m reliving Love Like The Galaxy !
And the producers will not just consider talent when hiring actors but also the actors’ fame
Unfair but that’s the way it is